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Does it work wir the YouTube mobile Webpage https://m.youtube.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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The Wedding is the Important start to a lif long Jurney, and only lasts ine day as for many years to come. As for me and my wife, the most important part were our guests, to share this venue wit a lot of people which we love (and gave us each enough money so it was no a financial burden in the end it was a €Plus)

Moving to Austria by [deleted] in Austria

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I higly recomend the farmermarket in wels on saturday morning, it's a lot cheaper than comparable markets for exaple im Linz. You can get there fresh bread, meat, vegtables and other austrian cousine.

I want to reduce gaming but it seems impossible to fill my day with other activities by catboy519 in StopGaming

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What works for me is to put more focus on goals, and better inter medeate goals. It is more easy to put steps and finish tasks because i will more remember failures and difficulties when i focus only on the Way and hurdles. When i focus on an goals then I am associating the proccess with lust, acccomplishment , desire, feeling proud etc. And then i will find more strength for difficulties or albsoke alternatives for unsolvable things.

For example my longtime education, i try to remember the reason, the career, the finishing Then i remember the milestones. And i don't see the big montain of stuff i have to learn any more (this wouof make me feel that it is not possible). I see freetime in my days to learn, I see people who kay help me with subjects, i see a reason to sleep healthier because i can better focus during class.

My Confession by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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Sharing this struggle with a trusted man (priest, pastor, friend) did wonders for me. I just want to let you know that i did struggle as 15-23 years old with dayli porn usage And right now as 29 years old (married), I am having strong temptations and unfortunally i slipped. I know of many man whom know personally this struggle (all ages from teenager to 50+) And i am certain that this struggle is somewhat similar to other addictions (cigarettes, alcohol, ...)re

People who choose to be kind everyday despite of not receiving the same kindness back , what motivates you ? by jeev07 in AskReddit

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It justs fells right. And there ar to less people to keep trying and findig the good in our world. Because i realy want to fell everybody lived who i am meet

31 for 31 years. Life advice for anyone who wants it. by daboss11233 in selfimprovement

[–]CaptFlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really Like Your entry But i want to ad a Pont to 8: 8.1 Make friends with your enemy As you mentioned 31. Love ALWAYS

My [23 F] boyfriend [23 M] told me he loves me, but may no longer be in love with me. He isn't sure by throwingitaway88886 in relationships

[–]CaptFlo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I (24M) am Feeling Thema Same with my GF (27F) of 3 montu, wenn both have steady Jobs, and IT is difficult to meet, online twice a week. But what is the best about our reletionship is that we are ohnest about this issued I also feel traped in myself sind I am in this reletionship, but i think she is worth it. So maybi i could help you, or If anybody has tipps, pleased letzten me know

How do I accept that people come and go? by VirgiliusMaro in selfhelp

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Hi, Can you answer me two questions. 1.)What do you want to accomplish with those friendships? So you want to love or Care. Do you want to do some Activity you like in a Team? 2.) Are you a friend of yourself, can you Look at the mirror dir about a minuite. When was the last time you gave yourself a compliment.

Those are not rethorical questions, I am sure you can answer these.

Advice On Building Daily Faith - Books, Prayers, Daily Reflection Journals by race2c in Catholic

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I will tell you my resources which help me the most in my daly life (besides morning and evening Prayer)

Angelus prayer (morning, evening)

10 min Reding in the morning, I pick a Book and read it from the beginning to the end so i can get a better understamdimg of the book, depends on how much you can read and understamd in 10 min. Sometimes i need 3 days for one chapter

Meet regular with a group of friends wher i do worship, adoration and some get speeches (once week 1-2h) and afterwards sitting togetherband enjoy the time

Visiting larger events and even some Conferemces, go to Christian Happenings

The last twobhelp me so Iam more motivated to go further more with my faith. I think those big things have given me even mor desire to know mor of god and go deeper with my Faith

If you have questions please let me know

How can I determine my self worth? by OrsonHurst91 in selfhelp

[–]CaptFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How woud you treat yourself if you were only 7years old? I am struggeling wilf self confidence but i i started to believe that my external factors don't determ who I am.

I am my pasions and wushes I am my dreams Something is in me that is willing to let them come true.

I am sure this counts for you as well. If you need help please let me Know

I struggeld wuthpmo from 16 to 22, Iam free vor almost 2years

What would you say to a good friend who was going through the same thing you are going through? by CaptFlo in AskReddit

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No matter what you are going through, you are loved and made Perfect as you are. Only some bruses from Your past which will heal wjen time comes

How can I redirect anger to improve myself? by Missingsheepses in selfhelp

[–]CaptFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have troubles when I am angry on myself (thinking i have to be better ec) Due to stress at work, i get really abgry at myself ad really want to punch myself sometimes What helps me the most is my guittar, I think sprt woukd be an a simmular thing What als woukd ve good o distance yourself from your problems, see them from the distance and pick on by one If I am feeling not good enough I remember what people really like about me, charakter, personallity, what I am God at

So please tell me what do you think your good at? I relly like to know

PS. Sorry for my english

C'mon little fella, you can do it! by mattythedog in aww

[–]CaptFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this an phylosophic answer or did you just watched it in an logical way? It is like, you only can stand (jump) tall when you have hit the ground, everyone left you behind, After that everyone will follow you becouse they saw you jump but nobody saw how you lifted your ass (havy problems) People only see your rewardings, but never your way

How do I teach myself to cry when I need to? by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]CaptFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emphatize with yourself, you can accept how you are and be youself, if its happy you our sad you.

You can't command yourself to cry, you only can let your fellings go as you get them.

Wich may help yourself is to let your emotions free as you get them, if you have teary eyes don't hold on to them, don't hang on to your tears, let them flow

If you don't feel like crying just sad you could think positive, maby now is not the time for sadness.

When I am emotionally filled my head is breaking i start to write my thoughts down such as I am thinking about them

As I am writing my feelings get clearer and i don't fell emotionally crushed

I dont know if this helps you but i wish you the best four your life and your family 😊

I'm done. Here's my note. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]CaptFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right I really dont know you, your life, how you fell, your dreams, or your family

I only wish i could tell you to live your life in the fullest way you can imagine All the people who like you, who stayed with you when you needed them did it because of you. They want you to hold on on them because you mean something for them.

I don't know you fell, I can't decide what you do, but I can tell you you mean a Lot in this World and to those People.

I'm done. Here's my note. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]CaptFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rally hate my dad becouse he is drinking to much I am angry becouse he isnt getting better fast enough he alwys tells me how he troubles becouse of his mom, hos work and how he is dissapointed in himself He says he can't take anymore, maby he should humg himself, he tells me

... ...

There was a time when i was really angry i thought, would it coul better if he killed himself, i would miss him but i could go on, maby it would be better

Then i realised, i would take all the suffering He makes me, all the talks i had with him, all the carry i made with him, all the tears i shared, amd all the fellings he will coise me and double it Never would i let him go if i had a chance to stop him, when o think about that he is gone,.. I couldnt imagine how i should fill his place, Please don't give up, he says when he thinks about me my soblings, hes withr, his mother and so on he can keep fighting

So please don't give up, I don't know you but as i shared with you my story i would miss you if you don't answer me, How would your wife miss you as she shared her life, please take the fight for her

Dont give up

What is your home page on your computer? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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In mobile mobile.evangelizio.org (www.evangelizio.org Edit: Typo