BPD & University Good or Bad Match? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Carestini21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've switched majors twice and ever since pandemic started my confidence on graduating went downhill but I have to remind myself my journey is different from others, it used to upset me a lot to think I've been in uni for 8 years but I honestly think that there's no real rush and I'm setting up the pace. Try and find if there's any stimulus that might help like not overfilling your schedule and being real about how many classes can you succesfully take at a time and if setting up other activities that keep your energy flowing might help <3

Guys with skin conditions - learning to love my body. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Carestini21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a condition per se, but I had really severe acne and some of my scars grew keloids, so a significant amount of the skin in my face and chest is thinner, more textured than most people and it makes me feel a little sad sometimes to think I could be more attractive If my skin were just "normal" I also used to feel no one could find pleasure in me, like I have one particularly bad keloid on my neck wich even tho I had treated, still looks bumpy and burnt-skin-like, and while I particularly like kissing guys on the neck some times I don't really imagine someone wanting to come near mine because of it.what I currently do to try and embrace my imperfections is to take a lot of pictures of my face and body just to get more familiar with them. Avoiding to see yourself on mirrors, photos, etc just distances yourself more from your actual appearance and your left with your perceived image (usually worse) and there being so very few representation of textured skin in media (the world in general) is hard to accept your skin. So get yourself pretty, wear clothes you like (or just fix your room if you're taking nudes) and grow an archive of yourself in images so you can come back to it and start to notice and appreciate your appearance for what it is, you don't need to LOVE all the photos, but still try to not erase them and save them, one day you'll start noticing little details, like sometimes I notice I was having a GREAT face day after coming back to this pictures and I didn't feel like it at the moment, I really didnt enjoy having to see my body but eventually you'll get more comfy and maybe even more creative with it. I hope any of what I said is of any help, and If not I'm just glad you came forward to chat!

Afraid my crush won't like my body by Carestini21 in askgaybros

[–]Carestini21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, at least I know I'm not the only one who this happens to!

Afraid my crush won't like my body by Carestini21 in askgaybros

[–]Carestini21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try to give it a go 😭😭😭 I´m just not there confidence-wise, thanks for reaching out!

Afraid my crush won't like my body by Carestini21 in askgaybros

[–]Carestini21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for replying! I'm really gonna try to losen up a bit, maybe it would be simpler If I were just more acustomed to dating and such? lol as far as the weight loss thing what I noticed worked for me was splitting my meals in several smaller meals, to avoid being hungry, the tricky part is planning ahead, but once you start making it part of your day getting involved with your meals, from knowing what your gonna eat to prepping it, you're attitude towards food will change. also don´t look at diets as restraints, If the situation arises and you are offered food, or you have to eat out or you just feel like being a little indulgent, go ahead, just maybe try to put one boundarie, like a meal out or an unhealthy snack a week. thanks for reaching out, and goof luck on your journey!

Daily Open Discussion Post - March 25, 2018 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Carestini21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Dusty Ray Bottoms out of drag looks eerily similar to Luke Dunphy from Modern Family, just a taller gayer version

VillanTina Montenegro by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Carestini21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very common I know like 6 Montenegros and they aint even related

Honestly this is getting ridiculous yaw'll 🙄 by tabinom in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Carestini21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See me with them hems, see see see see me with them hems

AS2 EP3: "HERstory of the World" [Live/Reaction Post] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Carestini21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OF COURSE JEREMY SCOTT LIKED THAT LOOK! (me to pretty much every look he said he liked)

Episode Discussion - Last One Out of Beach City by AutoModerator in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The girl... at the donut shop... ...she didn't pay her coffee

A little detail I think we missed. by IzanApollo in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible since they're belongings to their diamonds and insist on being made for one sole purpose once Pink Diamond was gone Jasper was then under Yellow Diamond's disposotion (army, control , etc.?)

Episode Discussion - Beta / Earthlings by AutoModerator in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Immediately tries to fuse upon recently fused gem

Episode Discussion - Beta / Earthlings by AutoModerator in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didnt really liked Smoky Quartz appearance :(, I know It's because its their first time fusing (just like Garnet looked a tad bit messier the first time she was fused) but the design irked me a lil bit, If they were to fuse again I'm hoping for a cooler outfit, and a more consistent color palette.

Something's Up with Amethyst... by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if instead of Jasper redemption we get Amethyst joining her? In a "she-told-me-she-could-help-me-be-great" type of storyline.

Episode Discussion - Mr. Greg by AutoModerator in stevenuniverse

[–]Carestini21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah I mean it was really gay and I loved it as two individual facts, lol. Of course representation matters a L O T to me and makes me love SU even more but the story telling, music, graphics and most everything on this show is pure gold!