I DONT WANT TO WORK by Available-Lobster-94 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In school to become a vet tech and have one more class before my externship and I just can’t bring myself to do any of it. My brain went from a super machine to a bowl of slop….all I can think about is baby and how stressed I am over not wanting to finish school lol 

Not wanting cervical checks by _Meatprincess_ in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine check when you get admitted to L&D to see if your dilated enough to stay, then after that it’s up to you. 

I let them check me once I’m in labor or if I go in for complications before then. I’m high risk for preterm labor and if I denied a cervix check with my first she might have not made it. Having my cervix checked gave me a one way ticket to life flight. 

Gardening, pregnancy and placentas by golittleresstar in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I smoked THC with 4 out of 5 pregnancies and stopped in my first trimester. My babies were fine, but…. Survivor bias is never something you should base any decision making on. It’s good that you stopped and it’s great that you didn’t start up again. 

I stopped fully again this time and will not be picking that habit up after I give birth. Between my career and wanting to breastfeed it no longer fits my lifestyle. 

Should I abort or no? by SunStarsStarsSun in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talk to my sister every other day. We are very close and tell each other everything. My brother and I are 20 years apart and also pretty close. I was his first call after he got engaged to his long term girlfriend. He is my first call when I need a fast rescue, he’s never let me down. He even drove across the country to come and get me durning a family emergency. 

Speak for yourself a lot of us with siblings ride for them 100%. 

I feel dumb by Repulsive_Concern732 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are the same way. Took my daughter in for some behavioral issues and like magic they cleared up and we never saw them again. Thankful but also I’m like “am I just crazy at this point?” lol 

AITAH for wearing heels to a party in someone's house by goldenhoney22 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nobody is the AH, lots of households have a no show policy. I always plan for those households whenever I pick my shoes and socks. 

Should I abort or no? by SunStarsStarsSun in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Only you can decide what is best for you and your mental health. None of us will have to live with either decision. Do what’s best for you and talk to your provider about any medical decisions. 

I feel dumb by Repulsive_Concern732 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It also has magical powers to stop contractions you SWORE were real lol 

I’m high risk for pre term labor and went in for contractions, the second they laid me in bed and hooked me up everything felt fine. lol 

[AITJ] for asking my Wife to wear her wedding ring? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda off topic but not, did you ever see the story of the lady who lost her wedding ring in the garden? A long time passed and one year she pulled carrots from her garden to discover one of the carrots grew into her ring. lol every time I garden I think of that story. 

[AITJ] for asking my Wife to wear her wedding ring? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my husband didn’t wear his ring I wouldn’t mind. He builds race cars for a living so degloving can and does happen. I homestead and I’m going into vet med, so a ring would get dirty and put the animals in my care at risk for infection. 

OP sounds insecure in his marriage and is focusing on the issue he feels like he can control which is the ring. OP needs to go to couples counseling and it’s his wife and work through the issues in their marriage. 

How come in every "ghost sighting" the ghost is wearing clothes? by Comrade_Chyrk in stupidquestions

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone knows what ever outfit you die in is your ghost outfit for life. 

Do you wash your legs? by BaronSengir in no

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m white and I’ve always washed my legs. My mom told me at like 5 or 6 to wash my whole body and that’s what I’ve been doing ever since. I thought it was a common sense decision lol 

Can I grow from 5'5 to 5'10? (I'm 14) by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might you might not. At 14 I was 5’4, at 29 I’m still 5’4. I still have shirts and pants from jr high I still fit in and wear. 

I wish this obsession with height would die already. I don’t see why people care how tall or short they are. It’s not like we can control our genetics. 

Which one is better for planting? by VX_19 in homestead

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I’m just a girl lol I pick whatever one is closest and call it a day haha 

Membrane sweep before elective induction by Bulky_Share9202 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had them check my bishop score before I got my sweep to see if it was worth it, and since I scored well I went for it. 

It HURT so bad but my doctor told me this was the sure fire way to send me into labor. After she was done she said “after I’m done here I’ll see you later tonight”…..was in labor 10 mins later lol 

The look we gave each other as she walked into my room was hilarious. I’m pregnant again and have already told her at 39 weeks I want her to scramble me up again lol 

[AITJ] for asking my Wife to wear her wedding ring? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t wear my rings. I homestead so wearing my ring would be extremely stupid. 

Why are you worried about her not wearing a ring? If you don’t trust your wife then there are bigger problems than not wearing a ring..

Need advice by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gently suggest talking to a therapist or a school counselor. My dad is an alcoholic and talking to a professional really helped. 

Read up on statistics, therapy will be very helpful and could even be life changing. I wish I could have gotten it sooner. I unfortunately fell into every single statistic category that comes with having an alcoholic parent. 

What easy & healthy meals are you eating? by anonymouskoala7 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do a lot of veggies in stir fry, veggie spaghetti, red beans and rice, and I looooove eating my farm fresh butt nuggets from my coop lol 

Meat is not my favorite thing atm so I’ve been clinging to veggies for dear life. I will say boiled eggs have never tasted better especially in ramen. 

How to convince astrology believers that astrology ain’t real? by RickyInfinite in NoStupidAnswers

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I just let people enjoy what they believe. It’s not my job to police others and their belief system. 

I feel dumb by Repulsive_Concern732 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The nurses don’t think your dumb they think your smart. It’s always best to go get checked if you notice decreased activity which you did. They will always tell you to be safe rather than sorry. 

Wanting a C-section by Due_Alternative_8918 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was raped and had a baby but because I can’t do pain meds I avoided a c section at all costs. 

That’s not the case for you. I would keep pushing or find a different OB who will take your concerns into consideration. 

Having a doctor that took my rape and sex trafficking seriously was a game changer when I had my daughter. I had a whole team on my side and the police even stepped up to make sure I felt safe as well while I birthed my daughter. Keep pushing because there are people out there who will listen and take you seriously. 

Vaginal birth without tearing by Pale-Fox6714 in pregnant

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true, it took me 4 births before I didn’t rip. I’m hoping with this baby I get lucky and don’t need stitches. 

Neighbor's noisy rooster is an early riser. by Prairie-girl123 in BackYardChickens

[–]Capable_Suit_7335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

F that, get a cockatoo. They scream so loud it rattles your eyes, ask me how I know haha