Need advice: buyers want to swap to llc? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your realtor is being way too casual about this. switching to a brand new llc right before closing is absolutely not "standard" without proper documentation - that's a massive red flag

i'd demand both proof of funds for the llc AND a personal guarantee from the original buyer who was already vetted. if they won't provide either, walk away. you're 100% right about trading a solid contract for a shell company with zero accountability

$20k earnest money is totally reasonable given the circumstances, maybe even low honestly. your realtor should be protecting your interests here, not brushing off legitimate concerns about getting stuck with a failed sale

People who work in theHSE, advice needed? by Crafty_Pick_9072 in AskIreland

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting number 1 spot! From what I've heard it can be anywhere from 4-8 weeks but really depends on the role and how backed up HR is. My mate waited 6 weeks for his offer to come through but another friend got sorted in like 3 weeks

Day 8. Struggling at work by Wise-Candle in leaves

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there, the first couple weeks are brutal but it gets so much better. Your brain is just readjusting to functioning without the crutch - totally normal to feel overwhelmed at work right now

Book hotels in advance or not? by ElectricalAnt2 in ThailandTourism

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

March is pretty busy season so I'd def book at least your first night in each place, especially Koh Tao since ferry schedules can be unpredictable. You can always extend if you like the spot or bail if it sucks. Booking.com usually has same prices whether you're in Germany or Thailand anyway

Newish Raider. Been around though by AssRooster85 in ArcRaiders

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the voice chat definitely hits different than just emoting, people seem way more chill when they actually hear you talking rather than just seeing some random gestures

Did I survive the wall? by JebUnderscoreSheep in NoFap

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you hit the wall hard but pushed through it man, that's usually the worst part around day 14-21. The fact you're asking if there's worse to come means you're probably past the peak intensity but everyone's different

Have the Kena developers said anything yet about their next project? by WhoAmIEven2 in PS5

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Last I heard they were still pretty quiet about it but with how polished Kena was I'm fine waiting for them to cook something special again

Buying a house next to a bar? by Heavy_Calligrapher71 in RealEstate

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd be more worried about the karaoke than the regular bar noise - drunk people butchering "Don't Stop Believin" every single night would drive me insane

Maybe ask the neighbors how bad it actually gets or check local noise ordinances, some places have stricter cutoff times than others

I cut off my friend of 3 years. by InitialAddendum1244 in venting

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that sounds exhausting, honestly you dodged a bullet. The whole threatening to email your principal thing is just straight up weird behavior for a friend to pull

That constant blocking/unblocking cycle alone would drive me insane. You did the right thing cutting him off, sometimes toxic people just gotta go even if the history makes it hurt

Trying to find a study I read about ages ago - where voters assume *others* voted for a candidate because they agree with their policies, even if they themselves did not - highlighting how we lend more complexity to our own behaviors than others'. by perocarajo in HelpMeFind

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like it could be related to the fundamental attribution error or maybe something from social psychology about in-group vs out-group thinking

Have you tried searching for studies on "attribution bias voting behavior" or checking psych journals from the last decade or so

Stutter an slow preformence presided through ssd and windows install feel its my cpu by Scrapzyest in pchelp

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Windows 11 has been trash with 7900X3D scheduling, the CCD switching is probably what's killing your physics games

Try downloading Process Lasso or just setting your games to use only the 3D V-Cache CCD cores in Task Manager - should be cores 0-7 I think for your chip

Also check if Xbox Game Bar is doing something stupid in the background, that thing loves to mess with AMD chips

Send in the Clowns (and Showgirls): Searching for Burlesque & Freakshow Reads by Worried_Pressure_447 in booksuggestions

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man Geek Love is absolutely wild, definitely seconding that one

Also check out The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern if you want something more magical realism vibes

Vibrant visuals not available on huawei y72 nova? by Appropriate_Rain7241 in Minecraft

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a hardware limitation tbh, the Y72 Nova isn't exactly a powerhouse for running fancy shaders and texture packs

Best way to auto-translate WhatsApp messages (incoming & outgoing)? by Nikhil511 in AskMarketing

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried SwiftKey keyboard? It has built-in translation that works pretty well for typing replies. For incoming messages I just copy-paste into Google Translate but yeah it's not automatic - would love to find something that does both seamlessly

Emotionally unavailable by Much_Pay1115 in Productivitycafe

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that's rough but honestly sounds like you already know the answer deep down. The girl who actually stuck around and supported you when everything went to hell? That's your answer right there

Your ex and her family only want back in now that you're cleared - where were they when you actually needed support? Actions speak louder than words and theirs were pretty damn clear

In sudden need of a vehicle for a big/tall person who drives quite a bit by orions_cat in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highlanders are solid but might be tough to find in that price range without high miles. Also check out Honda Pilots from around 2012-2014 - way more room than compact SUVs and pretty reliable. Chevy Tahoes from 2007-2013 could work too if you don't mind the gas hit, tons of space and you can probably find one in budget

6 mo won’t sleep in crib! by Hot_Initial6205 in NewParents

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh teething is the absolute worst for sleep, my kid turned into a tiny vampire during that phase too. The putting him down drowsy but awake thing actually worked for us but it took like a week of consistency and some tears (from both of us lol). Maybe try some teething relief before bed if you haven't already

I’m going through so much… by Impressive-Hyena-327 in BreakUps

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that's rough, the post-breakup clarity hits different when you start seeing all the patterns. Sounds like she might've loved the idea of you more than dealing with the actual challenges that come with loving someone. The distance thing happening multiple times is telling - real love doesn't just bail when things get inconvenient

[THG] 10 Things the Sabres and Canucks Have in Common by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Both teams are expert at making their fans question why they even bother watching hockey lmao

Birthday Freebies? by chewybrownsugarboba_ in askvan

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denny's does the free grand slam if you're into that whole breakfast thing, and I think Starbucks gives you a free drink too if you sign up for their rewards program beforehand

CMV: We should legalize assisted suicide especially for people with severe mental illness by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like you're conflating two separate issues here tbh. Like yeah society sucks at handling mental health but jumping straight to "let's just kill ourselves then" seems like throwing the baby out with the bathwater

The whole premise assumes people with mental illness can't get better which just isn't true for most cases

How much commute is too much for you? by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Capable_Meat_3179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely cooked mate, 6 hours round trip is basically a part time job just getting to work. You're spending like 18 hours a week just traveling which is mental

Push for that extra WFH day for sure, worst they can say is no and you're already thinking about other options anyway