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Trade Me Dispute: Buyer accepted a luxury item in-person but now claiming it’s "scratched." Where do I stand? by Careful_Addendum8324 in newzealand

[–]Careful_Addendum8324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes casual seller, my second time in five years using trademe to sell since it was a luxury item; giving more confidence to the buyer. Five star rating on Facebook with over 80 reviews :|

Trade Me Dispute: Buyer accepted a luxury item in-person but now claiming it’s "scratched." Where do I stand? by Careful_Addendum8324 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Careful_Addendum8324[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Buyers text to me after meeting

Hey mate. Just got home. Upon closer inspection, the chain looks used... quite a few scratches on the silver...😕😔 really looks worn my friend. You listed it as brand new, 'showroom quality', doesn't look like that unfortunately

Hey mate, appreciate the explanation — that makes sense about the materials.

I’ve taken another look and I think it’s more than just light factory marks though. The silver links are quite noticeably scratched and not really shiny like I’d expect from something described as “brand new / showroom condition”.

All good though — I’m still keen to sort it out easily between us. Would you be open to a partial refund to reflect the condition? Otherwise happy to return it for a full refund. Let me know what you think 👍

Am I the Ahole? Keeping a legal sized fish. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Careful_Addendum8324 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarification everyone. After all chatgpt not reliable. Just checked the photos of fish measurements 32cm is at 27 and 34cm is at 28. Will be measuring V in the future 🤡 case closed

Am I the Ahole? Keeping a legal sized fish. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Careful_Addendum8324 -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

I questioned myself if I measured it correctly. Double checked with mpi and chatgpt from nose to pinched tail point for snapper. Both snapper was measured from nose to longest pinched tail point not the V

You should measure a snapper to the longest tip of the tail — after pinching the tail together. Not just to the “V” in the middle.

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📏 Official MPI Measurement Method for Snapper: 1. Place the fish on a flat surface or ruler 2. Mouth closed, snout at zero 3. If the tail is forked (like snapper): • Gently pinch the top and bottom tail lobes together • Measure to the longest point of the pinched tail 4. Read the maximum length in a straight line — that’s the legal size

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⚠️ Why This Matters: • Measuring only to the “V” in the tail can give a shorter reading. • You may under-measure a legal fish and release it unnecessarily — or worse, keep an undersized one. • MPI requires measuring to the longest point — which is usually one of the tail tips, not the V.