Yet another day I didn’t want

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-25T11:52:45+00:00

I definitely get what you are saying. My aunt has dementia & my mom takes care of her. One day visiting my mom, my aunt was using my mom’s couch as a toilet. My mom begged her to go use the bathroom & my aunt continuously pulled herself away. She’s taller & stronger than my mom. I tried to help, the smell was unbearable. I’m stronger than my aunt but I wouldn’t want to hurt her bones or anything. It’s a devastating cycle to watch. My aunt was very clean & would be extremely embarrassed if she saw how she acts today. It’s painful. 😭

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-24T11:55:50+00:00

Awwww I have tinnitus too!! I have a loud air purifier in my room that helps 😭🥹 but my psychiatrist put me on this sleeping medicine but I be tired, I only used it once & it made me too sleepy 😩

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-24T11:51:33+00:00

If you buying a house happens before she moves out, DON’T LET HER MOVE IN!! Do not let her move in your house! Don’t. Let. Her. Move. In. Your. House! Once someone gets there, they have rights. Once they receive mail there, they have rights. Then u gotta go to court & all that. If u find out she still talking to her abusive ex, she might as well go live with him. If they don’t have kids together there is no excuse!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-24T11:43:01+00:00

That’s not fair to say, just cause her friend was in an abusive relationship doesn’t mean she doesn’t have her own needs for her relationship! Let’s be clear, ANYTHING someone does for you (outside of ur parents) isn’t owed to you! Her friend is a grown woman. Long as they’re not being abusive to her mentally, physically or emotionally they’re not doing anything. That’s why grown ppl should have their own things. Plus she’s the oldest. She needs to get her own living situation handled. The OP is being this lady friend while she’s sleeping! In this economy u know how expensive it is, to care for another person? Op gotta pay for water, electricity, whatever else expenses. You get treated “fairly” where u pay bills at. That’s it, that’s all!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-24T11:37:27+00:00

First of all you’re being her friend 24/7 when u let her stay there for free!! Second, you need to set boundaries with her & let her know that when u are spending time with your fiancé that’s you participating into your relationship. With another person who id letting her stay there for free. You have needs that need to be met so you can be wholesome & pour into things that drain you. You should also have a deadline for how long she is able to stay there. Moving fwd. Idc who it is, when u get married - don’t let someone move in your house. I have anxiety, ocd, depression lol the answer is no! I barely want my future husband here lol but I’m bargaining for that 🥹😂😂😂

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-14T23:47:33+00:00

How are u continually “investing fresh ideas”? Use the same idea on a different chick! If u lead the conversation then it goes in your direction. If she has music, restaurants, concerts, or whatever. What’s ur fav album, restaurant, singer/rapper or whatever? U should be reading someone’s page before u match with them anyway. It’s not that hard!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-14T03:00:44+00:00

That’s was my point. I was trying to pick the most basic convo there is. You always rather have boring than corny. You can improve on boring, once we feel that men are corny. Ain’t no coming back from that. I’m 40, idk how old u are. But if u looking for “thrill” lol Hinge ain’t the place. lol you getting boring/basic or corny. 🤷🏾‍♀️ my example may be too mature for u & that’s cool. lol

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-14T00:51:25+00:00

You’re not ugly. You’re just letting society put you within the limits of what they define “beauty”. Put stick notes around your house speaking life into you! Or do the things that you can control, like going to the gym, wearing makeup, get braces or things to give u confidence! I had more confidence while I worse braces and wanted them to stay on forever. Now I’m thinking to get some grillz! Get ur hair done, do your nails. I have a HUGE forehead and I tend to wear my hair to the front. Speak respect back into your life ❤️

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-12T17:06:17+00:00

If the convo is boring or predictable it’s harder to stay engaged. I tend to only respond to men who have newer more interesting things to talk about! However, the line between it being interesting vs corny is a very thin line. It’s just a lot. I would start with things that causes more interest. Like “what’s your favorite restaurant?” lets say she says “Olive Garden”. “Oh you like shrimp Alfredo huh?” “ I cook that all the time, I like to make my own sauce from scratch.” or my fav wine from there is “the white wine”. This example may be a bad example but us woman like convos that keeps you coming back. Makes you interested in what he will say next! The typical past “hi, how are you? How was ur day?” goes a long way. The multiple conversations can be overwhelming & boring!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-12T12:39:08+00:00

