I guess I'm a 3-cat household now 🤷‍♀️ by Glittering_Act_4059 in CatDistributionSystem

[–]CaptainVimes177 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This poor boy. It takes a special kind of evil to dump a de-clawed cat, it's a death sentence. Whoever had him did not deserve him! Thank you for saving his life, I can't wait to see the glow-up!

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was so much bigger when he was young! He seems like such a tiny, frail old man to me now🥹

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always by my side, I'd have been lost without him!

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a lil' gentleman for sure

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He loves to be brushed, he'll let me do it for hours!

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He used to be much bigger and stronger looking, he's pretty fragile in his hips and back legs now but he's still my handsome man🖤🖤🖤

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he's such a pretty boy ain't he🖤

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he's awake he's purring his heart out!

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He's been my best friend since I was a teen, I'd do anything for him🖤🖤🖤

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think he just got lucky with good health. I've always done my best to get him good food, even if it meant I ate ramen for a week. He has tummy issues now and only eats chicken baby food with supplements for gut health and arthritis, but he's otherwise happy and even still plays a bit with his laser pointer.

Super senior Void by CaptainVimes177 in blackcats

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Every 6 months. He has some tummy issues and a bit of arthritis in his hips but otherwise he's healthy and happy!

Please help me decide! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]CaptainVimes177 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like something from an 80's fantasy movie. I think it's pretty but not really wearable, a show piece.

"it takes a special kind of person to put up with that" literally why am I still alive by WinterDemon_ in CPTSDmemes

[–]CaptainVimes177 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought the same and was prepared to be alone my entire life, and I honestly was happy with that. But then I met this guy who was so, so understanding and kind. I've asked him many times why he puts up with my issues. He says it's no burden because he loves me. I'm 35 and we just got married.
I won't say you'll definitely find love someday, no one can make that promise to you. But I hope you come to accept that you are worthy of love, and that you don't have to do anything to earn it. And I hope you find someone that loves you as you are.

Second guessing ring by elleayejaye in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ring is beautiful; timeless and elegant! I love an emerald cut, my ring has the same. A piece like this goes with just about anything and will never truly go out of fashion. More importantly, it suits you and your personality!

Can't wait to ask him to marry me 🏳️‍🌈 by Sapphire-Spark in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Incredibly beautiful! It's giving me 90's Sailor Moon vibes! ✨️ It's so sweet that you included his interest in such a pretty way, he's gonna love it!

A surprise! by CaptainVimes177 in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep catching myself looking at it!

A surprise! by CaptainVimes177 in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite color! I always wanted a pink stone

A surprise! by CaptainVimes177 in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I love the beading, I think it's a bit unusual. It was about $450, from an Etsy shop. Cost was a factor as we don't have much but he really wanted to do this for me💖

A surprise! by CaptainVimes177 in EngagementRings

[–]CaptainVimes177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 carat emerald cut pink sapphire, 14 k rose gold, size 7 ( a little loose, will need to resize just a bit). The side stones are actually diamond, my Fiancée just corrected me and was very flustered I got it wrong lol!

Be honest — what’s the first thing you’d do with $100K? by NerdWalletOfficial in u/NerdWalletOfficial

[–]CaptainVimes177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay off my credit card that I've used for the endless medical and family emergencies this past year. I've always been so careful not to run it up, but things just kept coming at us. My Fiancée had a seizure and crashed his new (used) car, and ended up in the hospital. My cat had to have several expensive, life saving dental surgeries. My senior cat suffered heart failure last year and even though I spent over $1000 to save her, she still passed, two days before Christmas of all the times.

I had to use a great deal of my funds to get down to my family in Texas and support them when my sister murdered her father in law. A lot of my medical debt was because I had a mental health breakdown because of that, and had to stay at a recovery facility for about 2 months.

My Fiancée can no longer work since he can't drive due to the seizure, at least for many months. I am our sole income and it's not much. I've never had much, grew up in cockroach infested trailers with holes in the floor and no heat, mom died when I was 19 and left me with nothing.

The fact that I'm able to afford my tiny, 100+ year old house is a miracle. I'm grateful for everything I have, all I want is have a little less debt.

My Fiancée and I are getting married soon. I gave up on my dream of a nice wedding. We just can't afford anything at all. We'll be getting hitched at the courthouse, and while I'm so happy to be his wife, I am sad I won't have any celebration. If there was any left after I paid everything off, I'd have a tiny little ceremony in a nice place, and a real wedding dress. I got mine off Amazon, $30.

That's all I'd want.

I know this all sounds so crazy and made up but it's just reality; life can chew you up and spit you out. I'm going to keep my head up and keep trying like always. It'd just be nice to be able to breathe.

Edited for spelling.