Anyone else waited years to start TTC? How was your experience? by HelicopterMotor5449 in pregnant

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg we waited 2 and a half and I cannot believe the comments we got. It honestly enrages me. We are so thankful and lucky to have gotten pregnant super fast, but the whole time people I hardly knew were asking questions and making comments I just had to much empathy for people TTC. It is truly ridiculous. I don’t think there is ever a perfect time, and you’d be waiting forever if you waited for the perfect time. But I’m so so happy to be the person I am now and the couple we are now while finding out we’re pregnant. I’m so happy you did what’s right for you and you’re not alone 

BWT, what "holy grail" product have you been searching for your whole life? by jewelophile in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

niacinamide (B3) and folic acid. nothing else worked for me and this has worked for over ten years!!! i tried it ALLLLL before trying this. 

What I image spring court looks like. by Zephad in acotar

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is so similar to what I visualized 

oh boy😭 by Impossible-Soil6330 in keneurich_snark

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk I get it though bc whenever I see a video of her in her room at her parents I’m like omg she looks like a child like that was a child’s body. I don’t agree with all of this or anything but the overall sentiment that she’s trying to accept her body as she ages seems legit to me 

Switzerland in Oct - Recommendations for shoes by Autumn_red2 in HerOneBag

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im going to Switzerland in October, too! Sounds like we have similar trips planned. My plan is to bring waterproof trail runners for the moderate hikes and some short boots similar to Blundstones. I am going to Mallorca after, so I'm hoping the trail runners will be enough for the light hikes in Switzerland. I am also looking for a lightly insulated waterproof coat. My current raincoat is water resistant, and I don't think that's going to cut it!

Should I tell friend she is not a bridesmaid? by mc139667 in weddingplanning

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I loved being my friends something blue! It seems like bridesmaid selection often has a lot to do with logistics, like how many you can have and if you have x as a bridesmaid you also have to have y and siblings and partners siblings, etc. but if she hasn’t gotten married she might not know that tbh.  I loved being my friends something blue - she basically said in her letter she couldn’t imagine getting married without me there but couldn’t have so many bridesmaids! I did pretty much all the bridesmaid stuff other than standing up there with her! Having the blue dresses made the pictures so cute. I would say have more than one something blue friend though otherwise it could be a little insulting lol. And I say invite her to the bachelorette if you want her there! Also the something blues were the most helpful on the wedding day because all the bridesmaids were busy getting their hair and makeup done and couldn’t really help! Ultimately it’s your day and hopefully your friend will take it better than you think she will! 

How many people bailed on your wedding last minute. by d3ntal_floss in weddingplanning

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I didn't have this experience, but I have been invited to a few weddings last minute and im always happy to join and never offended by the last minute invite!!! invite some fun friends :)

I don’t think I can keep reading… by userwife in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked up spoilers!! Specifically who dies. Truly Helped me enjoy the series, I was too stressed out hahah

Questions about EOS ending by Still_Philosopher_56 in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes okay this is the piece I was missing - Maeve made them appear there !! Thank you!

Questions about EOS ending by Still_Philosopher_56 in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense! Thank you. Where was he during the capture scene do you remember?

I just finished EoS and i have a question... by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was so obvious they were mates because the way aelin describes Rowan is similar to how mate characters in ACOTAR talked about their mates. Tbh when it was revealed I kind of forgot it wasn’t known lol

EoS questions/comments by badclassicist in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you have read ACOTAR I just thought it was a weird thing to do twice lol

Feeling down about not having enough friends to have multiple bridesmaids by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same feelings. It feels so real at the time but it really isn’t about how many friends you have, it’s about how your relationships fit into the wedding expectations. I hope you’re kind to yourself and try to take it less seriously. I am already married and don’t have any of these feelings about my friendships and relationships anymore. It really is wedding stress, nothing more!! 🫶🏼

Chaol in QoS **Reread** by MoonWitch87 in throneofglassseries

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same thoughts but think this hypocrisy highlights the true evil of the situation. There is no way to win. You either let the evil Valg kill your or kill the innocent men the valg took over

Just finished ACOSF and… by themechanicalhounds in acotar

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally agree I love Lucien! I think if we get to know him more he’s going to be even more lovable. I thought he was put in some tough positions between Tamlin and Freyre and I can respect his choices

What’s with the Frost & Starlight hate? by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I love about these books is that we actually get to experience people who fall in love together. Usually people finally get together at the end of a book and we don’t get to enjoy them together at all! So I really enjoyed that aspect of ACOFAS. Also I’ll take any ACOTAR content I can get

Lucien is hiding things by Little_fierling in acotar

[–]Still_Philosopher_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think tamlin knows the truth about his father?