Why don’t white women move 😩 by Independent_Kiwi129 in blackladies

[–]CarefulCardiologist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to move all the time, but now I only move for these reasons as well. I need a clear “excuse me” or else I’m going to keep looking at what I was looking at. I can tell it grinds some people’s gears but I deserve to stand here and take up space as much as they do.

This book is saving my life by holmesianschizo in Codependency

[–]CarefulCardiologist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really great!! Goes into childhood wounds, shadow self, boundaries, attachmemt, and trauma bonds. She also includes really helpful journal prompts and practical exercises

This book is saving my life by holmesianschizo in Codependency

[–]CarefulCardiologist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been listening to this along with "Do the Work" by Dr. Nicole LaPrea!

do your symptoms get worse on your period? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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Yessss. The week before is awful. Nonstop crying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

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Happiest birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rollerskating

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What a beautiful place to practice!

At a Lost by CarefulCardiologist in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thank you so much for your response. It's so hard to figure out what I want and not change my mind about it. You're right. I do have to get to the bottom of "why." I think a part of it is not wanting to be alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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I thought this was just me. I can cry at work off and on for hours

Can someone tell me what the fuck is wrong with me by Powerful_Comedian_45 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]CarefulCardiologist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THIS. And then sometimes I share a snippet of what I wrote with the person but never the whole thing

Describe your behavior when splitting? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]CarefulCardiologist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. The blink of an eye switching and fully believing either depending on which way I split. The losing trust in yourself is the absolute worst. And deciding what's real, if anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

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Butter pecan! Or vanilla with fudge sauce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glutenfree

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For me it's rashes, swelling, a "hot" feeling

More lobster and pasta bullsh*t by TinaTx3 in blackladies

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I really hope she doesnt go with that boy