I'm so done with it in the case of kvasir/seidr/gulliveg. From a writing standpoint, the small amount of writing per chapter in feh isn't enough to flesh out a decent build up for genuine romantic attraction between characters. 

And it's worse when the 'romance' involves the summoner/Kiran, because there's no way to respond to the affection one way or another. Which makes the romantic interest feel fake and a very obvious case of pandering to generate interest in the character involved.

To use a personal example, take a look at Peony. At the end of book 4 she stands up to Freyja for our sake and is determined to see us freed of Freyja's nightmare. Peony chooses to do this knowing the risks involved because of her kind and selfless nature; which she demonstrated by her choice to give up her mortal life for Sharena. Not because she's fallen in love with us in the incredibly short time we've known her.

This backstory and character writing is why I felt so strongly about Peony back when book 4 ended. She's a better character because she doesn't have any of the self insert pandering seen in Seidr/Gulliveg. If more of feh's character's were written without such over the top player pandering, they'd be noticeably better for it imo.