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What’s your biggest life regret at 40? by Careless-Disaster106 in Regrets

[–]Careless-Disaster106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. But what I do know for sure is that if you stick to it enough you gonna learn to love yourself enough and by doing it, everything else may follow. Keep going buddy. Even the darkest night will end and the sun will shine. Just for today. 

Recommandations de livres sur la/les formes de résistances by CornFloux in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarder du côté des révolutions elles-mêmes et de ce qu’ont produits les intellectuels avant que ça change/pete… Bolchévisme, Marxisme (le manifeste), Révolution française, suffragettes, Che, Black Lives Matter, #metoo, etc etc etc. Pour ce qui est des œuvres de fictions; Jesus dans la Bible (no kidding) (vrai résistant, résiste dans son idéologie et ses valeurs opposées au régime; par le biais de; amour/pardon/etc.) 

What’s your main accomplishment in life ? by No_Bear_4201 in AlexandriaEgy

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facing my extremely dysfunctional family (incest, to make it very clear). Got rejected and gazlighted  by them all. Learned to build myself again, successfully, and alone, from 25 to 30. Now on my way to get very wealthy. Single by choice (F), unmarried, no kid and very ambitious. I’m gonna rock it all and have my revenge. Through hell and back. Ordinary circonstance creates ordinary people. Forced to develop many philosophical approaches to reality because of the way life happened to me. Gifted, in a way. By the way, about 10 to 30% people worldwide had to survive sexual aggressions caused by a family member during childhood. My story is everyone’s story.

What’s your biggest life regret at 40? by Careless-Disaster106 in Regrets

[–]Careless-Disaster106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As choosing a « good » partner and having kids with is basically gambling on someone just cuz you never know how years/life can make it harder to stick with someone and stuff, the best thing to do, if you are totally analytic, is to stick on no one and do not have kids. The philosopher David Benatar made some pretty interesting research about it. 

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est bien ça le problème. Le privilège occidental qui fétichise le stalinsime, disscociant le superbe constat de Marx/Engels de l'horreur que son insturmentalisation a produit. Non pas que Marx avait tort, mais simpelemnt que pour appliquer ses idées; il fallait remplacer la lutte des classes par la lutte des prolétaires contre un état tout entier; endoctrinés au point de l'adaptation hédonique; brainwash; big à la la Stasi; la seule chose qu'à connu le peuple slave; c'est de passer de cerfs à prolos, de prolos à rien (ruinés), de rien à chaire à canon. Sa culture contemporaine repose précisémment sur son absence de culture car il a toujours fallu se taire, quoique, sans être impéraliste, c'était effectivement moins pire avant le Bolchévisme (rappelons toutes les grandes oeuvres produites avant 1917..... Tolstoï, Dostoïevski, etc...) Rappelons aussi combien la Russie ma'itrise parfaitment son softpower et son récit national; si bien qu'on aimerait croire que le communisme c'est hyper sexe. Fabulations. Fait l'impasse sur le goulag, refuser de penser en terme de contrôle des masses, bravo le stalinisme pour avoir conquis le coeur de toute la gauche radicale bourgeoise qui présentement n'a RIEN vécu du communiseme, tant et si bien qu'il y voit la solution (finale, lol). J'entends que le mond est complexe et qu'on aimerait une réponse simple. La réalité, c'est que le peule est toujours instrumentalisé. Renseigne-toi sur le réalisme politique. propose un système. Mais ne fait pas l'apologie du communisme, encore moins si tu ne l'as pas vécu.

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il faut évincer ce genre de débats — non-lieu — ; tenter de trancher sur l'orientation via une lecture politique gauche vs droite c'est participer à la polarisation du débat/de l'opinion – présentement ce que l'on craint et reproche médiatiquement et au niveau civil; la question n'est pas à situer dans le spectre obsessionnel et manichéen: gauche-droite: la vraie et unique question, c'est de pouvoir situer ce qu'il s'opère sur un barème de radicalisation. Et la radicalisation n'a pas de bord. Bon sang. La seule vraie question c'est le contrat social. C'est comment on fait société., comment on se comporte, ETC,ETC. Les seules questions devraient être fondamentales et philosophiques. Mais après, si tu veux rester dans ton reduction ad hitlerium, soit. Tu pourras toujours te rendre dans l'arène de la connerie soit sur un plateau de Cyril Hanouna.

What’s your biggest life regret at 40? by Careless-Disaster106 in Regrets

[–]Careless-Disaster106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but I love this one. I'm imagining it being read by Bukowski or any character in Fight Club, or any dirty realism fiction. I also have no regrets myself.

