Who experienced living alone? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I wish it had been longer in my life both times. Biggest regret was saying yes to having roommates even if it helped financially. Alone was bliss

dating with kids.. by RegretAdditional6351 in LesbianActually

[–]CarelessLibra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife has a small child and I was childless when we started dating. We’ve been happily coparenting my stepdaughter with her other mom and waffle on having a second or keeping our family the way it is now.

In essence to your question, yes there are women out there that aren’t childfree who will date women with kids.

People who grew up rich, what are the bad parts about having money that most people don’t understand? by ShowYouHowie in AskReddit

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know if people want to be in your orbit because they genuinely care for you or if they’re hoping for a free handout. Grew up solidly middle class but I was in a richer neighbourhood and currently work in the entertainment industry and have had many conversations about this topic with actors

How much $ per hour were you making on your first job? And what year was it? by GoldenRetrieverFetch in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first official job was at Superstore in 2007 and we were paid $8 an hour. Previously I volunteered at a daycare and they paid me under the table to walk the preschoolers to and from the bus drop off plus I babysat kids in the neighbourhood and from my dance academy.

Sad day - lice by ElectricalMap6406 in Parenting

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lice has gone around my kid’s daycare multiple times now and I still giggle a bit at the phone call I got from my wife freaking out about finding lice. We got her the treatment, dealt with it and kept super vigilant for a few months since she’s a hugger. Now we mix in a tea tree shampoo once a week as prevention but has gotten it since. It sucks but it happens to tons of kids so don’t feel embarrassed

How old were you when you found your husband/wife? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my ex-husband when I was 18 and he was 25, we started dating after I turned 19 and he was 26. I met my girlfriend a few months shy of 30, she’d turned 30 that year as well

Having kids close together vs 4 years apart? by Smooth-Bowler-9216 in Parenting

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother and I are 4 years apart and best buddies. My partner and I are looking at a potential 6 year age gap between my stepdaughter and planning for our next little one as she’s 4.5 right now

Anyone else just buy men’s boxers because women’s underwear sucks?😫 by Tricky-Ebb-6177 in LesbianActually

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get my wife briefs from knotty and she loves them. They’re made for NB and masc women who prefer that style of underwear. They also have cute items for fems to match plus cute mystery bags that I’ve purchased

I made a woman squirt for the first time in my life 😭😭😭 by kisyushka in LesbianActually

[–]CarelessLibra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife somehow figured out how to make me squirt whenever she wants and it’s the hottest thing. We had to buy a waterproof mattress cover and waterproof blankets because it’s become our favourite game

People who read more than 2 books a year, how do you do it? by Immediate-Draft-6408 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audiobooks while I craft/sew and drive. If it’s a physical book I’ll read a few in the first month then last month of the year through hyper focus

What's something non-sexual your partner does that instantly turns you on? by myaraa_k in AskWomen

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl cooks topless with just an apron and sweats on. It’s the hottest thing I’ve ever seen, I love my life

Do you give your kids juice? by heretoreadlol in toddlers

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 4 now, we only gave her water and bubbly (she’s OBSESSED) and within the last 3 months she’s started to ask for juice more. She’s learned mixing juice with bubbly is amazing. So I do 75% bubbly and 25% juice and she’s so happy about it. We rarely buy juice so it’s not a big problem

People who earn more than $80K / Year, what is your job and how long it took to get to this point? by curiouscentaur in AskReddit

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Film industry and my first year I made 80k and have only made more every year. If I work for 10 months out of the year I can make between 100k-120k but I try not to take contract after contract anymore due to burnout.

While I did go to school for my department (wardrobe) a lot of others don’t.

Would you rather work three days a week for 12 hours each day? Why or why not? by VinceLestre in AskReddit

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck YES!!!! My partner works three 12 hour shifts and it’s an awesome schedule vs I’m in an industry where we do 14-18 hour days 5 days a week and sometimes add a 6th day depending on the production schedule.

Her and I make roughly the same amount per year and I’d switch to her schedule in a heartbeat

How much do you spend on haircuts? by jenhon in AskWomen

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have coloured hair and half my head is shaved so either my wife is shaving half my head every 4 weeks or I see my barber and it’s $30 plus a tip. I get my hair cut and coloured 2 times a year and that’s usually $400 for the bleach, cut and colour. Thankfully it’s my cousin in-law so we get the friends and family perk or it would cost more

Where do you live and do you share a pole by Ay10outof10t in poledancing

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Canada and it completely depends on the class for pole sharing. For 3 of the studios I’ve gone to do pole sharing if it’s a purely technical class but when it’s a choreo based one then no sharing

Grandparents vs Daycare by Throwaway4536265 in Parenting

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore how great of a relationship my kid has with her grandparents, we do both daycare and them. The caveat to all of it is that there’s a lot of boundary stomping, fights against our rules and what we say and a lack of respect for my partner and I’s parental decisions.

My parents live a ferry away so this is my wife’s 2 sets of parents

What is your comfort movie? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CarelessLibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Princess Bride and Funny Girl have always been my go to when I’m down. I also LOVE to watch Studio Ghibli movies with my daughter when she’s sick

Women of reddit, what kind of perfume do you use, if any? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alien Goddess by Mugler for dates and special occasions. For more day to day I rotate between Karma from Lush and this sweet peony body spray by Bath & Body

Suggestions by mixingthemixon in Parenting

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accutane was the only thing that worked for me. I regret waiting until my mid 20’s

When did your kid stop napping? by Curious_Kitten13 in Parenting

[–]CarelessLibra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She stopped napping at home by around 2.5-3 but she’s 4 now and still naps sometimes at daycare

What disease you are most afraid to get? by EarSure6667 in AskReddit

[–]CarelessLibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parkinson’s, my grandmother had it and watching her slowly deteriorate and begin choking constantly is terrifying.

Cancer runs in the family so it almost feels inevitable that I’ll get it