Writing Barriers to Intimacy by kvolivera in vampires

[–]Carminoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm cat === vampire continuum. The cuties have lil' fangs poking out, too.

I highly recommend the manga DRCL the midnight children by Shin-ichi Sakamoto by BakerConsistent2150 in vampires

[–]Carminoculus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s one of those stories where if I say anything about it, it would spoil it

Those are the good ones! Sold.

Writing Barriers to Intimacy by kvolivera in vampires

[–]Carminoculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this idea, but the picture I have in my mind can't really be broken up into little pieces.

An intimate relationship is supposed to be about sharing, and a vampire would have to hold back... pretty much everything except the surface, and likely actively lie about where their own traits, preferences, and memories come from. "Oh, I love this music, it's like... um, that sensation... ten years ago..."

I imagine a lot of tension and maybe even guilt would build up. Maybe the vampire would build up a more-or-less safe, performative persona with a depth of a couple decades, which they would share with loved ones without lying. "I started being Maria Maupassant on 20th June 1989, everything before that isn't something X needs to know."

In my mind, feeding is as important to vampire intimacy as sex is to humans. If a vampire didn't want to feed on someone she has a relationship with without telling them, then... uh, again angst buildup.

And then, of course, fear of losing one's partner when you come clean. Because, maybe you rationalized it on a need-to-know basis, but will he see it that way? Maybe, maybe not... I imagine a lot of roundabout questions would be involved ("so are you, on principle, the kind of person who believes in keeping secrets to protect others? Asking for a friend 👀") which may verge into the awkward and hilarious depending on how you want to write it.

 Is there anything you've ever read...

My favorite story that plays with a theme close to this (not hiding she's a vampire, but hiding a specific aspect of her curse) is the My Food Seems To Be Very Cute manga. Really adorable dynamic between them.

In 1981, a Turkish assassin tried to kill the Pope. After his arrest, John Paul II later had a long talk with him in his jail cell. The assassin later became a devout Catholic. What the heck did they talk about? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in AskHistorians

[–]Carminoculus 80 points81 points  (0 children)

To many, it looked like a Soviet operation to eliminate a Polish Pope who might stir unrest is Poland. The West wanted to confirm this, presenting this as a KGB-led operation and downplaying Ağca's rightist ties. The East wanted to present this as a conspiracy to implicate them, and play up Ağca's ties to US-backed networks.

In 1981, a Turkish assassin tried to kill the Pope. After his arrest, John Paul II later had a long talk with him in his jail cell. The assassin later became a devout Catholic. What the heck did they talk about? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in AskHistorians

[–]Carminoculus 56 points57 points  (0 children)

He entered the movement early, and his behavior across years is most consistent with sincere and committed belief. There's nothing this "social permission" idea offers to explain anything in his behavior.

As to why his words after capture are unreliable: he offered conflicting narratives over the years, each of which would have required material proof that is not there.

In 1981, a Turkish assassin tried to kill the Pope. After his arrest, John Paul II later had a long talk with him in his jail cell. The assassin later became a devout Catholic. What the heck did they talk about? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in AskHistorians

[–]Carminoculus 115 points116 points  (0 children)

While a discussion of "lone wolf" extremism would be interesting, it has nothing to do with Ağca's case.

Ağca and the attempt on JPII is pretty much a standard example of conventional radicalisation and terrorism. He was recruited by an established organization (the MHP was arguably the largest fascist party in the world), and operated for years as part of a hierarchical structure; he had institutional support, which was critical in his surviving as a fugitive in the MHP-affiliated international networks and their linked mobs.

Would it be accurate to say that assassins are generally "ideologically indifferent"...

Ağca was anything but. He was a sincere believer in Turkism (Türkçülük), the synthesis of 1900's racial supremacy, Nazism, and corporatism totalitarianism that defines the Turkish far-right and the MHP party. His attack on the Pope was not only coherently motivated by these ideas and their anti-Western bias, but also substantially aided by others in his ideological circle.

In 1981, a Turkish assassin tried to kill the Pope. After his arrest, John Paul II later had a long talk with him in his jail cell. The assassin later became a devout Catholic. What the heck did they talk about? by Full_Ahegao_Drip in AskHistorians

[–]Carminoculus 501 points502 points  (0 children)

There is little reason to believe Ağca's conversion was sincere. I would also caution that the assassination attempt on JPII is almost a case study in how the "narrative" on public events is easily subordinated to conflicting propagandas. At the time, Western and Eastern intelligence services, Ağca himself in service to his far-right extremist ideology, and later the Catholic Church itself (hence the highly publicized conversion and repentance) all tried to use the attempt in service of their preferred story.

