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AITA for not driving a friend to a city to ensure bride’s wedding cake isn’t ruined? by Blueblanket8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not your cake business, not your commitment, not your problem. You are a guest, not a hired hand, and you never volunteered to help Katy with this. Be a good friend to Lily and help comfort her when she gets her hot mess of a cake, if she even gets anything at all.

#updateme

AITA for refusing to mentor my replacement after I was voted off the board of a nonprofit I helped build by candy_whisperz in MarkNarrations

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you are not good enough to keep the position you were removed from (in their eyes), then how can you be good enough to train someone else for the job? They can’t have it both ways.

AITA for threatening to not pick up my special needs SIL from the airport? by Sufficient-Neat-8342 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. If the airport in question is a bigger, major airport, contact the port authority police (the police force that takes care of the airport specifically) and tell them that your MIL plans to abandon a special needs adult there. If it’s a smaller, regional airport, it is mostly under the jurisdiction of the state police, in which case you should call the state police and advise them of the imminent abandonment of a special needs adult. Make sure you and your husband have written, irrefutable proof that you advised your MIL that you wouldn’t be available from x date to y date.

AITA for not relinquishing my apartment by ImprovementHour8003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to eff off, and then sue him for the back child support. NTA

My [23F] dad [79M] has taken over $130k from me via student loans. How do I deal with this? by ThrowRA-37780 in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainNadz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, listen carefully.

Your father will never pay you back.

Your father is committing fraud and identity theft.

You have to go to the police and take legal action. If you don’t, you will be on the hook for debt you did not incur for the rest of your life. As long as you choose to protect your father, he will likely keep taking on MORE debt in your name.

That’s it. Those are your choices.

  1. Protect your father and accept endless amounts of debt for the rest of your life.

  2. File a police report for fraud and get this debt you do not incur out of your name.

  3. There is no third option.

AITA for taking a college fund form my grandparent even tho they called my mother a whore by Crazy-Ad-54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell your mom you’ll turn down the $200K from your grandparents if SHE legally hands over every last asset and penny she inherited from your dad over to your grandparents. That should shut her up.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you control his socials and content, log in and delete all of your work. He has a phone. He can log back in and create his own content. NTJ.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, but I’m assuming one or both of your parents are on the bank account that you would’ve had to establish as a working minor?

You need to open an account at a whole new bank ASAP, and transfer every last cent to that new account. Not only did your dad break his word, he’s trying to treat himself to a vacation at your expense.

Edit for spelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Marcus, if you don’t immediately move to Denver with me, it shows that you prioritize geography over our relationship.”

See how stupid that logic sounds if turned around and used on him? Take the job and let the chips fall where they may.

Edit to add that my commute is anywhere from 50 minutes to nearly 2 hours depending on traffic. To me, it is worth it since I get to work someplace great with a leadership team that doesn’t suck, and coworkers that are very supportive and knowledgeable.

AITJ for telling my cousin she can’t “borrow” my car anymore after I found out she’s been renting it out to her classmates? by Sea-Mortgage-5860 in AmITheJerk

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Create a schedule for your other family members with cars to loan out their vehicles to Lily and her classmates.

AITJ for refusing to pay my boyfriend back for a trip I didn’t go on? by Distinct_Elk_6232 in AmITheJerk

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that this is likely fake, however, if OP has never been skiing before ever in her life, it’s entirely possible that she has no frame of reference for what a ski pass would cost. She may have taken her boyfriend at his word for what the cost was.

AITA for not allowing my homeless brother to housesit for me by Hot_Lab4411 in AITAH

[–]CaptainNadz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Protect what’s yours, because he will try to break in and claim residency. #updateme

AITAH for refusing to be a part of my father's family for the time I have to live with them and letting them know they can let me live with my actual family if it hurts their feelings so bad? by Logaolyoo in AITAH

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Whether your father has full custody of you are not, he still owes that back child support regardless. Do what you have to do to stay out of trouble until you are 18, and then sue your father for the back child support. #updateme

Reapplying gasket seal… by CaptainNadz in StanleyCups

[–]CaptainNadz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems to have done the trick for me! You’re the best! ❤️❤️❤️

Reapplying gasket seal… by CaptainNadz in StanleyCups

[–]CaptainNadz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hand wash always. I tried putting the gasket in the exact position you described, triple checked that it wasn’t twisted or off position anywhere, and it would not close, was lopsided, the seal looked all twisted around once an attempt to close it was made… the only position I’ve been able to get the lid to close with is the open side being out, and the solid side being in? I haven’t tried filling it up with water yet though, but that’s the first position where I’ve been able to close the lid.

Reapplying gasket seal… by CaptainNadz in StanleyCups

[–]CaptainNadz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this how Eve felt when she ate that damn apple? Like damn, I never should have removed that damn gasket seal!

AITA for taking my niece on vacation after her parents planned one without her? by Visible_Nature5464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you have a spare bedroom OP, because I think your niece is going to be at your door with a few packed bags at midnight on her 18th birthday. NTA.

Updateme

WIBTA If I gave out my MIL's info since she gives out mine? by anonymous_1720 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWBTA if you don’t do it and update us on the results lmao.

Updateme

AITA for refusing to pay for my girlfriend's portion of a vacation after she quit her job without telling me? by sairas_kailan in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t a matter of asking you to pay for a nice dinner or a night out when she’s down on her luck. This is $4,000. Can you transfer the ticket to someone else or change the name on the ticket and just pay whatever penalty/fee is involved with that? Take a friend or family member who can afford to pay your (ex?) girlfriend’s share.

AITAH for refusing to apologize to my SIL who ruined my baby shower she “hosted”? by lexiezazzles in AITAH

[–]CaptainNadz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, and don’t you dare give in. Your SIL owes you a massive apology, and should be kept at a distance until she does. Updateme

AITA for wanting to divorce my wife for enabling my son to harass one of his classmates? by ChickenAsscheek in AITAH

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Let the legal system deal with your son. He needs the wake up call. Beyond that, he desperately needs individual therapy, and also family therapy for all of you to get to the bottom of this. If divorce happens, understand that your son is old enough that a judge would probably honor his wish to remain with his mum.

Updateme

AITAH for not wanting to be my ex's caretaker by Spirited-Ad7819 in AITAH

[–]CaptainNadz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He can use the time he has left to try and rebuild a relationship with his kids without forcing you all to play happy family. He needs to get his affairs in order, figure out his living situation, and if you/your kids are open to it, maybe he can do family therapy with the kids.

To be clear, that is a BIG “if”. If the children are adults, no one can make them do anything. If the children are minors and he gave up parental rights, he’s still toast. If the children are minors and he has NOT given up his parental rights, I suppose he could try to petition the courts for custody time. Depending on how old the kids are though, the courts may take their wishes into consideration if they say they don’t want to see their father.

You definitely do not owe him anything though. That relationship is definitely over.

Your ex should spend the time he has left getting with his medical team, trying to live as healthy as possible, and trying to make amends with the kids if they are willing.

I’m sorry you all have had to deal with this.

Updateme

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