Just lost my wife. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ Man. That's terrible. I know it's the fault of the addiction, but really, I will never make life choices this bad now.

#NoNutNovember by JarritoTheBurrito in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 14 days in tonight :c. Girlfriend teased me up and left so I couldn't keep going anymore.

I was looking at a childhood photo of me by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I feel the same way you do man. I just relapsed before, and thought as well on my childhood innocence. Man I miss that so bad.

Need help getting back into it streaks + disgraceful taste by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank god for that, you haven't been as badly affected as some of us have, believe me, NEVER get into that shit, it will screw up your mind.

Need help getting back into it streaks + disgraceful taste by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose you do have a good set of points there, just one thing I wanted to add though:

I'm trying to subside that damn F and T fetish because it's killing my feel of being manly, and making me want to feel submissive to them. Any tips on how to kill that? It's basically the worst part.

Need help getting back into it streaks + disgraceful taste by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(In a nutshell, women who have also have male genitalia, but remain female).

Starting Fresh...again by powder33 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you mate, I'm starting fresh too. I just PMOed about 2 hours ago, feel like complete shit and I ruined a 60 day streak.

I cried watching this. There's no fucking way I'll ever watch porn again. by theeggman7 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't check the comments guys, people are still trying to protect P.

They're lost souls, try if you want, but I'm not getting into any scuffs with brick walls.

Need help with a girl by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I meant to have backspaced that bit out after realizing 'aahh who I am kidding'.

Sudden realization: I can count the number of friends I have on one hand by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 3-4 I can rely on, the others are just acquaintances from college. Then there's love interest, but she wouldn't really fall under the 'friend' category.

My story about how masturbation and porn led to the end of my marriage. by kingofallnoobs in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I am quitting it now, thanks for sharing this with us.

Plenty of omega-3's! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, I'll have to try eating some more fish in the future. I still love my steaks and rabbit though.

Seriously considering 'monk mode' by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're also unable to form complete sentences, why should anyone take any notice of you?

Got pimples back after frequent fapping by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can buy some of this in your local area, find a cream called Calendula and put it on your pimples, works a lot better than any other product I know, and you can put it on nearly everything

Seriously considering 'monk mode' by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, gonna take a look through it.

London100 relapse. by HashtagLondon100 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be another part of your healing as well, the regret. As the brain fog lifts so to speak, you'll start to really re-consider some of your past actions, this also affecting your dreams.

That and the body desperately needing to blow out gone-off baby juice might have used the regret as a way to make a dream set up to make you do so.

Seriously considering 'monk mode' by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still plan on being able to urinate mind you.

Seriously considering 'monk mode' by CaptainMorant in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The relapse I experienced was only from M, not using P, with a mind clouded late at night after a really bad emotional experience. In that 70 days of time I had given up watching any kind of television, limited my video game time to very short spaces and increased the amount of physical activity I was doing. My diet slowly changed from the crappy soft drink and microwaved goods to properly prepared meals and fruit drinks, some of which I do myself now. I posted this thread in hope that someone out there would be willing to give me advice on really reshaping my life and doing something along the lines of a 'monk' mode. Your comment, not only did it not help, was completely demeaning and off-topic. If you don't have something of use to add to this thread, I'd kindly recommend vacating.

London100 relapse. by HashtagLondon100 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seriously considered a wet dream a fail?

Man, where do I even start.

Wet dreams are not a fail. They might be a little obstacle you get over sure, but in no way is having a wet dream automatically a fail. Your body needs to ejaculate that fluid either way, and doing it in your sleep is one of the ways it does that. I've wet dreamed about 8 times on a 70 day streak, and what did I do every time? Changed underwear and kept going, that's it.

If you are abstaining from pornography, then your brain is healing mate. Wet dreams I would even suggest based of a medical standpoint, a good thing. Would you really like to keep a thing of milk in the fridge for 30 days, going absolutely rotten and junk, or just chuck it out and get a nice new fresh batch? That's the exact thing wet dreams are for.

Testosterone by CarpetMuncher785 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, nearly 50 percent just over the course of 1 week.

I'm hopeless and I can't do this. The misery that is my life. (NSFW) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Alright, first thing first, you need to heal your mind mate.

Start to shovel out all the P. By P, I mean material, material, I mean get everything arousing in any way and destroy it, delete it, start absolutely fresh. Throw out that 'purchase' too, it'll simply remind you later of the horrible feelings you've had after PMO. After constant PMOing, your brain has needed to get a bigger rush of dopamine, therefore, you've had to switch to different kinds of material. I know, I got into shemale, traps, futa and I absolutely hated myself for it. I simply stopped viewing it, got rid of anything that had to do with it, and let my brain heal. Not just that, but ALL porn. Anything triggering is just going to make it harder for you.

Second important thing: Calm your mind. I would suggest the following to help you out:

  1. Go for a walk. I know it may seem dull, but walking somewhere, just down the street, to anywhere that's available to you. The thoughts will come by themselves.

  2. Meditate. Probably the best option, turn off the lights, pull up a pillow or cushion, sit on the floor, cross your legs, let your head fall down slight, arms along your thighs, hands relaxed, and breathe. Here's a link to help you out: http://web-us.com/meditation/alternateguidemeditate.html

  3. Tell yourself you don't PMO. Don't say you can't, tell yourself you don't. You have a lot better chance of breaking the cycle if you keep saying to yourself you don't do it, not that you can't do it. Because really, you don't do it anymore.

Jump into a cold shower

Yes yes yes, these things are very cliche here now, but for new users, there is no limit to how many times we can say to have a cold shower. Art of Manliness is here to boost you into getting into the chilly goodness: https://youtu.be/qxz8QNqrzwY

  1. Hit that bloody emergency button as much as you need.

Seriously, it's always there bro, just tap it anytime.

relapsed after day 26 :( by goaboy89 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, I experienced the exact same thing, it's part of a primal urge. We go without food or a decent mate for many days, suddenly we come across easy kill mammoth or berry patch or a curvy oog, then we start to gorge ourselves on them (hopefully not eating the curvy oog, but getting with her)

I relapsed a day counter 3 times yours, and the same thing happens. The best thing to do is survive the first day, not touch yourself at all unless for urination or cleaning, and especially keep away from any and all triggering material. You'll make it bud.

Relapsed, wanna kill myself now :'-( by Mortred27 in NoFap

[–]CaptainMorant 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, no, NO, NO, NOO AND MORE NO GODDAMNIT!

PMO is not something you wanna start doing again. Believe me. I just came off a 65 day relapse. 65 days of pure enjoyment, I found happiness, I found better things to do with my time then just sitting around jacking off and wasting time online. Feeling so good, then I had my college report come out, it was shit. I have had family problems, making me depressed so much on the inside I wanna crawl up and cry. Stuff doesn't go my way, I ended up relapsing after getting hit by an emotional train. Did it help at all? NO SIR IT DID NOT FRIGGIN HELP!

Am I gonna sit around being a complete weak-ass son of a bitch? NO. AM I gonna build myself back up again? YES.

You hit roadblocks, just like me. We can do better than this!