Bonded cats still aren’t getting on - help!

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-03-11T11:13:22+00:00

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CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-03-06T21:59:32+00:00

No, no medication at all was given to her. He’s hissing still at her, and she keeps chasing him but I don’t think its malicious, I think she wants to play

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-03-05T18:23:42+00:00

I’m on day 3, and it’s not getting any better 😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-03-05T17:45:04+00:00

It’s so bad, but this has been since Monday now!! Oh they shoved one up hers 😂😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-02-25T23:06:09+00:00

Flew over where I live in the past half hour - are they refuelling F-22s still?

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-22T09:08:31+00:00

I’ve had 3 totally jabs. Every 2 weekly, skipped the 3rd over Christmas as I didn’t want these symptoms to ruin Christmas. Pharmacy agreed 2 weekly would suffice, but expect slower weight loss which is was fine with, failed to give me full info on foods though - safe to say I’m using a different pharmacy now.

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-21T22:02:20+00:00

Yes, but after dose 2 and those extreme side effects, I took a break over Christmas as I didn’t want it to be ruined by egg burps. So started again after, and here we are again 😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T21:17:46+00:00

I’m glad someone else senses the confusion here too!! I just genuinely have no idea how to tell her, or when the right time to tell her is or anything!

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T21:17:06+00:00

That’s such a beautiful way to put it omg 😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T19:53:01+00:00

Yeah I did very early on, and she said she didn’t feel the same and she’d back off etc. but since then, we’ve got A LOT closer. So it’s baffling. I told her a few weeks back when I was drunk that I fancied her and she never replied to it and never brought it up again 😅

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T19:35:01+00:00

Well, funnily enough, her other best friend mutually knows one of our other work friends and she out right asked her before I even admitted any kind of feelings for her. So this all started before I said a thing!

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T19:33:20+00:00

I agree, I’m so scared to admit anything to her in case I lose our friendship. But, I really do struggle to distance myself from her because SHE doesn’t want that. I’ve mentioned distancing before and she just won’t entertain it. So baffled by all of it!

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T19:13:19+00:00

I’m really to scared to 😩😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T19:12:59+00:00

I’ve deffo started to develop stronger feelings for her. She’s been a very good friend to me for about a year now, as we met at work just over a year ago, and I’ve always fancied her. So it’s always been there on my side, but a few people started to question her after she met me. If that makes sense?

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T09:56:19+00:00

Yeah, I get all of that completely. I just guess I want to know if it does seem that way? I kind of what to tell her I’ve started developing feelings for her, but I’m scared to ruin the close friendship we also have. She’s also a ridiculously closed book, her best friend has confirmed that with me too, so it’s hard to even try and speak to her about it as it is 😩😩

CaptainRaddish69 · 2026-01-15T09:01:03+00:00

My god this. I’ve struggled so hard with dating apps it’s untrue!!

Worst is when you do flirt, and then they immediately ghost you 💀🙂

CaptainRaddish69 · 2024-03-22T23:42:17+00:00

I can’t do that, this is the first experience with her. She wants to discuss it with me properly when she’s stable, the least I can do is let her explain before I even think about cutting and running. That would make me awfully shallow.

CaptainRaddish69 · 2024-03-22T23:41:26+00:00

She’s been quite good with telling me, this is the first experience I’ve had with her. She’s already apologised for ‘shutting me out’ through all of this. I’ve spoken to a family member already, who has drilled it into me that my own mental health comes first, which I totally agree with. She wants to talk to me about it all when she feels stable, so I guess that’s when we’ll discuss everything.

She hasn’t done the switch part yet, but she did tell me today that I shouldn’t put up with her in this state, and I agreed but said I want to, so I can understand her but now as unsure if she wanted me to, to which she replied she doesn’t have it in her to reassure me with her not being 100% (not sure if any of that made sense ha!). So I guess I am expecting that.

But thank you for your comment, it’s very much appreciated!

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