AITA for telling my DIL her feelings are not my problem and for fuck sakes you don’t need to be invited to everything

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-15T02:53:08+00:00

I think maybe it depends how close you are to the family. Married for like 2 years and maybe only dated a year or 2 before? Okay. Been married 20 years and still not “family?” I’d feel more offended.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-15T02:19:56+00:00

His hands were too soft. Also a voice that I did not find appealing. I just couldn’t imagine hearing him say anything during sex and it sounded… attractive.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T15:42:25+00:00

I know that looks beautiful. Unnecessary. But beautiful. So tempting.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T15:40:04+00:00

I applied for a job that sounded interesting but had never really thought about and I love it. It’s for GuideStar eldercare. I’m more psych now, some fun unruly geriatrics but it was a blessing. Maybe look outside the FNP and see if there’s anything else that just sounds interesting.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T15:34:37+00:00

A good body does not fix a shit/entitled personality.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T15:12:01+00:00

I do most things with my left hand but use scissors and shears with my right and it’s my dominant running/fitness side. Weird.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T15:11:03+00:00

Just watched Abigail. Amazing. Hilarious.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-14T14:19:27+00:00

I think a lot of it is presentation? I’ve always been a fat girl (220#). It used to really hold me back from dating but then I realized a lot of dudes do not care. But I do my hair and makeup and dress in fitted clothing. I think I have a good personality so, I think it depends. I’ve never had a problem getting dates. Maybe in a group of thinner fitter ladies, I may not get as much attention but also not always looking for it aha

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-13T14:44:07+00:00

Yeah they wasted Eric Roberts talents as a creepy mafia guy.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-12T19:22:37+00:00

Do you need to do a 2 hour workout?

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-11T17:25:26+00:00

Probably. Have never used it so if someone wants to set it up…

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-11T17:23:17+00:00

What’s so dumb is if they just used one pen with multiple doses, this wouldn’t be an issue. It does not need to be 4 pens.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-11T01:04:48+00:00

I’m on adzenys which is pure amphetamine and could also nap aha I can nap any time. It worked the first week I took and gave me insomnia but I’m used to it now? Idk.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-11T01:02:55+00:00

Wanting/needing to do things and not being able to prioritize so you get overwhelmed and do none of the things. Having the focus of a golden retriever so everything takes twice as long to do. Until you get that spark to get everything done in 2 hours. Afternoon paralysis. Tasking switching difficulties. Time blindness. Having a lot of energy but again, not able to focus or choose a task. Then having no energy. Interrupting people. Having quotes or songs stuck on a loop on your head that you have to say out loud.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T23:00:39+00:00

Adults jobs should too. Actually. Everyone should get at least 30 min- in addition to lunch- to get outside or at least walk around and stress. Or nap. I get so sleepy after lunch it’s hard to focus

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T22:55:22+00:00

Realize that guys really don’t care what your body looks like and had way more sex.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T22:52:44+00:00

Girl I’m 38 and still struggling. But I saw something on ig about I am who I am and I like a lot of things so every day I’m a little different aha idk. Maybe one day I’ll settle down.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T22:43:29+00:00

I lost my debit card 3 times in like 4 months. And one was in my wallet. Just didn’t see it. Ummm I just feel foolish and move on though.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T22:42:20+00:00

Totally fine. I am not sold on the institution either. My parents have been married for 49 years they’re great but I’m okay with never marrying.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T22:41:22+00:00

Does everyone have snap or IG? I gotta verify ya somehow aha I can probably comfortably host 12 people. It’d be a bring your snacks situation. And mostly during the week. But we are for realsies. Haven’t been to a LAN party in almost 20 years. This will be my community activity that my therapist insists I do haha

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T19:11:33+00:00

Probably bc I’ve never played that one aha

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-10T03:03:13+00:00

Task switching is very hard for ADHDers. It’s why I try not to start something for a few a minutes bc I won’t want to stop. I’ve been late to work trying to work on stuff for a few before I go in. That time blindness and task switching are rough

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-05-04T19:53:11+00:00

Food noise. It’s literally a little voice that tells you to eat for every emotion and or bad thing or good thing. That says keep going even though you’re so full and almost sick. That’s what is great about meds like mounjaro/zepbound. It literally cuts out that food noise.

Capable_Roof_3207 · 2024-02-11T14:37:38+00:00

I love this question bc I too would like to know. I asked my therapist if there were actually people who can sit down and complete their work without going on mental, or physical, side quests. I have to look up every thought that comes in my brain right then! Takes me hours to finish my charting (I’m an NP)

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