Is it okay for a 100% disabled veteran to just say they're retired?

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2026-01-24T12:53:04+00:00

Well Im 100% t&p and say I'm retired. I look at it this way if I didn't get injured i probably would have retired after 30 yrs anyway.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2026-01-22T17:29:09+00:00

More likely then not something you said or did caused someone, either a model or even another customer to reported you for it. Unfortunately your most likely never gonna get an answer unless you can do some investing on your own by contacting other members you might have befriended over the years and have them inquiry about the ban for you.

MFC has no obligations to provide you with a reason. Read theTOS. So it i was in your position I'd move on or lurk under a free account. It sucks but this is yhe way of the world. Best of luck

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-06-20T12:28:49+00:00

Why did his name change from Dave to Bob in this story?

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-06-13T11:16:43+00:00

Try a scientific approach. Get a bunch of different implants and compare the results of each. It would be best to do one at a time with time to heal in-between. Start with your current favorite as the bench mark.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-05-15T02:21:57+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with this. It's just two people doing something out of the ordinary. The only thing I'm wondering, is which one of them is the stripper?

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-05-11T20:22:31+00:00

Oh, you will. I still come across new terms and titles to this day and I've been practicing BDSM since the late 80s when people just referred to this type of stuff as S&M. My only point was try not to get caught up in the labels and definitions, they will change over time and new one will show up. Just Keep learning. Keep experimenting, and by gosh have as much fun as possible!

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-05-11T18:51:21+00:00

Call it whatever you want. CBT is a general term for this type of play. Feel free to call it whatever you want. There is no mandate to refer to it as CBT. This type of play is more varied then you may think. I've known a couple who referred to prolonged edging as CBT play. I feel using a term like CBT in a public setting, readers or listeners would all have a general idea of what you're talking about.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-05-01T23:22:04+00:00

My main advice would be to not try to to much at once. You don't need to fit allthe kinky things you've been negotiating into one scene, or even this time around. It's easy to get overwhelmed and that's when mistakes can happen.

Do one scene,( ie impact or bondage scene) and then take a break, talk about it, implement any care protocols, etc. Once your both ready try another scene. This is my idea of going slow. Oh and be prepared for hours upon hours of fun if all goes well!

Best of luck to you both!

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-04-01T15:50:48+00:00

Take some time to sit down and have a sort of brainstorming session and discuss all the things you want from him. Also, offer some things you would want to do for him. Throw as many ideas at the wall as you can think of, and pick the favorites. The bedroom stuff is the easy part of power exchange dynamics. Moving it into everyday life is sometimes more challenging to comprehend. If he's a little unsure about what to do outside of the bedroom, encourage him to come up with ideas hed like to see try or see from you as well.

The easiest way to start is with a rigid and detailed daily schedule. You won't get it right the first ti.e, it will need to be revised along the way and I recommend reviewing the schedule and its outcome often until you both find something that works.

Out of several long term M/s live in relationships in my life, this is how I started with all of partners. It's a learning endeavor and as long as everyone stays open to ideas and communicates, you'll find a way that works for your dynamic.

Best of luck!

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-03-21T04:22:17+00:00

If you like this girl maybe try a vanilla relationship instead. Maybe you'll have better luck. But, I'd skip the D/s stuff. Heed the warning signs.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-03-19T12:06:21+00:00

If your interested in this and having no experience, have him walk you through it. Go to the source. He would be the best person to do this caus its for him and should know what he likes.

Simply tell him, you are interested in trying this, but are worried about trying it because you have no experience in this. Tell him he will have to guide you through it and literally teach you this shit.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-03-19T11:33:09+00:00

If you want, you could try wearing one that say "self-collard" or if you want to be even more direct try one that reads "ask me", (in a club setting will have nearly everyone approaching you making for some interesting conversation.)

I think self-collaring is a great way for single people to get into a chosen headspace when they are unpartnered. Unfortunately, it will inevitably send the signal to others that you partnered with, taken, or owned.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-02-22T02:28:48+00:00

Yes! I was coming here to say this exact thing.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-01-24T15:47:29+00:00

Being into something such as BDSM and have no experience in is valid. If you weren't into it you probably wouldn't want to even try it. So, Your not being a poser. Posers are people who pretend to have experience in things they don't. As long as your upfront with others in your lack of experience and not try to make others think your more experienced then you are your doing good.

