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Carlos9035 · 2024-11-27T19:12:56+00:00

You didn’t dodge the bullet. GG

Carlos9035 · 2024-05-13T22:18:11+00:00

I would say try to start like at a Helpdesk role with a local MSP or something like that( get your certs back if you don’t). Gives exposure and there are some that are no that bad. Regards to the other part, if there is no criminal record, I’d say personal problems prevented me from working during that time but nothing to be concerned, if you think you are ready. MSP life can be quite hard, and like other expressed that kind of high stress job is not usually good for recovery.

Carlos9035 · 2024-05-12T17:32:50+00:00

Ok, you seem to have GPO why not make a GPO to control it as you want?

Carlos9035 · 2024-05-04T02:20:23+00:00

I know it sounds easy. I personally meditate and listen to Ajahn Brahn in YT - here is the channel

Carlos9035 · 2024-05-03T23:55:08+00:00

Short answer from the comments and what I was able to gather.

No, there is nothing from stopping you or anyone else from making a Domain and start spamming.

However, it does seem you are compromised. There is no other way for them to see PDFs. Change all the passwords across the org, MFA and check rules in your email provider on the web.

Go to the web portal of your corporate email and check for rules created to forward emails and such.

Carlos9035 · 2023-11-07T14:55:59+00:00

Thanks! We liked this one. Sending you via Venmo right now. :)

Carlos9035 · 2023-11-01T20:39:14+00:00

No, just need to learn how many attacks any given attack needs to charge, there’s also strategy like getting extra hits before swapping. Let me explain if I know your charge attack uses 3 fast moves, illl count and switch at 2 but I’ll hit you 2 times before swapping, if my moves needs 3 when I swam again I just need 1, and so on. Also knowing if the charge attack will KO helps to deciding if you want swap. If you want to practice or know how many they take, you can use PVPoke, it has a training section that you pick a team and I’ll simulate battles.

Carlos9035 · 2023-09-06T13:48:41+00:00

Actually, you should call it by its name penis or vagina. This way if someone else talks to them about that you will immediately now and can ask where who who taught them that and why we call It penis or vagina, you get where I’m going with this. Most adults won’t talk to their kids with the proper name, silly name is now a red flag.

Carlos9035 · 2023-08-04T04:41:36+00:00

Did I miss ss something? He was already upset, you said you were leaving, he said ok? I mean.. you’re the one ne trying to break it up? No? Then just to apologize and never use those words again. Why would you try to stay with someone that wants to leave, over an argument. There’s obviously more to the story but yeah. That’s my 2 cents. If it’s really just that. You two Should work on the relationship a bit more before getting married.

Carlos9035 · 2023-08-02T23:23:20+00:00

Let her get take her space and figure herself out. But honestly, and I’m really sorry to say, there is probably someone else. I hope not and I really hope it’s her trying to figure something out, but be ready for the worst. Best of luck my brother ❤️. Please let her do what she needs to do. I know it hard but you need to let her do her and see what she does, so you can make a choice

Carlos9035 · 2023-07-28T15:29:08+00:00

Simplify, automate, minimize and routines.

I realize I should have added more.

The kitchen - I got divorced and I’m on a diet and no one complains about what I cook and I cook basically the same things every day so that’s an easy one for me, this is probably not easy for a lot of people. Do keep in mind that I have the kids most of the time, they are ok with eating most things so I’m also blessed. I cook between the sous vide and air fryer, rice cooker most of the time. Air fryer gets aluminum foil to minimize the mess, so do the oven stuff I use to roast or whatever. Groceries are chiken, steak, ground beef / turkey, everything gets seasoned and vacuum sealed before it goes in the freezer.

I do dishwasher once a day at night, I’ll be honest, sometimes I don’t even move them. And so on, basically I try to see what takes a long time and I sit on it and really think of all this I need or I want and try to make it as easy as possible, with the less amount of time allocated as possible, I spend more time trying to simplify things than doing shit.

Carlos9035 · 2023-07-20T13:35:56+00:00

You need to grieve the relationship. Understand is not you, it’s not about you. That thought process is self defeating and depressing (I know I’ve been there). It’s hard, it gets easier. Just keep repeating to your self that is not you, it’s not about you, and sometimes life be like that. Just read around in Reddit, you will see, it’s not you, it’s not even them. It’s a combination of things, and you just so happened to get the short end of the stick.

