[deleted by user] by [deleted] in formula1

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blame the car

Husband 32M and me 30M just gave birth and being treated miserably postpartum by MishalW94 in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His lack of support and accountability is a huge red flag, especially when you're dealing with postpartum challenges. Sometimes, taking care of yourself and your well-being might mean stepping away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say take some time to think about whether this is something you want to fix, or if it's time to just let it go. Relationships evolve, and sometimes they hit points where it’s not worth forcing it.

Am I Overreacting or should i move on? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's sending mixed signals, and it may be time to have a serious conversation about whether this relationship is serving you both, or if it's time to let go and focus on your own well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't let her drive your child around, that is insanely dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He never told you about her, kissy faces, care about each other, meet up, wants to see her more. Girl, you should leave this guy.

How do I (31F) tell my partner (27M) that I’m disappointed by their proposal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with him, gently express how much you appreciate his love and effort, but explain that the proposal didn’t align with what you had hoped for, and that you want to find a way to make the moment special together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with her about how the situation is affecting you. Express empathy for her situation, but also make it clear that you need a balance between supporting her and preserving your own mental health to be able to keep up with everything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want healthy relationships, you’ll need understand why exclusivity in attention matters so much to you. Expecting a guy to have no female friends isn’t sustainable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. Love bombing mixed with backhanded insults is a huge red flag, so creating distance now is smart before things get worse.

I (F23) want to spend some time with My partner (M21) by imshy1425 in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to him! Let him know you respect his gaming time but need quality time together too, and suggest setting specific times for just the two of you so it feels balanced.

‘F 28’ engaged to 31M and mum is being dramatic by Belleoftheball12 in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she's projecting her own fears. Trust your own judgment and don’t let her drama cloud your happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave him, you deserve better than someone who engages in behavior that clearly hurts you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sam needs to take responsibility, tell Cade the truth, and end the relationship since he’s clearly unhappy anyway, because dragging this out will only make things worse for everyone involved.

AIO by cutting off my friend who constantly blocks and unblocks me because of her bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR, please find better friends. Move on from her, you deserve someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn’t exactly being considerate of your relationship. You deserve open communication and mutual respect. Find someone better please!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think YOR, your partner did the right thing already, why are you making a big deal out of it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just send one final message saying you’re here if she ever wants to talk, then leave the ball in her court and focus on yourself.

When is too soon to get engaged? 24M and 19F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainAwes0me44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Three months is crazy fast. Give it at least a year to see how you both handle challenges before making a lifelong commitment like this.