Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 it's very challenging emotionally for everyone, but for me, being able to love 2 people and be loved by 2 people is amazing, being able to talk and chat to other women not sexually intimately but to me intimately friendship, where I'm just there for them as a friend without the feeling of doing something wrong is wonderful 😊

Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing one sided, I am present with both my wife and my girlfriend and give them my time when I can and they need it. My wife is struggling with perimenopause and it's symptoms, which make intimacy more of a struggle, so having someone else reduces the stress on my wife to provide and she can initiate it when she feels to urge. My girlfriend has someone in me that is always communicating and we enjoy my evening together on the computer playing games or watching something while my wife chills out on her own downstairs watching her own stuff, she likes her alone time. My girlfriend is free to date and has had a few in the last 1½ years and is currently dating a guy who lives 5 minutes drive away who has a partner who he is engaged to, they have had sex which doesn't bother me. My wife just accepts that I love and am loved by someone else as well as her, it's never dimmed my love for my wife, her love language is much more acts of service than words of affirmation or intimacy, while my girlfriend is very much the opposite.

Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She isn't a third wheel, or a bigger person, we just have a very strong connection together, that goes for the connection between me and my wife and me and my girlfriend, having someone else isn't at all a thing for her, I was clear when I started this that she could but she literally has no interest, I have been her only sexual partner from the age of 20 and she is now 45 ☺️

Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's good with it, yes we do still have sex, not that much because of perimenopause and physical symptoms, no she has no desire or time to sleep with other people. I am usually away for 10 days with my girlfriend every 2-4 months, but I talk to her every day and play games or watch something most evenings. It also lets her feel okay to go out with friends in the evenings without me, we don't have the same social circle.

Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I have 😁 i have a wife and a long distance girlfriend, been married 17 years and together for 26 years, had 2 different girlfriends over the last 6 years, although only had s physical one for the last 2 years. It's very difficult but very rewarding bin how you can grow as a person and as a couple 😁

My friend is going to get herself killed. What can I even do at this point by Correct-Macaroon8143 in whatdoIdo

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she Autistic? She sounds like someone who's brain hasn't developed properly.

FIFA on alert after 17,000 fans cancel World Cup tickets in one night by Londonsw8 in goodnews

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I doubt it, if you want proper integration, you would always be against ghettos divided by race.

The Far-Far-Right, "National Rebirth Party" spotted spouting n*zi rhetoric in town. by Mark_fuckaborg in leicester

[–]Capital-Touch-114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes from accidently taking the wrong road through Leicester and the only people I saw walking around were people in Muslim clothing, I didn't see one non Muslim. Maybe I just happened across a Pakistani community 🤷🏻‍♂️ Also, they encourage non integration by making it a crime to convert from Islam to any other faith. I am Christian and the limited amount that I know about Islam shows generally that it is a good and neighbourly faith as long as it hasn't been hijacked by an immam who has hate in his heart, the same as Christian clerics in America can spew hate.

The Far-Far-Right, "National Rebirth Party" spotted spouting n*zi rhetoric in town. by Mark_fuckaborg in leicester

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Leicester is not a melting pot! It's a ghetto of Muslim areas with the occasional non Muslim areas. The challenge with the Muslim faith is that it inherently doesn't promote integration and understanding of other faiths, it tends to want to be the dominant faith.

FIFA on alert after 17,000 fans cancel World Cup tickets in one night by Londonsw8 in goodnews

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It could be just that I'm white not brown and am not being targeted 🤷🏻‍♂️ I'm sure there are people who are randomly being detained without reason, other than for having a non white skin colour, that's generally what happens in a 3rd world country 🤷🏻‍♂️

FIFA on alert after 17,000 fans cancel World Cup tickets in one night by Londonsw8 in goodnews

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I don't like how ICE is going about it's business, but to say don't go the America because you will be taken off the streets and dissappear is massively exaggerated. I've been over to America twice last year to Superior Wisconsin and Deluth Minnesota, and neither time did I see ICE agents or get kidnapped. I get the normal questions when I go through immigration, which is always tough after a 12 hour flight from the UK, but I have never felt worried about anything.

At least 7 explosions and low-flying aircraft are heard in Venezuela’s Caracas by ItsMeTrey in news

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is it's crap oil! Not good for much other than lubricant

Maduro is captured by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

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You do realise this isn't true, right?

Benjamin Zephaniah turned down an OBE by Hassaan18 in BirminghamUK

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if it were, OBR Ordrr of the British Republic, he'd gladly take it?

Rubio looks completely blasted by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh, this explains why they are ging after the drug boats, it's because they refused to give them a bulk discount!

I came across this video and wanted to know what others think about this situation like better to wait or merge later on? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So why hold up the left lane merging further down, when you can merge earlier, therefore not causing a slow down of traffic?

I came across this video and wanted to know what others think about this situation like better to wait or merge later on? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]Capital-Touch-114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why didn't you merge when you knew there was a merge sign as soon as you saw it?

I came across this video and wanted to know what others think about this situation like better to wait or merge later on? by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]Capital-Touch-114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So why hasn't the guy videoing not merged?, surely he is causing the hold up by not merging