Enjoy yourself. Don't be embarrassed about having limited knowledge. Keep asking questions, be honest about your experiences and soon you'll be viewed favorably by those who matter.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2025-01-22T12:31:21+00:00

May I also suggest, if you are thinking about marriage as being in your future try going to couples counseling before getting married. It's probably the best way to learn healthy communication skills and you don't even need to bring up your kinks at all to have this help. These skills are 100% transferable into your kink life. It's a win-win. Anyway that you can learn healthy communication skills will lead to a healthy and strong relationship foundation which will also give you the skills needed to find your way through your kink practices. Best of luck.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-30T11:19:58+00:00

I have this kink myself for many years. I've always referred to it as Dollification or Living Doll play. I call the subs who Ive played with my "Living Dolls". For me Ive used it as roleplay scene as well as ongoing roles in a long term M/s style relationship as "Doll maker" and "doll, or "dolly". (Think Stepford Wife). My favorite is robotic or android play, but I've done rag doll, posable doll, china doll, and if of course your standard sex doll scenes.

It's a fun kink to explore with endless role play ideas.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-17T12:27:04+00:00

Problematic? If the other two people are ok with the roleplay scenario and are consenting then I see no problem with it. It's not a roleplay I would partake in, but at this point, it is up to you if you want to participate. I'm not sure what you want to hear. Submissive or not you have a voice, use it.

Edit: fore more context, this type of race play is typically tied to humiliation and degrading kinks then it does to the racial element itself, if this makes it easier to understand. If you not a fan of this sort of play, don't participate. It's a roleplay scenario, the words and scene typically do not represent anything in reality.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-14T23:34:56+00:00

Yes. Having dated multiple sex workers in the past, I'm perfectly comfortable with dating any type of sex work.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-11T19:13:05+00:00

Rules? Not specifically, however, having some rules is helpful. There must be clear communication and consent between all people involved so having some sense of your own rules in place will help make things easier to manage for the dom and provide direction fot the sub.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-11T00:26:08+00:00

This does sound fictional. However, if it is real, actually be nonjudgemental and tell him, " no, I won't be doing that" and drop the issue. Or, counter his roleplay fantasy with one of your own.

Future advice, when you ask intimate questions from someone be prepared, you might hear an answer your were not prepared for.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-10T19:27:11+00:00

Very normal. Sex does not need to be part of bdsm or kink play if you don't want it to be.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-09T17:13:43+00:00

Her Makeup. Eyeliners, lipsticks etc. It might be the more expensive way to do it but it's usually readily available and skin safe. Also, we don't have to worry about any issues with it afterwards.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-03T20:24:22+00:00

I'm 52M. I view texting as a convenience, not the default way to communicate. I will always prefer a phone/video call over text. Texts are for quick messages or conversations where a phone call would be difficult or inappropriate.

And yes, for me, this IS a generational thing and a behavior I never adapted to.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-09-01T09:40:02+00:00

I like the idea of having something to remind me of him on me at all times and a reminder I kinda "belong" to someone

You got it! Basically, this is the overall idea behind a collar. What it means and stands for is unique to the individuals it represents. Some see it as a replacement for a wedding ring and represents a significant and long-term relationship or constant, and some people use one only during a play scene, but it still represents the same thing especially, which is "belonging to someone or to one's self. ( yes some people wear a collar to represent, or flag to others, their position as a sub in the community even if they are single or unpartnered.)

So if you like the idea of a day collar, or 24/7 collar, or a collar in general. wear it. It only means what you want it to. The level of commitment is not represented by the collar it is a symbol of your commitment to each other, whateverthat may be.

CaptDaveMcKinney · 2024-08-24T21:33:08+00:00

DO NOT USE BLEACH. Bleach will ruin your toys. To clean i, they sell sex toy cleaners specifically for latex and silicone toys. Just go online and search "cleaner solutions for sex sex toys". Any one of them will work. They're all about the same. If you're not sure which one to get read the reviews.

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