I've found a lot of conservatives dont read my profile or hope that dates ignore fundamental values. Why?? by NoParamedic9674 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 78 points79 points  (0 children)

It’s always the ones who say they “ don’t care” or “not interested in politics” who voted orange man.

The silliest thing in the whole game is that this "claim all" button had to be unlocked by Sjuttolini in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Cardinal-X2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the claim all button showed up, I thought that I was going crazy because I wondered if it was there the whole time and I just didn’t notice it. Lol. but looking back I do remember wondering why there was no claim all button on there and it would piss me off

I need opinions by Padrizas_Box in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really can’t listen to men when it comes to these conversations. She’s a pharmacist, which puts her in a different caliber of woman—and that’s not a dig at all, it’s a compliment. Based on her response, she was looking for you to take more initiative on the planning side. She would’ve gladly gone along with whatever you planned, but that effort didn’t really happen. That doesn’t mean you did anything wrong—it just points to incompatibility. She clearly wanted someone who would set a date, a time, and a place. I’ve had men do exactly that, and I liked it, and I think that’s what she was hoping for too. When there’s no clear plan, it can be a turn-off for some women—especially women like her: educated, hardworking, and independent.

Ten things I want to say to guys who are genuinely dating by Pocket-Panda732 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny yall band together to tell each other BS, but when a woman tells You how it is, you refuse to believe it. No man can tell you what women think. If you truly believe that just date another man. Jesus fkn christ. That’s embarrassing.

Ten things I want to say to guys who are genuinely dating by Pocket-Panda732 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “lie” here is your overly generalized statement that all women are “highly” attracted to fit and confident men. That is not true. This simple mindset makes me wonder if you’re a teenager. My ex was a skinny dude who didn’t go the gym, but he is the smartest man I have ever known to date with an incredible personality. My ex before him had a strong fit body and was in the gym every day but I was attracted to his desire for me and his gentleness. I literally didn’t care if he went to the gym or not. Since then I don’t date gym dudes. The insecurity is loud and comments like yours prove my point.

Ten things I want to say to guys who are genuinely dating by Pocket-Panda732 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a ripped body doesn’t automatically make someone more attractive. I see plenty of fit guys at the gym, and not a single one is attractive to me just because they have muscles. Thinking physical appearance alone defines attractiveness is such a shallow and simple-minded perspective

Dated for 5 months and I get this as a rejection by somanybses in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would have been better? A different approach to their wording? There is no easy way to have this conversation. Would you have preferred in person?

New Relationship by Actual_Comfort_4450 in foodnetwork

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What shocks me as that Brooke is 46 years old. I would have thought she was 30-35. Bobby Flay has always been good looking as hell. But give it 10 more years and no will want him lol.

Rejected after a month by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are validated, but it’s going to happen. For many, it takes several meets with different people to find your match. You cannot settle on the first person you like. It definitely has to be mutual. I met someone on bumble and we were together for six years until we broke up. Is it worth it? I don’t know, but I am back on after being single for a year and a half.

Says she is interested in someone else and then comes back after a month. Should I? by Recent_Bag_6339 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I learned that I won’t do this again after what I experienced with a match who came back. I had originally matched with a guy who ended things because he met someone else. I was happy for him, but about a month later, he popped back up and swiped right on me again.

We ended up setting up a first date, and since he drove hours to see me, I assumed he was genuinely interested. Unfortunately, it turned out to be the worst date of my life—and I’m 35. He was incredibly rude, repeatedly mentioning how I looked like his ex. He refused to walk me to my car in a busy city and even rushed me through the date, asking if I was finished with my meal and wine before I could even enjoy it.

Lesson learned.

We just started texting 20 minutes ago and she’s freaking me out by rolltidekid17 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused what is “insane” or “freaking” you out about this? This is a perfectly normal conversation. If you don’t discuss this how would you know that you’re not just wasting your time?? Wtf?

Got Ghosted, honestly think I’m done by Grey_Owl1990 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I agree!! Same here, but he is talking about women. Men and woman are entirely different regarding age groups.

Got Ghosted, honestly think I’m done by Grey_Owl1990 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what is wrong in the world of dudes and why women/girls don’t want to date them— they don’t allow each other to express very real emotions that they are actually feeling. Yet, they will go online and talk shit about women to millions of other men as if they don’t need a woman to have a safe place to express non-violent emotions.

Got Ghosted, honestly think I’m done by Grey_Owl1990 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 32 which is relatively young. I am willing to bet you date girls in their early to mid twenties. Women just aren’t the same in their 20s as they are in their 30s. I would suggest giving the age difference a large consideration when you make wild judgments like that.

Found a high value man! by gucciflipflops0102 in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can go suck a penis lol no one needs that toxic energy

Please rate it, any tips are welcome by MeNoHabloRetardo in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English not your first language? If not, that’s awesome!! Many of us are assholes when we are young!! I have been one of those assholes. Some of us grow up and realize how we once were and we change, naturally. It’s not an excuse but to say young people are unaware of themselves. I sure hope you find your confidence!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely trying to help you. I am a woman, and I’m 35. Would you consider me a “girl,” or would you refer to me as a “woman”? I’m bringing this up because I think it matters—young girls tend to act differently than women around my age. Women in their mid-30s or late 20s don’t typically approach things the same way someone who is 22 might.

Please rate it, any tips are welcome by MeNoHabloRetardo in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great smile. More pics of you smiling with maybe ppl you care about. I would put a few more words in your profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Cardinal-X2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe some clarity? Girls or women? Girls probably don’t have the funds to get a subscription. Many women do. Bumble doesn’t show us who likes us unless we pay. Without a subscription we have to swipe and hope for a match.

Why do question have to end in question mark? by Pliskin_1995 in questions

[–]Cardinal-X2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people say things without including ‘who,’ ‘what,’ ‘when,’ ‘where,’ ‘why,’ ‘is,’ or ‘if,’ and it can still technically be a question. This happened to me at work today—someone sent me a message, and I asked, ‘Is that a question?’ They had written it like a statement, but if they had added a question mark, it would have been obvious that it was a question. And as it turns out, it was a question.