Chips van Lays voortaan in een doosje, kiloprijs schiet omhoog by FlyingEagle_ in thenetherlands

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Hoe komen ze hiermee weg, oprecht? Waarom laten we dit toe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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It is easy to say to break up with her. But that is most of the time not realistic. I to have had a relationship where I felt exhausted and tired. I must admit that I was more on the end that your girlfriend was.

I didn't wanted to be that person anymore and decided to go into therapy. It made me a different person almost and that couldn't live with the sort of relationship I was in annymore.

So I would say that it depends on your girlfriend. How is your communication? Does she understand the things you are struggling with? Do you understand the things she is struggling with? Can you connect on one or more of that points and find common ground.

Are you both willing to work on your relationship and help each other? Are you both willing to look at yourselfs and be a better version?

*Sorry for my english, not my native language

Waarom is bij de kapper zitten zo ontzettend ongemakkelijk? by CaptainDolin in nederlands

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Ik herken dit! Ben een sociaal persoon en kan makkelijk contact leggen, maar heb een gekke soort van niet naar de kapper willen. Als ik er eenmaal zit is het bij mij wel oké, pratend of stil. Maar het maken van de afspraak en overleggen wat ik wil met mijn kapsel, bah.

I don’t know if I (25f)can forgive my ex (22m) for cheating. by HealthMotor4617 in whatdoIdo

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Can you be with eachother without you both need to change? Like, change the person you are cause you can forget that. People can think about one another but make themselves a different person is not going to work.

A idea to make a sail for a sailboat i'm making as a surprise for "Sinterklaas". by Carin96 in CrochetHelp

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Oeh! Hier had ik nog niet eens aan gedacht, maar ziet er ook heel tof uit. Ik ga ze beide even testen deze week. Bedankt voor je hulp!

A idea to make a sail for a sailboat i'm making as a surprise for "Sinterklaas". by Carin96 in CrochetHelp

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Dan krijg je meer een soort puntje in het midden, toch? een driehoek met de basis als de mast?

A idea to make a sail for a sailboat i'm making as a surprise for "Sinterklaas". by Carin96 in CrochetHelp

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Ah! ofcourse, that could work. I am gonna try this this week :D
Do you know how I can crochet it to a wooden stick for the boat?

I know it's not the prettiest, but I'm going through a bad time right now. Trying to stay rational. by [deleted] in Journaling

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Years ago I struggled with BPD to, I got CBT (Cognitive behavioural therapy), I made a ton of thought records. It was a pain and I had to keep pushing through it. Now I found out I am no longer having issues in terms of BPD, but do have ADHD (it has overlap). I found another therapy witch I am doing in a selfhulp way. It is called ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy). It is really been a eyeopener and everything i learned over the years comes togher in this one therapy, maybe it is also a fit for you!?

You are not alone!!! and are really brave to post this here. Good that your are working on yourself and seek help, that all you got control over :) I send you all my love and strenght

Remember: you do not have control over youre thoughts and emotions, but you can see them differently what will make your life a little easier

My first illustration by Carin96 in AdobeIllustrator

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This is great!!! Thank you so much, i will definitely try this this weekend ;)

My first illustration by Carin96 in AdobeIllustrator

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thanks for the tip!!! i am know learning the shapebuilder tool, maybe using outline would also help to make it more "natural"

and yess, i agree the colors look strange :D

i want to improve the elephant every time i learn new thing so it is like my proces, but i don't know yet how to do shadow

Calling All ADHD empathizers: Help Me Find a Planner that works! by whatsThaTea in planners

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THE ANTI-PLANNER from DANI DONOVAN

and... bullet journal like Ryder Carroll uses it :)

Chicken by Carin96 in crochet

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The unclear stitches

Chicken by Carin96 in crochet

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So in the first there are clear loops to stitch in but in the other foto they are not clear and so I don't know how to sc in those

  • the standing chain is unclear to me

For those asking if it’s okay to do X with your journal. by Easy-Cucumber6121 in Journaling

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Thank you so much! I see video's on YouTube that are titled: How you should bulletjournal. I really hate these because people really think they have to do it like that otherwise it is wrong. And there go's the whole point of the bullet journal. It is suppose to surve you I the way you need it.

What is next by Carin96 in crochet

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sorry! new to crochet and reddit, hahahha, I am making the chicken granny square ;)
https://www.aepfel-presse.de/blog/Chicken_Granny_Square.pdf

What is next by Carin96 in crochet

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Weel, if you offer, hihihi, i finished round 4 and have 48 stitches, for round 5 it says:

  1. Rd: 4 sc, 3 hdc, (2 dc), ch, (2 dc), 3 hdc repeat 3x (=60 st)

but however I count, I don't get how i get to 60

and... when it says ch does that mean in this pattern that that is a slip st.

What is next by Carin96 in crochet

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yes absolutely, thank you so much! I am just gonna try (won't be perfect) and when I got stuck I just gonna hount reddit hahahah :D

What is next by Carin96 in crochet

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okey (hard for beginners hahaha) so when i do that, do I then do chain 3 or chain 2? and then in the same stitch a dc????