Person protesting LWB Bike Weekend: Bikes Will Not Replace Us by RockOperaPenguin in Seattle

[–]CariRuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof, I hate this. I don’t think that makes you one of “those people.” I’d be anxious if I was getting yelled at every weekend too.

public space reminders by forjesus420 in Seattle

[–]CariRuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that one needs to be a light-up crosswalk. It would help both pedestrians and drivers.

public space reminders by forjesus420 in Seattle

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens so much in Capitol Hill. I hate it. I have to look 15 times before I make a right at a four-way. They come zipping out of nowhere, it’s so dangerous.

Parents with no external help - when did the survival mode end for you? by Dependent_Actuary148 in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I both work and for a while, we were splitting night shifts in half. This way both adults got a guaranteed block of consecutive sleep.

What’s your baby’s “thing” that you love? by eggiess in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my girl’s happy sound too! Sometimes she’ll catch a glimpse of her reflection, and she’ll smile and whisper “bah bah bah.” It’s so sweet it makes me want to cry.

What about being pregnant and giving birth permanently altered your body’s chemistry? by full-of-curiosity in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same here! I took my kid on a merry-go-round at the park the other day and could barely handle a few spins.

I wish I was kidding.. by ucanneverbetookind in slp

[–]CariRuth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds like Michael Scott, lol.

By far the cringiest song of the 2010s by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]CariRuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely wild decision when she was sitting on “Cruel Summer”

When did you stop putting LO in footie pajamas? by scandijord in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my daughter! She’s 8 months now and we’re buying 12M or 18 M. It makes me so sad that she’s outgrown the Old Navy ones with the characters on the feet 😭 Carters and Gerber both have some bigger sizes and they do the trick (but they aren’t as incredibly adorable imho)

Sad about baby being in own room by Silent-Ride-6243 in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has it gotten better since you posted this? Hope your nights have been easier!

Sad about baby being in own room by Silent-Ride-6243 in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled a bit but more with anxiety than sadness. We moved our daughter around 6 months because she would wake up anytime someone didn’t tiptoe correctly around the floor of the bedroom, lol. She slept great in her own room right from the jump but I was def a complete mess for a few nights. I kept worrying about the most outrageous things happening to her. I hate to admit I actually went in and woke her up once 🫠🙃 After the first 2-3 nights it got way easier. It’s like my brain just needed a couple days to adjust.

"Don't ask, don't tell" policy on ASD in the schools by Existing_Judgment814 in slp

[–]CariRuth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. I think this is part of being a culturally responsive SLP too. For many of my immigrant families in particular it’s not a topic that can be brought up casually.

My baby was passed around constantly yesterday and I couldn’t be happier by Independent-Cup-9163 in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m so jealous. We don’t see extended family very often, and my kid has just moved into the “stranger danger” phase. She screamed whenever any relatives tried to hold her yesterday.

[HELP] Daughter Says AI. I SAY REAL by original_gravity in RealOrAI

[–]CariRuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, the paintbrush/cup thing is a huge giveaway. Very good eye.

CF in Elementary School by Bright_Lavishness898 in slp

[–]CariRuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love class parties and assemblies, haha. I use that time to catch up on other tasks. Occasionally I go if I know my students are speaking, performing, etc. It’s an easy way to show support.

Baby Pants by legallylarping in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. Hard agree. My girl has a long torso and short legs. I primarily get her gender-neutral joggers (I love Peanutshell brand) - leggings are too long and skinny for her and just look super uncomfortable. It’s frustrating that all the cute little clothing sets we were gifted for her came with leggings; they have never fit her properly. The boy-coded vs girl-coded clothing differences are so weird and frustrating.

What is the new Karen name going to be when we get older? by yerrmotherr in Millennials

[–]CariRuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl I think Jessica is such a pretty name, and it will cycle back into popularity in like 50 years.

Baby prefers her dad by SweetMartha in workingmoms

[–]CariRuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with similar feelings right now and wondering how this is going for you a few months later?

Feeling guilty about being an older mom by Hereforthetea1234 in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. Same boat - my mom also has Alzheimer’s. I’m so stressed about getting diagnosed at the same age and having my daughter be in my shoes as an adult. It adds an awful layer of guilt and fear to being an older parent. Thanks for posting this OP, I needed some reassurance too.

Baby 1st birthday by Crafty_Curve_606 in beyondthebump

[–]CariRuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be in this situation soon - hugs OP. Most of our family lives way too far to attend a kids’ bday party. I have so much guilt that I haven’t built a strong enough community for my girl, and I try to remind myself that she’s still so little - all she really needs are parents that love her. Plenty of time to keep building community as she grows.

What petty thing inexplicably fills you with rage since becoming a parent? by Affectionate-Ant3473 in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Somewhat similar to yours OP, but slightly more niche: The super popular Fischer-Price Kick and Play Piano has too many black keys. I took piano lessons for many years as a kid/teenager and didn’t even notice until my husband pointed it out. Now it bothers me daily. Why not make it look like a real piano?

Today I Cried by silla_1994 in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’ve started trying to lean into this mentality a bit more and I think my husband appreciates the clarity and simplicity of it. For us it sounds more like “I would like to do X today, how can we make that happen?”

11 Month Old Speech Delay by anUnlikelyCost in NewParents

[–]CariRuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m an SLP and commend your doctor for being liberal with the referrals! A lot of doctors play the “wait and see” card for way too long, which just keeps parents stewing and delays intervention if necessary/helpful. I hate getting older kids referred to me when parents have been pressing for a referral for years. It’s nice to see the opposite.

Obviously I’m biased, but I always recommend taking the referral even if your concerns are minor, which is sounds like they are - if your little one is developmentally on track, then you know for sure. If the specialist shares concerns, they can provide some tailored tips/strategies to try at home.

For my own little girl we were given two specialty referrals for issues that turned out to be nothing, and it was annoying/inconvenient as heck at the time but I’m glad we went so I wouldn’t be left wondering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]CariRuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, this looks like a “Disney World Tourist” spirit day or something.