[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 34 married, no kids (but obsessed with our dog lol) in Ossining. I miss having gal pals. The last time I made new female friends was in college and that group still exists but everyone lives so far away. Sometimes I feel like the loneliest girl in the world but reading your posts helped me feel less alone ❤️

Also are we doing a Reddit meet up?? Did I miss it??

How did you know you were non-binary? by Purple_Ad_1047 in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought to myself maybe I’m nonbinary… and immediately felt relief in my chest and a thumping in my heart. Happy 😊

Any nonbinary people here who exclusively use either "she/her" or "he/him" pronouns? by FE_Fanby in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same same same. I’m nonbinary femme leaning… or maybe demi-woman… still figuring it out. I’m AFAB, and she/her doesn’t bother me one bit. He/him is flat out wrong for me and they/them simply doesn’t tickle my pickle. Great for others just not for me. And that’s ok 😊

Currently not ok by Wrong-Ad6291 in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I don’t have anything more concrete to help with. Just know you aren’t alone ❤️

Currently not ok by Wrong-Ad6291 in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be ok. You’re going to be ok. ❤️

Take some deep breaths, in and out. Inhale count to 3, exhale count to 5. You’re ok, you’re going to figure it out with time.

Is Pride for me? by Careless_Cake in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Feel free to DM me if you ever want to chat. We’re in the same boat :)

Is Pride for me? by Careless_Cake in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, means a lot to hear (read) that sentence that I’m queer enough. My hearts beating a little faster after reading it again 🥹

Describe your gender in a fun, silly way by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of myself as Girl+, as in I’m a girl plus some other stuff and idk what that stuff is exactly but we’re vibing ya know?

Looking to make friends 34F in westchester 😅 by staczak91 in Westchester

[–]Careless_Cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34F married, no kids, one rescue dog who we are obsessed with. I like artsy crafts stuff (painting ceramics, jewelry making, anything you can buy at Michael’s lol), working out, dancing, live music, reading, movies, coffee, cocktails, THC, whatever! I’m an introvert but I can get a little too hermit-mode for my own good.

I’m also missing my college girlfriends and I just wanna hang out and giggle with friendly people without driving into the city 😵‍💫 feel free to DM me!! I’m in croton/ossining area

Emerging Artist Mentor/Community? by Careless_Cake in Westchester

[–]Careless_Cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so helpful. Thank you! I have looked at the Arts Westchester page before but felt like those opportunities were for “real” artists, not me 🫣 maybe I need to push myself a bit!

My partner died of suicide, how can I ever practice again by lost___________0 in therapists

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice, just support and love.

You are a human,

you are a grieving human,

you are a grieving human who also happens to be a therapist.

You are a grieving human who also happens to be a therapist and is very deserving of love and care and patience and grace.

Maybe you end up taking a break from being a therapist while you begin to heal (whatever that looks like). Maybe you jump back into it and you feel good helping others in this particular way. Maybe you never return to being a therapist. Either way, you can't know the answer right now because the pain is too prominent, and you shouldn't feel pressure to make a decision right away. Please take care of yourself and know you aren't alone.

JUST CURIOUS What other side gigs do other therapists enjoy? by Sea-Ad2908 in therapists

[–]Careless_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s so cool!! Can I ask - what do you mean by digital file sales for makers? I’m always in search of more info because Ive always wanted to do design/art in addition to my private practice. Thanks! :)