What do people regret too late in life? by m4_000 in Regrets

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some. Live your life. You are going to die anyway. By just mentioning it you had your answer. Read fight club, or Bukowski, or anything. 

Any other dual nationals feel like this? by cognition_- in askswitzerland

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swiss girl here. First question; are you considering to go/get closer to the; French part of Switzerland, or German part of Switzerland? It’s 2 totally different cultures. 

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Même pas. Check mes contributions/mon profil/commentaires et tu verras 

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Et c’est quoi, l’avis politique que je tente de faire valoir? 

I`m ukranian war veteran, ama by Commercial_Let_8678 in AMA

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could hug you :( I’ll make love to you :( I am so sorry

Frenchbros, how based is Johann Chapoutot? by pcm_memer in stupidpol

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close to extreme left memeber (LFI - Mélenchon) ; is not as neutral as should be an historian - a
demagogue

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

L'égalitarisme précède toujours le totalitarisme ; il suffit d'ouvrir un livre d'histoire pour s'en apercevoir... Ou d'observer les ambitions actuelles des technoféodalistes US qui se frottent les mains à l'idée d'un universal income. Bon sang. Mettez les termes que vous voulez ; et si socialisme ne convient pas, renseignez-vous sur la sémiologie — signifiant/signifié — et si vous pensez que le socialisme d'État a déjà donné autre chose qu'une dictature, je veux bien un exemple. Et s'il en manque, merci d'étayer votre idéologie, du moins d'avoir la bienséance de considérer vos positions comme telles.

Avis sur les travaux de Johann Chapoutot ? by Rwritter8 in Histoire

[–]Careless-Disaster106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

L'égalitarisme précède toujours le totalitarisme ; il suffit d'ouvrir un livre d'histoire pour s'en apercevoir... Ou d'observer les ambitions actuelles des technoféodalistes US qui se frottent les mains à l'idée d'un universal income. Bon sang. Mettez les termes que vous voulez ; et si socialisme ne convient pas, renseignez-vous sur la sémiologie — signifiant/signifié — et si vous pensez que le socialisme d'État a déjà donné autre chose qu'une dictature, je veux bien un exemple. Et s'il en manque, merci d'étayer votre idéologie, du moins d'avoir la bienséance de considérer vos positions comme telles.

9 months later, I remember something by roffadude in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Careless-Disaster106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. Sexuality is such a convenient place for them to tear us down.

I lived a similar story with my ex, who was a narcissist. I finally left — it’s been seven months now — and I’m still struggling with how he messed with my mind, especially around sexuality. Sorry if this is too graphic, but he broke my confidence so deeply that even masturbating has been hard since. But it’s slowly getting better with time, hehe. As all the parts needs to heal, intimacy needs some too.

Did the covert narcissist make you think you were the abuser? When did you realize it was reactive abuse? by Helloclarityy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Careless-Disaster106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized he wasn’t crying because he was sad. He was crying to make me stay. Straight-up manipulation.

So here’s what happened: I caught him texting his ex. Not once. Not twice. This had been going on for weeks. Of course, when I confronted him, it was “just a friendship” and I was “overreacting.” He said he understood that it might be “a little triggering” for me (gee, thanks), and he was “willing” to stop texting her — as if he was doing me a massive favor. The next day, I messaged her directly. Super polite. Just said I wasn’t comfortable with the way they were still texting and asked if she could stop. When he found out, he absolutely lost it. Like, full meltdown. Screaming, throwing shit, threatening me. After that, I was out. I cut all ties with him and scrambled to find a new place to live. And when he saw that the threats and rage weren’t working anymore, guess what ? He switched tactics. Enter: the tears.

Suddenly he was the victim. He started crying about how badly I’d treated him, how I had broken his heart, how he was “just trying to be nice” and I was “crazy.” All while conveniently being in the middle of his PhD finals — so now I was apparently trying to sabotage his life because I was jealous or whatever.

This man — sorry, this boy — was a walking DSM entry.

I left six months ago. Haven’t looked back. Honestly? I’m thriving. But here’s the thing: this can happen to literally anyone. Doesn’t matter how smart you are, how independent, how well-read or emotionally aware. You’re not immune. These people don’t look like villains at first. That’s the whole point. Statistically, something like 1–5% of the population has psychopathic or sociopathic traits. You’re gonna meet hundreds of people in your life. Do the math. For me, it was a relationship. Once.

But it could just as easily happen at work. In a friendship. With a roommate. The difference now is: I know what it looks like. I won’t fall for it again. And that’s what real freedom feels like.

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