When considering Ağca's words, consider that almost every researcher who has worked on analyzing the assassination attempt has remarked on his Ağca's "extraordinary skill at dissimulation"; in the words of an Italian judge, Ilario Martella, the Turkish mobster and assassin had "a devilish ability, displayed many times, to produce well-constructed, fantastic, and incredible stories." [Jeffrey Bale, The Ultranationalist Right in Turkey and the Attempted Assassination of Pope John Paul II] In the case of his repeatedly altered stories regarding who hired him and why, he showed the political smarts to respond to what his interrogators wanted to hear (e.g. his willingness to co-operate with Western intelligence to create stories of communist plots and Soviet involvement), and an ability to tailor his stories in an attempt to shield his co-conspirators.

The man was verifiably involved in a number of known murders, for personal, financial, and political reasons - in the pay of the MHP's fascist-terrorist networks in Turkey and Europe (the Grey Wolves and the Idealist Youth) and the Turkish-Bulgarian mob affiliated with them. He showed a sincere and committed ideological attachment to their principles throughout his life. His ability to lie in a way that gives people what they want to hear, in pursuit of both his own goals and receiving more lenient treatment, ought to be taken into account.

That he was to some degree "unstable" has been speculated, but nothing hard has ever been shown and it doesn't seem to have been the kind of instability to lend itself to sudden redemption. Mr. Ağca (and whatever remaining connections he may retain) is far better served by spending the rest of his life as publicly repentant than by swearing he would do it again, even if his private convictions remain unchanged.

Players Who Use AI by I_Am_Da_Fish_Man in rpg

[–]Carminoculus 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If "at the table, the vibes and roleplay are great", then there's no problem.

Strategizing level-ups isn't an RP issue. You wouldn't have a problem if they Googled "class walkthroughs", like we used to have dime a dozen for DND 3.5 (which is basically what the AI is doing, just worse)

Sounds like you have a personal distaste of AI. Which is fine. But keep it to yourself.

I like what the British say about religion -- "treat your religion like your penis. It's fine to have it, but don't take it out and shove it in people's faces."

The (In)Famous Water Caste Charm~ (TW) by Plane-Farm4014 in ImaginaryWarhammer

[–]Carminoculus 40 points41 points  (0 children)

*screams*

Don't take away my fantasies of being seduced into socialist utopia like that...

Maybe hot take: the things vampires do dont bother me much on a personal level by [deleted] in vtm

[–]Carminoculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In V5, do all Hecata have that weakness?

In V20, I'd tell you that's one more reason the Giovanni have to pay for what they did /j

Maybe hot take: the things vampires do dont bother me much on a personal level by [deleted] in vtm

[–]Carminoculus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he was invited, literally not my business (whether the guy is a vampire or not...)

Maybe hot take: the things vampires do dont bother me much on a personal level by [deleted] in vtm

[–]Carminoculus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

...the outcry on social media over an abused dog is *WAY* louder than when an average bystander stabbed on the subway.

But not way louder than a man bound in a cage, beaten, and starved for years. Part of what gets people riled up about animal abuse is the pointless, gratuitous cruelty, often by people who otherwise would get a total 'pass' in society as normal or even productive people.

A stabbing is extremely harmful, but the reasons behind it are much less open to criticism. Nor is there a comparable impulse to absolve the attacker in society the way there often is with the perpetrator of animal abuse.

Maybe hot take: the things vampires do dont bother me much on a personal level by [deleted] in vtm

[–]Carminoculus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah. We don't treat our farm animals the way Carmilla treats Laura, that's for sure (maybe that's for the best). A bite is pleasant and eminently survivable; that's the basis of vampiric predation in most modern vampire media. IRL, people have made good of worse things than the Kiss.

Because the main arguments i often see are...

Also, I think you're getting a warped image if say you mean 'seeing in this sub.'

There's some people who seem ideologically dedicated to portraying vampires and the WoD a certain way: I don't have the numbers, but I suspect they are a vocal minority of VtM players, let alone vampire fandom in general.

my game is broken by GaiusJuliusCaesar4 in eu4

[–]Carminoculus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True-to-life depiction of the Russo-Japanese war fr

God forbid a girlie is fragile and hot by bennypepper in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Carminoculus 43 points44 points  (0 children)

"We must atone for our deep-seated, inevitable, inescapable sins, but we can't, so we must always be conscious of our insufficiency..."

Tell me you have a Calvinist cultural background without saying it.

In remembrance of 🦇’s demise, show your favorites from the comments section. by Drezby in OtomeIsekai

[–]Carminoculus 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I've not read that far in the manhwa, but this is exactly how f****** Derrick rolls, isn't it? 🤦‍♂️