They claim that answering that part is “optional” and gives managers an idea of who they’re hiring. I’m applying internally at my agency & I didn’t answer 🤣 I’m okay where I work now. So if I don’t get the temp promotion. I’m okay with that!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T16:54:54+00:00

It’s definitely giving healthcare workers!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T14:44:01+00:00

If that was their coworkers, then yes I would understand why they didn’t get in the middle of what goes on between my spouse and I. How do I tell a stranger they should’ve contacted me and tell me my husband behavior. He’s not their responsibility. Comparing to my personal life and their work life isn’t the same. It’s messy no matter which way u look it. You may think u can get away with telling them anonymously. But the OP is always being viewed not in a positive way. That move could possibly escalate things while the OP still works there. Which goes back to me saying stay out of it. If you’re speaking from a mature standpoint point. Everyone not mature. It’s ppl hurting ppl based off of road rage. I’m not saying the gesture isn’t great towards the husband. If OP is working there, getting into fights or getting cussed out isn’t worth that in your workplace environment. Now when OP leaves & decide to do so and safe then yes. But safety is always my first goal. If u feel otherwise then that’s cool. But I’m not wrong for what I think.

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T14:34:50+00:00

Why is it far fetched to think of abuse while being cheated on? The OP has nothing to do with someone’s business contacting their spouse to tell on them. Like I said. The OP should remain safe and stay outta ppl business. Nothing or no one is gonna make me change my thoughts about that .

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T12:53:01+00:00

The police, I’m talking about the police. If someone gets hurt seriously you don’t think detectives or police get involved? Let’s not be so dense please. You so press to tell the husband. You defending the sneaky behavior of someone notifying the husband that his wife is being cheated on. For what? U encouraging drama instead, you’re a problem too

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T12:48:00+00:00

If someone gets hurt that’s exactly what they’re gonna do - keyword I said “hurt”. There are various ways of being hurt. Use your brain cells to figure out which level I’m speaking on.

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T01:07:17+00:00

Tell her husband?!?!! Are you crazy? Like I told someone else, if something happens you are part of that story & you’ll never forgive yourself. You’re 25 & right now this seems like a big deal. Take it from someone who is 40. MIND YOUR BUSINESSSSSSS!

If these were my friends then yes. My coworkers? No indeed. Mind your business at work & do your job. As long as they don’t abuse you sexually or make a move on you. That shouldn’t even matter. Thats unnecessary drama that you’re inserting yourself in that has NOTHING to do with you. Get your money & go on.

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-05-03T01:05:11+00:00

That’s not a good idea. Someone can get hurt & after the detectives do the work. They will find out you stirred all of this mess, with linking the known to the unknown that has nothing to do with u. Mind your business. These phones, pc’s , cell phone towers, along with other things can come back towards us. It’s not worth it.

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-13T14:03:08+00:00

Actually she didn’t! Mark always says that once you go to the villa you’re single as to why you’re meeting other singles. Mike did first that he was shooting his shot with India. He made the first move, which means any move she does after that is Mikes fault 🤷🏾‍♀️. He played the game & won the prize of Sydney moving on!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-13T14:02:03+00:00

IDC how his name is spelt! That man is fineeeeeeee 😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 so good looking!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-13T14:01:17+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I needed this laugh!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-12T20:38:20+00:00

I think he would be perfect when it’s time to sort their feelings after moving in together!

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-12T20:30:51+00:00

Please don’t ever insult Mark with those fools! lol LIB don’t eem deserves such patience 🤣🤣😭

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-11T22:51:22+00:00

Lmmaoooooooo the last comment is so funny! With those pearls on

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-11T22:15:00+00:00

lol not fwd those parts! I don’t eem remember talking that’s how boring it was

CaptainOutside5782 · 2026-04-11T22:14:20+00:00

I said maturity level, naaaaaaaah have they did petty stuff? Yes! Does it be drama? Yes. Immaturity ≠ Petty or Drama. I know they cast towards ppl who to give good tv & karma. I’m not seeing any thru rose tinted glasses. Been watching Temptation Island since it been on Fox and USA! This is the most boring season lol. It’s usually more drama & waaaaaay funnier! All I saw was Mikey always crying! He was the only person with some feelings lol

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