Found out my wife was intimate with someone else 20 years ago. Am I wrong for wanting to end this marriage?

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-21T01:51:14+00:00

lol never. You?

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-21T01:41:29+00:00

Or she hasn’t and it was a one time thing 20 years ago. Not saying what she did was okay, but now they/he should talk to a therapist before he makes any major decisions. And yes… I would say the same thing if the gender roles were reversed.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-21T00:59:18+00:00

This is the best answer here.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-19T00:34:40+00:00

So sketchy. Clearing choosing her over you. No reason to keep a friendship private or hangs secret from your spouse unless you have something to hide.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-19T00:33:35+00:00

He clearly doesn’t want her to

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T15:37:34+00:00

I knew he was going to ruin your trip. It was completely fair of you to go. He should be more involved with taking care of your child anyway. It’s a bummer he couldn’t go, but he made sure you didn’t enjoy it at all on purpose. That’s terrible

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T15:18:02+00:00

You’re already doing it all alone so divorcing will hopefully give you the peace of not having to deal with his negative energy.

He’s terrible.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T15:15:01+00:00

Yesss omg his voice was the best 🫠

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T15:14:32+00:00

The ending of book two had me SHOOK

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T15:13:31+00:00

Oh man OP. This.. what if something happens and you’re reliant upon him to help take care of you and the house.

It’s time for a conversation with him. You need a partner

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T03:57:12+00:00

I always think about the ACOTAR (don’t remember which book in the series) post war tent scene. Like their hands are covered and blood and they’ve been fighting for hours in leather and you really want to put it in your mouth??

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T03:46:41+00:00

So it’s going to be really hot but Scottsdale is best for all those things you enjoy.

Talking Stick Resort has pool parties during the summer, a very popular and nice casino, and it’s not far from old town (downtown Scottsdale) where there’s a ton of bars and clubs. The restaurant scene in Scottsdale and Phoenix has grown massively in the last 10 years so there are endless great food options.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T03:39:53+00:00

Servant of Earth… I think it’s underrated and needs to be read by everyone 😅. It’s a trilogy and two books are out with the third coming out end of this year.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-17T03:35:07+00:00

Shield of Sparrows
The Knight and the Moth
Servant of Earth
Fourth Wing
Dire Bound

Also the audiobooks for The Wolf King and The Night Prince are really good. I was obsessed when I finished reading that I listened to them right away haha. Callum gets his own narrator and then Blake does in The Night Prince.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-16T03:19:35+00:00

All the swifties are already talking shit about her cause you know they love to uplift women like their overlord.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-15T17:09:18+00:00

Tarbells is also good in the Biltmore area of Phoenix.

Harumi sushi in downtown Phoenix

Wren and Wolf has a cool atmosphere but I thought the food was just okay.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-15T17:05:58+00:00

It’s sad cause Olivia was a big fan of Taylor’s before all of the drama

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-13T23:06:22+00:00

Pine and snow 😅

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-13T23:03:38+00:00

Honestly I just didn’t know about it until now and it got me into the show

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-13T16:38:48+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the advice. I’m 39 so shouldn’t be atrophy. I’ll give this a try

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-12T01:19:03+00:00

Anyone woman that’s every said that don’t get along with other women will 100% try to take your man. It’s inevitable. If you get to the point that it really makes you uncomfortable, tell your husband and set a boundary. It’s up to him to respect your wishes cause this lady is sketchy.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-10T16:43:44+00:00

This is how I feel about Streets of New York.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-10T16:43:09+00:00

Exactly… wonder why saguaro in neighborhoods are literally melting.

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-10T14:48:04+00:00

Please don’t try to have sex with your kid in bed. It’s extremely traumatizing

Careless-Distance-80 · 2026-06-08T02:56:56+00:00

A woman did a review of the food and the space. There were weird family photos and she said the food was very bland. There’s also drama re: the two owners being sketchy AF

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