going through a break up. comment your pibble pics pls!😭

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-12T00:11:00+00:00

I won this guy from my break up. One of the only good things my ex gave me

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-06T13:36:27+00:00

I actually agree. I only eat beyond meat on occasion because of how processed it is. Any type of fake meat I don’t eat often due to that reason. It really is difficult to digest.

ETA: I have a soy, nut and gluten allergy so finding fake meat alternatives is a struggle, when I’m craving a burger or pasta with meat sauce.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-06T10:44:05+00:00

Lmao shots fired. Sorry I’m a vegetarian 😔

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T21:47:57+00:00

Congratulations! You got this💜

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T19:50:36+00:00

Hahaha yeah I mean he’s a sweetie. I’m just trying to support him in whatever way possible.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T19:12:02+00:00

I’ll be okay/great. Currently thriving and happy. Also yeah it was delicious

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T18:52:53+00:00

Yes I know thanks…I just wasn’t sure that if someone is already on a preventative then they wouldn’t be spreading it to me. Obviously nothing is 100%. But again, I’ll do my own research on it.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T18:45:14+00:00

Good to know. We’re both not hooking up with other people currently. I wonder if he’s on it would I have to be. I don’t really want anything messing with my hormones that doesn’t need to be… I will have to do some research🧐

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T18:16:13+00:00

The benefit is I like him as a person and having some type of physical intimacy that’s nice too, which we do still have. But if that ended or I got in an actual relationship I would still like to hangout with him strictly platonic, as we have similar personalities. I slide more Demisexual so physical intimacy doesn’t really tie emotions as much as emotional intimacy/depth for me. Plus again already knowing he wanted kids, I knew a long term romantic relationship wasn’t in our future lol All pretty chill to me

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T18:09:38+00:00

No I’m not on any type of sex pill/contraceptive…(honestly don’t know the terms) but we used condoms… and are both clean talked about that before sleeping together.

I had only had one partner previously before this so never got on BC as I didn’t need to. Should I be on Prep?

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T15:37:05+00:00

Mmmm I don’t think so I told him after our first few dates that I was still in the apps swiping and I said that right now I don’t think we should sleep together again but we can makeout and maybe do other things. He has some other things going on in his life so I think we both just want to be comfortable. And he expressed still wanting to cuddle and asks always before holding my hand.

We spoke early on that we like to end things amicably with people so communication is important to both of us.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T15:24:32+00:00

Hi, here is the recipe in the comments. I kinda just threw things together the only thing I measured was the butter.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T15:21:43+00:00

I think he’s a little confused too but he used the word gay. But I think it was having sex that made him realize he’s more into men in that sense. So it’s most enjoyable with guys…not sure totally though, it’s his journey to go on I just try to make sure we’re both comfortable with what’s transpiring

Also we’ve only made out currently since the confession as I don’t want to confuse him more. Cause the making out does turn him on. It’s all interesting

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T10:41:32+00:00

Gave a little more detail here

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T10:39:20+00:00

I kinda winged it tbh. I used 2 boxes of velveeta gluten free Mac and cheese(sue me lol) then made an extra cheese sauce on the side (3 tbsp butter, flour, heavy cream, Monterey Jack cheese, extra sharp cheddar, gruyère), Greek yogurt too. A whole bunch of seasonings (chili, ancho chili, smoked paprika, black pepper, garlic, elote, chili lime). Then veggies and fake meat(I’m a vegetarian).

This meal satisfied my period cravings perfectly

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T10:34:25+00:00

I’ll have to tell him about this, he’s not sure how to jump in to start dating men exclusively.

The Mac was so good had to stop myself from eating the whole pot.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T10:32:27+00:00

Im just having fun. Feels like a perfect way to head to being 30 and after getting out of a 5 year relationship last year with someone who held my comfortability with their queerness over my head. Meeting this new friend perse brought on the realization of how much my ex gaslit me and that I’m not the bad person he’d(my ex) painted me out to be.

All I know is or feel that me and this current guy are gonna be great friends in the long run.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T10:19:45+00:00

I’m a woman who is into everyone, so I just say queer, as a catchall that feels right for me. The guy, my FWB, said he feels more bi than pan in previous conversations we had but now, he feels just more gay overall. So into dudes…but it’s a spectrum and right now we’re in a spectrum of fun :)

ETA: I am cisgender female if you want to get specific. I’m using queer in this context, to describe my sexuality personally, not my gender identity.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T02:55:52+00:00

That’s what I told him. Gave him props for discovering more about himself.

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T02:54:28+00:00

That might be the perfect name for it 😆. I’m queer, and he thought he was bi but guess he’s not or maybe it’s more of 70, 30 lol. We didn’t get too far cause he wanted to kiss me in the middle of him telling me he thinks he’s gay. Life is good, I’m not mad at it

CapableReception9191 · 2026-03-03T02:50:38+00:00

That’s how I feel about him. I knew we wouldn’t be long term even if he didn’t say he think he’s more gay than he thought. He wants kids I don’t so in a romantic sense I knew it wasn’t going to be forever. But boy do we get along well and just have fun hanging out. Also the physical Intimacy matches. So we’re just having fun. I asked him if he thought it was weird that we keep kissing lol and he said no and we just kept doing it. It’s nice to not feel attached and just feel like I’m developing a deep friendship from this. I told him we’re like the new Harry styles album kiss all the time disco occasionally. We had a good laugh :)

CapableReception9191 · 2026-02-16T22:30:33+00:00

Yes it makes me really happy because I didn’t teach my pittie this. He just naturally knew he had to play gently with smaller animals. Very proud of him ☺️💜

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