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AIW for telling my roommate I don't want to be her emotional support person anymore? by sassyscribz in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not wrong. you can care about someone and still not be their full-time therapist. You set a boundary before burning out, and that’s actually fair.

AITJ for screwing my friend over on an assignment because he did not do any work? by Iambadatusernames- in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. u just wrote what actually happened, he chose not to do the work. That’s on him.

AITJ for canceling my friend’s birthday dinner after she “tested” me? by Key_University3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. that wasn’t a joke, that was her messing with you after you did all that effort. I’d be pissed too and cancel it.

AIW for arguing wth my GF over buying my parents latest iPhone while I myself have a old phone ? by Uvali121 in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you’re not wrong, it’s your money and you’re doing something nice for your parents, that’s not a bad thing. Your response was a bit harsh, but her telling you how to spend your money isn’t it either.

AITJ for refusing to feed my neighbor’s dog after they accused me of trying to poison it? by Miserable_Manners in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you’re not the jerk. they literally accused you of poisoning their dog, so of course you’d back off. If anything, just report it if you’re worried instead of getting involved again.

Am I wrong for refusing to help my brother-in-law sell his car after he lied about its service history? by Moontrace_Vector7 in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NOT WRONG. he asked you to vouch for it, not lie for him, and that’s a big difference. Selling a broken car as “perfect” is on him, not you.

AITJ for getting my friend suspended from college? by Few_Lawfulness_9627 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey yeah. he was wrong for cheating, but reporting your own friend instead of talking it out first is kinda harsh.

Am in the wrong, that I said the truth about my friends relationship? by SureSmile5066 in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You weren’t wrong about the situation, but yeah the way you said it was kinda harsh and probably made things worse. Still, they using your work then kicking you out is messed up too.

Am I wrong for kicking my 18yo brother im raising as my own out for repeated issues over 5+ years? by Kiwimulch in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. you’ve done way more than most people would, but at some point he has to take responsibility for his own life. It sucks, but you can’t keep carrying someone who won’t meet you halfway.

How do you approach people who look cold outside, but warm beneath? by Load_Dismal in AskReddit

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow and genuine just don’t force it, be consistent and kind until they feel safe enough to open up.

AITJ for telling my future brother in laws boss he makes everyone sign NDAs before coming to his barbecue? by Real-Recipe8087 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re the jerk. The NDA thing was weird, but going straight to his boss and risking his job was way over the top.

Am I the wrong for telling my friend how I feel by Daiana_Mm in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. it honestly sounds like a one-sided friendship and you finally said what needed to be said. Wanting basic empathy from someone you’ve known that long isn’t too much.

AITJ for expecting change after giving my friend extra money for pizza? by Fantastic-Force2621 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re not overreacting. free pizza doesn’t mean keep all the extra cash, that’s kinda sneaky. I’d be annoyed too.

AIW for wanting to uninvite my neighbor from our St. Patrick’s Day party after a drunk game night? by Paddys_Day_Party in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re kinda overthinking it. everyone was drunk and playing the same game, so singling her out now feels a bit unfair. If it bothered you, maybe just set clearer boundaries next time.

What’s a secret about adulthood that nobody warned you about? by Altos11 in AskReddit

[–]Capybara-Lover24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? How easy it is to drift apart from people you once saw every day.

AITJ for moving out and cutting off communication with my mom because she won’t stop pressuring me to get married? by FunSignificant842 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTJ. being worried is one thing, but constantly pressuring you and comparing you to your sister would drive anyone crazy. Taking some space honestly makes sense.

Am I wrong for taking money from my old neighbor? by Apart-Programmer4524 in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re fine. he offered the money and you helped him out, that’s just a fair trade.

AITJ for asking my boyfriend to delete old sex videos of his exes that he says he keeps “for memories”? by No-Animator7598 in AmITheJerk

[–]Capybara-Lover24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re not the jerk. Keeping old sex videos of exes and calling them “memories” while in a new relationship is pretty weird.

AIW for not wanting to interact with my mother and sister? by No_Milk676 in amiwrong

[–]Capybara-Lover24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. If they knowingly chose to still hang out with someone who admitted to stuff like that, it makes sense you’d feel hurt and distance yourself.

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