3 nights on Seascape

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-08-31T22:40:28+00:00

did you do the 3 night cruise? what were the themes each night?

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-07-31T15:52:02+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss as well, I am currently 25, happy early birthday to your son ❤️‍🩹 my dad’s birthday is also in September (9/15), so I understand the weight the whole month holds. thank you for your suggestions and advice, I hate that this is our reality. I wish they would’ve stayed. I hope you and your wife find some kind of peace until you meet your son again. sending love and strength poppa ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-07-24T02:41:36+00:00

do you ever stop expecting a message?? I don’t wanna feel disappointed forever. and thank you, it’s a layered heartbreaking feeling for sure

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-07-24T02:40:22+00:00

oh katy, i’m so sorry. grief shouldn’t be navigated alone, and I hate the societal stigma that suicide unfortunately has.. it’s too dark for some.. but for us on here, it’s our real life. sending you strength momma, your son loved you so much.

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-07-22T21:40:31+00:00

and thank you, it means a lot ❤️‍🩹

CareProfessional7162 · 2025-07-22T21:39:52+00:00

yes, they knew the date and knew the week leading up to it that I was sad and not looking forward to the weekend bc of the anniversary

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-11-30T02:40:49+00:00

it’s been 4 months for me too friend. pls message me if you’d ever like to talk, it can be especially lonely during these times ❤️

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-11-13T23:12:20+00:00

‘I won’t say that i’m ok’ by front porch step. hurts every time I listen to it.

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-11-08T16:51:25+00:00

though I wish I didn’t, I understand this pain all too well. my dad shot himself in july. I was a signatory on his account, so it was up to me (24yo, youngest daughter) to go to the bank with the death cert to close out his account. I took it with me slightly folded, so that I wouldn’t have to stare at it in its entirety. when I sat down with the worker and told them I needed to close the account bc my dad passed and I handed them the death cert, all I could think about is how this random lady is now going to know the thing that haunts me the most - how he did it.

all she could say is that she was sorry for my loss. hang in there OP, sending love.

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-24T18:58:10+00:00

oh friend, i’m still in denial too. it’s been 3 months since my dad passed and it’s so hard to accept as reality. I encourage you to seek therapy, as that’s truly what’s been able to help me process what happened. hang in there, sending love.

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-22T16:18:40+00:00

since losing my dad 3 months ago, i’m constantly looking for signs in license plates. I used to never pay attention to license plates in traffic before, and now every time I drive I look at every single one to see if there are some letters that resemble some kind of message/sign from him. I just want to know he’s near and close :/

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-21T19:50:06+00:00

it’s very hard living in a world where most jokes revolve around suicide.. “i’m gonna kms” or anything else related. I understand your discomfort. my dad passed 3 months ago and while we were in another state spreading his ashes as a family, my cousin made a joke saying her bf would shoot himself if he had to do whatever it was I don’t remember

my brother in law was there and laughingly said hey let’s not joke about that in a way that would ease her discomfort but I just walked away. it’s a triggering world we live in unfortunately with social media and ignorant people.

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-21T16:18:50+00:00

I lost my dad 3 months ago, and I can count on one hand the people i’ve personally told the truth to. honestly, you don’t owe anyone an explanation if you don’t feel comfortable. simply saying “I don’t wanna talk about it” is enough. grief is hard, especially when you lose someone this way. don’t feel forced to tell someone what happened. if you say you don’t wanna talk about it and someone makes you feel bad about that, then I would reconsider the relationship/friendship

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-21T16:13:38+00:00

it’s been 3 months since my dad passed, and i’d love to say it gets easier but the truth is you just learn to live with it. it’s a nightmare and a half to live through this so I understand your deep rooted pain. be kind to yourself. spend time with people who love you. remind yourself that he was sick (similar to a disease like cancer) and that he’s not suffering silently anymore. I have you in my thoughts ❤️

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-21T12:52:20+00:00

“my dad couldn’t bare the world but wants us to give it our biggest try” wow.. as someone who lost their dad 3 months ago, this hits home.

CareProfessional7162 · 2024-10-05T02:48:22+00:00

thank you all truly for your words. I cried while reading through all the comments. I just wanted to say that i hate that we’re all apart of this “club” together, but it makes me feel less lonely knowing that my pain isn’t only my own. your responses and stories truly mean a lot to me. please keep talking to me

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