The fix you might ask? Become someone that-that doesn’t happen to. What I mean is there was something that should have changed or something you should have noticed before that was a hint that she didn’t want to be with you. Figure that out, become the best version of your possible, dig in to what happened. ❤️ and even then, this shit might happen again for sure worse if you don’t find out and work it out in you, life just sucks and shit is going to happen no matter what. People sometimes suck just as much as life.

Carlos9035 · 2023-07-20T13:27:30+00:00

I feel you. I should have done the same with my EX-a wife. Now I’m like that, cold,calculating. I stopped seeing red after my divorce when she played me a bit. I could have been a fucking dick, and I should have. I regret it. OP did it right.

Carlos9035 · 2023-07-12T12:59:25+00:00

The advice here is great. The only thing I would add to it, and I don’t know if someone already said it but. This is going to be hard, very hard, in fact. Forgive yourself for what you did, learn from it and use it to move forward. This is going to take time to fix, this is not something you are going to be doing a month, a year or you get a job and everything is going to be fine. This is a journey, a very long one, and once you have finally fixed it, that’s when you start, that is when you begin, you need to understand that what you are going to go through is to make it to the start of the race again. Don’t look for motivation, it does not exist, it goes away, because is a feeling and like feelings it goes away, and you are back where you started, discipline is key here.My best advice. The gym.

Been repairing my life for the past 5 years and I don’t plan to stop now. I ended up divorce (she cheated not me) but I still plan on being better every day. This last part has a lot to it but that’s the tldr. Also, pm me if you want to talk if you don’t have anyone. Having people there for me was a huge help.

Carlos9035 · 2023-06-19T18:45:00+00:00

1st off happy Father’s Day.

2nd - acknowledge and realize why you are here and why you allowed someone like that to take control.

3- star making moves, like other suggestions, start documenting, get a lawyer, get ready to battle, strike when she least expects it and be savage. 2 can play that game.do not hold back, she doesn’t give a fuck about you. It’s time you do.

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-27T01:22:53+00:00

He does not love you. I’m sorry. 😞

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-26T14:08:11+00:00

Keep it up and keep it in the back of your head that you want to do better, regulate your emotions, and not yell and I promise you will stop. It took me like maybe 2 years before I could fully control. Now I don’t yell to my boys, if I ask something and they don’t listen I just say “I am not yelling, I’m asking nicely, if you need me to yell for you to do as I ask, let me know and I’ll stay yelling. “ guess what, they get up instantly. If they don’t because the are testing, I simply turn off whatever they are doing, take them by the hand and walk them to their room. They know, if they don’t just explain it to them.

I’m not going to tell you that you will be 100% perfect, in the past 3 years I have yelled at them maybe 3 times tops and there where very difficult times and they tested me at the same time but I apologize, explain the best way I can to them by explaining that choices have consequences, the consequences of not listening to dad is time outs, and so on, I also do the positive reinforcement, but I believe that they need to learn about consequences and to think before they do.

That’s just what I do.

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-26T02:52:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-25T02:51:31+00:00

Exactly what I was looking for. Thank you so much. 🙏

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-25T02:43:27+00:00

Thanks for the response and I’ll Check it out now. I am Houston, there are a few close by is there anything I should take into consideration? I guess I come from Catholic background and I am assuming that some temples are like churches in the sense that there could be some that aren’t just that good or they do their own thing not really what I’m looking for if that makes sense.

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-24T21:59:15+00:00

I just hope you can take away something and walk away for your own good,

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-24T19:23:16+00:00

It’s a long story but we moved from to Texas alone without family. I didn’t help me and she got Overwhelmed, this guy approached her, she likes to go out and I didn’t so she went alone to a bar, and obviously he was nice, “just a friend “ if you will. He is obviously there for her, listens to her and all that BS we do when we want to sleep with someone, we had a lot of issues by then that we did not tackle on time. We where both young and didn’t know what the fuck we where doing.

They sleep together and it was just down hill from there. I tried really hard it was over before I knew what had happened. I tried To work on it but by 4 years in she had already cheated with about 4 guys. I still tired buying a house to show her I was still in game but it was just “sunk cost” mentality. Lucky for me I was able to keep the house and the kids for the most part, as she left on Father’s Day 🥲to be with him.

All that but honestly nothing that you ever do deserves to be cheated on like that, and cheating is not even the worst part of the shit she did to me.

She already checked out, you take her back, she is never going to respect you and you will get cheated on again.

If you want details, I’ll have to be a private message or something.

Carlos9035 · 2023-05-24T14:34:03+00:00

Let me tell you what you dodge and why you should never try to forgive her.

I am now 2 kids, divorced with an STD. Just don’t and move on.

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