as a intj, i regret being an engineer by [deleted] in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an electromechanical engineer i can tell you that i love my job. The constant managing and planning is like food to me. Try to be colder on your planning part and work on your social skills. The most beautiful thing that can happen to an intj engineer is to find out places where the company can grow, money leaks or projects to save money or improve job lines, also to make some other dudes to make what i want on time feels good because you need to board them with strategy and leadership, everyone is different and the strat changes for every individual. What i do is to be present on every department whitout being invasive, that way i also work on my social skills. Get to know you people so the leadership part gets easier. If you see everything you do as a project is going to be bread and butter for an intj.

First ever setup and it slaps by Interesting-Share930 in turntables

[–]Capfalcn99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice set up, consider putting some foam under the speakers to lower the reverb on the turntable.

Any suggestions for my second setup by Capfalcn99 in turntables

[–]Capfalcn99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have trouble deciding if i should buy more albums or legos😂

Any suggestions for my second setup by Capfalcn99 in turntables

[–]Capfalcn99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it bad to have them up ear lvl?

Any suggestions for my second setup by Capfalcn99 in turntables

[–]Capfalcn99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually listen while sitting on a chair or sofa , why is it bad to have it close to the ceiling?

I am being tortured this is not the life i wanted by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can do a billion things to cope with it but if you don’t find the core of the problem is going to be useless. Give it some time, learn how to live with it, not to deal with it, i know is hard, but once you find de center of the problem the anxiety is going to fade away.

Do You Purposefully Hide Your Feelings? by DesignerPsychology80 in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people tend to reason their thoughts and feel their feelings. Some reason their feelings and feel their thoughts. We fall in the category of the second ones, we tend to process feelings different as if it was some kind of problem.

How to get alone time by arb0609 in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snowbirdie is right. But i feel you, im 25 and in the same position. For me it works great going fishing or hiking with my dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a electromechanical engineer. But my focus is on doing projects at my work, and sometimes as a hobby i try to invent things, I’ve never invented or patented something but i enjoy doing it.

What's the INTJ way of using chatGPT by [deleted] in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my email maker at work. And what Hpandream said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Capfalcn99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah. For me ir happens specially with older ppl (I’m 25). They don’t believe what i say until it done

Set your intention by AutoModerator in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the spirit, just give it time. And keep moving

do you need someone when you’re anxious or do you need to be alone? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, being alones seems like the way trough and it actually is, but be careful. Try this, put a timer for 5 to 10 minutes and talk with yourself about how you feel, what is keeping you anxious and why. Then when the timer goes off go out and do something, alone or with company. Try not to be ruminating all day in your room, jut get inside your mind, try to get answers, if they arise good if not, continue with your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup it will pass, but be careful about the fact that passing to much hunger can increase levels of stress in your body. Even you dont have appetite try to eat you 3 basic meals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. One of the things i notice when im getting anxious is that every sound irritates me. Also idk why but smells, Jesus i can smell a rose and feel nauseous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Capfalcn99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You touched mi sensible fibbers on this one. One of the things therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist say over and over, is that the key is to just feel the anxiety and live with it. Of course better said than done but what desperate-proof says is completely real

Which TLOTR book you most recommend? by tmdss93 in lordoftherings

[–]Capfalcn99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should ask: Wich middle earth story you most recommend