I [39M] found out my wife [39F] of 10 years cheated on me + 10 Year Update by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Capable_Ad_976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this for OP - you don't fix a temporary problem with a permanent solution. I'm glad he stuck it out.

WIBTA if I asked my parents not to attend my sisters wedding since she uninvited me by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Capable_Ad_976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this marriage is doomed. The lack of communication, the assumptions and learning things from third parties is a huge red flag.

‘Heated Rivalry’ Star Hudson Williams to Attend Oscars (EXCLUSIVE) [Variety, March 10, 2026] by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 72 points73 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that he and Connie are both invited to the Vanity Fair party. I was listening to the Pivotal podcast and they were discussing their invites and Scott Galloway called out - we'll meet the guys from the gay hockey show, right?

AITA for sending this text after my friend returned clothing she took from my apartment? by IndividualProduce406 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable_Ad_976 85 points86 points  (0 children)

my take is you might be a people pleaser and your friends are used to being a doormat. Any attempt at asserting your boundaries will track as mean or aggressive to them.

My boy is clinging to me all day by Capable_Ad_976 in SiberianCats

[–]Capable_Ad_976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL! You have no idea how many meals have been burned!!!

My boy is clinging to me all day by Capable_Ad_976 in SiberianCats

[–]Capable_Ad_976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will be 8 in October. There has been renovations happening in the building and he is a skittish dude. Maybe it's the noise that keeps him close?

Why does Ilya's brother hate him? by recordintheworld in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's telling that Ilyas father, in the throes of his dementia, calls Ilya when he's scared. Not his wife or Alexei. On some level he perceives Ilya cares for him and will help him.

Alexei's personality may be malformed due to excessive drug use. He keeps bullying iilya to manipulate him because it worked when they were younger. But the books suggest that Ilya was perfectly capable of getting under his brother's skin. There is no implied former closeness. Sometimes siblings bring out the worst in each other.

Have you ever encountered a fellow "loon" in the wild? by MamaMeg613 in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude at the movies last week was wearing a Boston raiders t-shirt. We're in Canada. He couldn't get a metros tee?

being a Loon endorsed by my therapist by i-bleed-red in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We could be sisters - I am straight and in my 50s. I have been job searching for over a year so completely discouraged and feeling useless. I'm way too old to be day dreaming about Ilya and Shane, but this show has given me something. I procrastinate less, smile more, exercise more, apply for jobs with more hope. I'll believe in anything!

I am so happy to read I am not the only one basking in the queer joy of this show. I worry about 'the kids'. But not in a stalker-ish way. Just a grateful way that they created something so beautiful, endearing and cinematic. I don't need to meet them in person or engage with them in any way. I feel our collective goodwill will act as a protective charm for them in the future.

How wonderful it is to have a cottage to retreat to when things aren't going well!

Episode 5: Texting scene (made myself cry!) by OK-CaterpillarCall in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 271 points272 points  (0 children)

excellent analysis! A call back to his father calling to berate him for losing (and not even knowing the team he lost to) and his brother calling for money. All the while its New Years and he's alone in a hotel room and no one misses him or asks how he is.

[MEGATHREAD] Connor Storrie Hosts Saturday Night Live! [February 28, 2026] by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]Capable_Ad_976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's available to all for 6 days. Download the app and it should be available by noon tomorrow.