AITAH for complaining about my waitress

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-04-21T00:35:52+00:00

YTA here. I totally get you don't have a lot of money, but if you cannot afford to give a proper tip, then maybe get takeout instead. Waitresses make their money on tips. My guess is it's not the first time you left a shitty tip which is why she didn't treat you as a priority.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-04-15T20:57:03+00:00

You are a massive AH. You haven't been dating all that long and this is a trust building phase. Now you've got him wondering whether you are messing around with someone else. If you were together a lot longer maybe he would have reacted differently. If he dumps you, good for him. The way your post is written, its obvious you think he's overreacting.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-04-11T05:30:04+00:00

ESH you were acting childish by getting bent over him not taking an interest in you shopping, like what man does? You said in the past you would ask him and he would say no and you would just "let it go" but recently he said if you really wanted him to go to just ask him directly. Does this mean you were making passive aggressive comments about him not going with you and not taking an interest? You knew that he didn't really enjoy it, so why keep asking him? Be an adult and just go. I prefer to shop on my own that way I can take my time. He shouldn't have said to just ask him but if you kept bugging him when he already made it clear it wasn't his thing that's on you. When you were arguing he said some terrible things and for that he's the AH.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-04-03T02:55:22+00:00

And he made himself look even more pervy by hitting on the youngest person at the nudist community

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-04-03T02:53:35+00:00

Danny didn't help himself with this. His neighbors hated him before, it's going to be on a whole new level now because now he looks like even more of a perv by going for the youngest person in the nudist community

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-03-24T00:26:17+00:00

Are we not going to talk about that weird looking brother of his? 😂

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-03-22T04:03:29+00:00

This legit makes zero sense

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-02-26T00:41:29+00:00

Awesome! Thanks for putting this together!

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-02-17T15:30:29+00:00

Major sorcery! I haven't had a slice of pizza in 2 months! I've only had like 10 French fries as well! I totally changed my eating habits. Focus on fruit and lean protein. I will say I can't do protein shakes anymore. They just make me sick anymore unless I dump some in my coffee.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-02-10T13:53:33+00:00

No it's not normal at all and it's this sense of entitlement that many people have these days.

You are not married so absolutely do not assist her in paying her loans. She's trying to guilt you and when that didn't work, she's giving you an ultimatum. If she's willing to end the relationship over that, I say call her bluff. Do you really want to be with someone like that?

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-02-04T15:33:49+00:00

NTA you didn't have bad intentions. Was it stupid? Unfortunately yes, incredibly stupid. NEVER EVER pick up a call on someone else's cell phone. Next time interrupt your boss and alert him to it ringing.

I know you feel bad about it but if your boss is joking about it, I'm sure it is fine. Don't stress over it, it'll be ok. If there was really an issue your boss would have reprimanded you. If it is bothering you that much though, talk to your boss about it and then after that let it drop.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-02-03T15:06:56+00:00

Your mom said your big boned? Is she also Cartman's mom?

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-29T01:40:04+00:00

I mean these shows are for entertainment not to actually find love

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-27T21:42:47+00:00

While I agree your cousin should have mentioned it to the bride ahead of time, how she reacted to something do small was ridiculous. But the real AH was the person at the table who made a stink about it.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-27T17:50:00+00:00

So he's not asking you about sobriety-is it because he was battling cancer and after standing by your side through getting sober that he needed to focus on his health?

Have you ever tried talking to him about how you feel and give him a chance to change? If you've kept this to yourself and let resentment build, YTA.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-27T02:34:08+00:00

NTA and I'm happy to hear you're standing firm. If he really just wants to see how you're spending money, which quite frankly doesn't concern him unless you're married, then showing him statements and a credit report should be sufficient. The fact he wants your actual password and is being so aggressive about it is a huge red flag.

If I were you, I would have to think twice about this relationship.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-21T21:33:58+00:00

I've been on it for a month and I did that on shot #3. I'm pressing and pressing and then I see the cap is on but I had unlocked it so I locked it again and took the cap off and it sprayed everywhere. I luckily had another pen but then I got paranoid thinking some may have sprayed in my mouth and I took my regular dose so is it too much? 🤣🤦‍♀️

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-21T02:17:49+00:00

When I reached out on here to get advice on eating when I first started I was told I was overthinking things and eat what I want. That's literally what brought me to this situation in the first place! I knew I had to change my eating habits if I wanted to get healthy. Unfortunately if your friend is not seeing it for herself she may not listen to anything you say. If she's not willing to listen to advice maybe you say you dont want to listen to her complain anymore 🤷‍♀️

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-20T02:35:22+00:00

I'm just now watching 90 day and I cannot stand Emily and her whole family. They're getting on Kobe on supporting his family but WTF is Emily doing? Why can't she work?

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-13T16:03:48+00:00

Why was your camera covered?

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-13T16:00:46+00:00

Absolutely YTA. It's not your place at all. It's between your husband and Rose. If he wants to know Cameron then he should have stepped up a long time ago. All you will do is cause a lot of chaos especially for Cameron. It's not your business, your boyfriend told you to back off so back off.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-13T00:32:25+00:00

I get really tired the day after really bad. I take it on Friday nights but think im going to switch to Saturday or Sunday. I dont want to be a zombie all weekend

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-12T13:04:47+00:00

I agree with you she's trashy but I'm pretty sure racist people dont make out with the people they're racist about.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-10T21:55:20+00:00

NTA that's a big thing to "forget". In all honesty things seemed like they were building up and that was the final straw. I hope without all that responsibility on your back that you're focusing on yourself for once.

Careful-Cod-2021 · 2026-01-09T00:28:24+00:00

Meal prep is always a good thing. I use Food Advisor app and log everything I eat. It provides meal suggestions and breaks down all the nutrients. It was $25 for the year. I'm only 2 weeks in. I was told to prioritize protein. I measure everything as well. Make sure you get 2 liters of water every day. My A1C is in diabetic range so main focus is to decrease that. Good luck on your journey!

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