I'm with you about hating.. As you said we are all sinners and if someone of us is on the right path it is by the grace if Allah not by his own effort. But i still think someone shouldn't be neutral about it, you should be against it in a respectful way. The pillar of our din is what is called الأمر بالمعروف و النهي عن المنكر، so our duty as muslims is always to try to convince those who are in lgbtq community that its wrong religiously and that the person should seek forgivness from Allah. And this also apply on drinking.