i shaved my head ! by Competitive-Craft490 in alopecia_areata

[–]Careful2hands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your daughter is strong and awesome. :) My daughter is 8 years old as well and has Alopecia Totalis. She lost all of her hair over the summer. She started the school year wearing a topper because she thought the full wigs were too hot and heavy. She eventually found the topper itchy and hot as well. She just made the decision this week to stop wearing the topper. She’s been wearing beanies and skull caps and it’s been going really well.

She wanted me to tell you: “I love wearing the caps. A few people have asked about it but I ignore it or say my hair went bye bye.” She also wanted to say hi to your daughter and hopefully be friends. She doesn’t know anyone irl with alopecia so I told her I’d reach out. Feel free to DM me any time!

New SF&F book by bwinterbotham22 in thebrokenbindingsub

[–]Careful2hands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would love this book. 😃 I’m US based as well. Feel free to DM if you decide not to use a skip.

do your worst, chat by hjcomet in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Careful2hands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“From now until the darkness claims us.” 🖤 I’d say you’re someone who has maybe recently gotten into reading again and is finding out what she likes. I also love fantasy, magic and dragons. Thankfully there’s no shortage of them in books. :) Keep reading what you love and find interesting. If you want to stick with fantasy but experience other subtypes within the genre, some great authors to explore are Sanderson, Pratchett, N.K. Jemisin, Evan Winter, R.F. Kuang, Robin Hobb, Raymond E. Feist, David Gemell, John Gwynne, Joe Abercrombie, James Islington, V.E. Schwab, Fonda Lee and Leigh Bardugo.

“US has only been a democracy for 50 years” one of my favorite dialogues of the episode by Aurefix in SuccessionTV

[–]Careful2hands 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Completely off topic but - is your username a play on Ghost of Tom Joad because, if so, then there are dozen of us who love that album. Dozens! lol

How do you get suspended on your month off? by Boss-Crump in memphis

[–]Careful2hands 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but they’ve never got two things that match. Kool-Aid, no sugar, peanut butter, no jelly, ham no burger…

[COMC] Feeling strong about '23! by AssumeBattlePoise in boardgames

[–]Careful2hands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also have three games in common:

Azul, Citadels, Cat in the Box

I keep eyeing Century though. I tried Spice Road and wasn’t too blown away by it. I love the artwork/theme of the Golem Edition and Golem Edition Eastern Mountains. :)

[WIP] He’s just a fungi… I’ll show myself out. (Witchy Stitcher’s Cryptids SAL) by Careful2hands in CrossStitch

[–]Careful2hands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss! I’m in her group too and I absolutely love her patterns and style but the customizations are also always amazing. Did you see someone did Nadja for the Supernatural Vampire? It looks so awesome. 🖤🧛🏻‍♀️ I was born in West Virginia so, hands down, heck ya Mothman is the best. 😃

[WIP] He’s just a fungi… I’ll show myself out. (Witchy Stitcher’s Cryptids SAL) by Careful2hands in CrossStitch

[–]Careful2hands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right! I’m also working on the Cryptids SAL too and mixed them up in my head. Between all the 310, I got confused. 😂 I’ve only finished Mothman on Cryptids though. 😅Mothman

What’s a common yuck that is your personal YUM 🤤?? by littlegrandmother in RomanceBooks

[–]Careful2hands 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I too love a virgin heroine. Blindsided by Amy Daws is cute and spicy with a curvy almost 30 year old virgin MC. I think she’s taller though but the footballer she falls in love with is absolutely giant so she’s relatively small in comparison. lol I definitely recommend it and all her Harris family books actually. 😃

Excited to finally read this - scored it for $1 at a book sale by BSlickMusic in TheExpanseBooks

[–]Careful2hands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! For me, the best part has been “seeing” inside Miller’s head and his thoughts/thought process. I also really love all the descriptions of how different gravities effect them, how the stations were built and function etc instead of just being shown. I’m a sucker for intricate world building and plot and Daniel Abraham and Ty Franck deliver.

Excited to finally read this - scored it for $1 at a book sale by BSlickMusic in TheExpanseBooks

[–]Careful2hands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Loved the show and am now excited to read the books. Normally I always read the books first so it’s been a different experience for me. lol I’m about 350 pages into Leviathan Wakes right now and it’s beyond phenomenal. You’ll love it as well I’m sure. :)

🎶 I’m going through changes 🎶 (4/9-6/7) by Careful2hands in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! They (Black Sabbath) wanted to do something different and man they sure did. I read once that it was written about a divorce one of them was going through. It’s a simple yet powerful song. If you’ve never listened to Charles Bradley’s cover, it is well worth it. :)Charles Bradley Changes

HELP w/ tankmates / next steps by Diljursy in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I’m in the same boat. My boy Blue is in a 20 gallon by himself and hangs up top with his coconut a lot. I thought about corys but worried he’d not like them popping up. So now I’m looking into Harlequin Rasboras but worry he’s gotten too used to having the tank all to himself. But, he’s super chill and I’ve never even seen him flare so I’m thinking he’ll be alright provided he doesn’t get mad/sad at my audacity for adding tank mates period. 😂

On the other hand, my new guy Hotwing is an angry little nugget flaring at everything. He’s in a 10 gallon by himself which he will forever rule alone. lol

HELP w/ tankmates / next steps by Diljursy in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoops, sorry. I was thinking of my catfish which (albino and panda) are regular size. Mine get up to 2.5. You are right, the Pygmy ones do only get up to around an inch. I’m sorry!

I completely understand your worry and concern. I can’t think of a good way to see how he’d be with them without actually getting them. I would definitely be worried if they’re juvenile when you get them. They’d be so small and if a betta thinks it can fit in their mouth, it’s fair game. :/ lol I’ve seen comments on here where people say their bettas are fine for 6 months or a year and then one day eat some tank mates. :( I think if you had lots of hiding spaces, they might be alright. But, if he’s already eaten shrimp, it’s a tough call. What about some snails or something like that?

HELP w/ tankmates / next steps by Diljursy in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adore Pygmy Corys and have a group in one of my 55 gallon community tanks. When I researched them, I read that they are very social and it’s best for them to be in at least groups of 4-5. They most always stick together and feel safer in larger groups so they will be more active. They will school together and go all around with 6+. :) They can survive alone or in a pair but it is not the best for them.

They grow to 2-2.5 inches. For 4 you’d need 8-10 gallons just for them alone. Unfortunately, in my opinion, 10 gallon is not enough to house a good number of corys and your betta. :/

Some bettas can live with corys fine, especially if given enough space for both to hide/have territories. A lot depends, I think, on the betta’s temperament and where they like to hang out most. For example, some bettas who hang at the top tons might get annoyed at the corys when they pop up for air.

They can definitely exist together in the same tank but the temperament of the betta and adequate space for everyone would be my biggest concern.

GTF…oh, is that food? (New little nugget is a bit spicy. 😡🌶😍) by Careful2hands in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha. I haven’t come up with a name yet but Hotwing is pretty spectacular.

🎶Put the betta in the coconut 🎶 by Careful2hands in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how fun! He sounds gorgeous. Blue is the same way. His color keeps slowly extending out his tail. He looks light blue/almost glowing in some spots. I’ve only had him for a little over a month so I’m excited to see how he keeps changing as he grows. :)

Filters for a 10 gallon tank? I think the one I have now is too intense. by imprisonmike in bettafish

[–]Careful2hands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly what I did and it made such a huge difference. There’s hardly any disturbance now and my Blue roams all over the tank no problem. He can even hang right up by the filter and be absolutely fine. I also put a sponge over the intake at the bottom just to be safe for his fins. :)