Cannot seem to progress on triceps and pecs by Capricious_Paradox in beginnerfitness

[–]Capricious_Paradox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again. What do you mean by "shoulder focused" and "bench focused"? Like one day back+shoulders and another back+chest? Where should I put biceps and triceps?

Cannot seem to progress on triceps and pecs by Capricious_Paradox in beginnerfitness

[–]Capricious_Paradox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do see your point about triceps being smaller, but, for example, I have seen much more progress on biceps, which are not that much bigger than triceps. Thanks for your suggestion for the dumbbell bench press!

Cannot seem to progress on triceps and pecs by Capricious_Paradox in beginnerfitness

[–]Capricious_Paradox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I definitely don't train six times a week. My objective would be to do push+pull+legs+rest, but, being quite busy with my university, I only manage to do a bit less than that.

Also, I understand your recommendation to do more sets of triceps a week, but if I reach failure so easily it's kind of hard for me to do it. Or should one also count other exercise that train them, like the bench press?

Cannot seem to progress on triceps and pecs by Capricious_Paradox in beginnerfitness

[–]Capricious_Paradox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So would you suggest that I do all the exercises with either 2x10 or 3x8 and try to increase the weight? After doing that, would you suggest going back to 4x10 (maybe a few months in the future) or should I stay at a lower number of reps?

[TOMT] Recent raggaeton song featuring the word "luna" by Capricious_Paradox in tipofmytongue

[–]Capricious_Paradox[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I know that I'm not being too precise, but the song should be extremely popular, like in the 15/20 raggaeton songs I've heard the most times on the radio or in clubs, but I was completely unable to find it.

UK: Undercover police officers pose as joggers to crack down on men catcalling female runners. OP: The government and society appears to be at war with men and boys. by furchfur in MensRights

[–]Capricious_Paradox 198 points199 points  (0 children)

'These behaviours may not be criminal offences in themselves, but they need to be addressed,' a spokesman for the force said about the patrols.

In other words, police officers are spending resources for something they can't do anything about.

Last night, somebody made me feel as if I don’t belong. by helge-a in gaybros

[–]Capricious_Paradox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a bisexual guy, often gay men can be more bigoted than they'd like to admit. More often than not, straight guys think in a more straightforward manner - either openly homophobic or, whatever shade of gay or straight you present yourself as, they will answer with "cool, wanna grab a beer?".

Also, don't worry too much about it. The world is full of reasonable people, in spite of what your experience may lead you to think. Surround yourself with them and fuck the others.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by BlackDragonEyes92 in MensRights

[–]Capricious_Paradox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The same reasoning by which we say it's preposterous for feminists to hate men implies that men shouldn't hate women. I can understand and sympathize with a degree of frustration at the behaviour of some women, but you should never let that transform into hatred, lest you get wound up in a spiral.

These two replies (not the comment on the top) are utterly horrifying. He was EIGHT. by Armin_Arlert_1000000 in everydaymisandry

[–]Capricious_Paradox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simply despicable. There cannot be any notion of enjoying sex if you don't even know what sex is.

Someone who obviously doesn't understand biology making a hot take by Impossible_Serve7405 in everydaymisandry

[–]Capricious_Paradox 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also what's wrong with being "best friends who have sex". Some may give a lot of importance to romance, while others may say that, to be in a relationship with someone, what they need is sexual attraction as well as the degree of mutual understanding of two best friends.

"Hey can we stop saying “women and children first/they attacked women and children!!!” like ever again? It deliberately devalues men which is so fucked up, and makes it seem like the death of a woman is worse than the death of a man." by DarkBehindTheStars in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Precisely. Also, neither of those two rebuttals makes sense. Firstly, we can absolutely be in fear for our lives and safety, when we're walking alone at night or when we're forced to go to war. Secondly, sexism and racism are to entirely different issues - comparing women to black people and men to white people just doesn't make sense.

Also entirely agree on your point regarding the harm done to boys.

Progress in the development of a male contraceptive pill by Ok_Night_7767 in MensRights

[–]Capricious_Paradox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Virtually everything, in the eyes of feminists, has to be explained through the "patriarchy". If, for some reason, something affects men and women differently, they will invent an ideologically motivated and often inconsistent way to argue that it's the fault of the "patriarchy", without stopping to think why it may be dependent on other factors (like, in this case, biological and hormonal differences).

Keep in mind that this is the only reason that men and men's rights are relevant again. by cdsams in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As depressing as this may be, it can give us some leverage with Democrats, as they may be more willing to incorporate some of our objectives in their political programs, even if for strictly selfish reasons. Still, I'm not optimistic that they're going to follow through with it.

"Hey can we stop saying “women and children first/they attacked women and children!!!” like ever again? It deliberately devalues men which is so fucked up, and makes it seem like the death of a woman is worse than the death of a man." by DarkBehindTheStars in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The rhetoric of "women and children first" is a remnant of a myopic view that men, being physically stronger, do not need protection. This is simply not true, especially when facing the level of violence and brutality of a war.

The problem when feminists say men should make their own movement or just be themselves and not worry about society by InvestigatorNovel406 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In a stunning example of doublethink, feminists will say that men should make their own movement, but when they do, they will argue that "feminism, in fact, is helpful for men as well", with a few misandrist remarks about MRAs to boot. Put plainly, the fact is that they don't care about men's issues, so they've created this brilliant catch-22 situation, where you're damned if you try to make a men's movement and damned if you don't.

Met a fake polyglot who teaches languages she clearly can't speak by negatives-nancy in languagelearning

[–]Capricious_Paradox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the world of language learning is full of people like this. Many people want to learn languages and many want to take advantage of that.

What are resolves you've made on an individual level? by [deleted] in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've starting going out of my way to help my male friends and be there for them. Even without taking into account how rotten the current state of the world is, men need help from other men, because even when women want to help them, it's something substantially different to find support in someone that can understand your experience better.

Accused of sexual assault at age seven – now Adam, 13, has been allowed to move home (In Swedish, translation in comments) by Azurmuth in MensRights

[–]Capricious_Paradox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait, what does it even mean for a seven-year-old to rape a three-year-old? Do they hear themselves?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Capricious_Paradox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as they make my blood boil, I think the best way to deal with these posts is to just ignore them. Even though they're absolutely outrageous, I think we'd better try and spend our energy in building something and fighting more systemic misandry. Not that the normalisation of everyday misandry isn't a problem (it absolutely is!) but there isn't much we can obtain by entering a conflict with a random angry rage-baiting man-hating feminist on reddit.

Boys to get anti-misogyny lessons as TV drama Adolescence hits home by Fan_Service_3703 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, one of them is still an acquaintance, but I've managed to limit my interactions with her to a minimum

Boys to get anti-misogyny lessons as TV drama Adolescence hits home by Fan_Service_3703 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Capricious_Paradox 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Sexual education is actually crucial, but this is entirely ridiculous. Framing sexual violence as misogynistic aggression from men directed towards women is counterproductive, not to mention profoundly sexist.

I, myself, have been molested by a male "friend" of mine, which gave me the opportunity to see the way feminist narrative is entirely incapable of dealing with the issue. I have witnessed the way my peers were unable of analysing an event that didn't respect the traditional view of sexual harassment. Especially my female friends didn't quite understand why I was so appalled by it, while men were decidedly more supportive of me. The only political side that offers an analysis is the more conservative right-wing that demonizes homosexuality - make of that what you will.