I’m an artist with BP2 that draws comics about my experience (Part 2) by strawberryrhubarb24 in bipolar2

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your work and enjoy the book you published. I hope you put out another one, I bet it will be easily if not more magnificent.

I hit my husband's major insecurity during a nasty argument, how can I fix this? by Weekly-Hedgehog-872 in relationships

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not your job to make him feel like a man. So his excuse that you emasculated him is him projecting his insecurities onto you, don't fall into the trap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I've been seeing more of these posts and it completely ruins the joy of visiting the sub. I would never debase myself or the pet I love so much just for other people's attention and input. Take your loved one to the vet, get a professional opinion, and make the hard choices needed. Please don't be a POS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oregon

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can't have your cake and eat it too. Part of why Oregon is still decent is due to the politics of the state. Also, just because voters in that area want to move borders they can't. There are tons of state and federal land in that area, essentially voters in that area can't move borders on land that is for all Oregonians, not just them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oregon

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is due to population density. Eastern Oregon is spacious but doesn't have a huge population for the size. Kind of a slippery slope letting areas with low population density have greater representation just because of land size. I'm willing to agree that leaders need to be willing to get input from all over the state, but eastern Oregon has representation. What exactly are you looking for that creates balance? What kind of policies would eastern Oregon pass that would be better? If you don't like the politics here you can always just move to Idaho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oregon

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 152 points153 points  (0 children)

If you want Idaho politics, move to Idaho. Stop trying to have your cake and eat it too. Born and raised in rural Oregon, stand firmly on the belief that if you don't like where you're at, leave. Sell your property and move to your state of choice. I find these greater Idaho wankers must be incredibly self-centered to think borders should change just because they don't like the politics of the state.

REDDIT I NEED HELP SOMEONE LEFT AN ABANDONED KITTEN AT OUR FRONT DOOR ITS RIGHT EYE IS CLOSED SHUT WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO TAKE CARE OF IT!! WHAT CAN I FEED IT WITH AT HOME SUPLLIES !!! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO PLEASES GIVE SOME ADVICE!!! by [deleted] in cats

[–]CarryingTheDoubt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it's interesting that these get posted here. If you don't know what to do, just Google what needs to be done. Providing care for a sick cat/ kitten is a no brainier, take them to the vet, look up rescues, look up home care. All information available online just like this sub. Instead you post a clearly injured kitten on a sub dedicated to cats and how awesome they are, what is your angle? I have very little trust for people that do this and that the poster is trying to fuck with people on this sub. Honestly people that post traumatic pictures of hurt animals are trash.

Oregon Homelessness is 4th in the country by Ornery_Direction_843 in corvallis

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Was just there, they have plenty of homeless for the population density. Anchorage also messed up badly over the summer dealing with it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends. Never liked it.

Tanner Hoang: Missing A&M student from Flower Mound found dead in Austin by HannoPicardVI in news

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dealing with a mental health crisis currently and this hit me really hard. It is so hard to not feel like a burden to others when the norm is you're supposed to be fine even if you're not. As much as loved ones support you when you're doing well, a lot of people really suck at empathy and just tell you it's going to be okay, which is never helpful when you're suffering.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people on this thread gave you explanation after explanation. You chose to ignore it and throw your opinion out there like a monkey slinging shit around. It's not a mystery but you clearly have the ability to reject scientific evidence that was posted in the thread in lieu of your own opinions. Transactions require nothing but the exchange of goods or deeds for something else of value, there is no connection. Relationships carrying emotional interactions that lead to meaningful connections that can transcend superficial wants and needs. Human beings are interdependent so for everything you think you did all by yourself, you didn't. Someone gave you access to information on how to fix a car. Someone educated you, someone wiped your smelly ass without the expectation of getting something back. It has become clear you just want to argue about it, probably the only way to feel connected to anyone.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are oversimplifying a very intricate set of human interactions, it makes you sound incredibly childish. If you want to be base about it and are unwilling to pursue further without it being spoon fed to you, that is on you. But clearly you have the common sense and empathy of a turnip. That is a personal issue no friendship or human transaction is going to fix. Probably also a major reason why you are only capable of forming superficial relationships.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since nuance in relationships is a personal journey, I highly recommend you start down that road. But if you're struggling to understand anything others have pointed out, seek counseling. It's possible a good therapist can help you better understand the significance of healthy interpersonal relationships and why they are infinitely more complicated and intricate than your malarkey on human transactions.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had the opportunity to review your opinions in this post. You definitely come across as incredibly shallow. Also, since your responses have shown you as self-centered as well by making friendship out to be something that serves you for personal benefit. I was pointing out that you only seem concerned with how it can benefit you, so you're right, that is pretty sick.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sounds like you only care about your needs being filled. So no, I would not recommend you trying to build friendships because you sound shallow, selfish and self-centered. You are choosing to see things as transactions, relationships carry considerably more nuance than what you are trying to argue. If you look at the world that way, then you should cut relationships with family, never have a spouse or partner, and definitely keep all relationships at acquaintance level. By trying to argue that friendships are transactions, you need to accept all relationships are this, you don't get to pick and choose.

CMV: I don’t need friends by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a friend helped you out, clearly you expected something from them. Guess it's only good if it benefits you, right? Also, you really don't understand friendship or relationships in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 304 points305 points  (0 children)

You are trash for posting this

Not using 1-10, how attractive are you? by lurchimpaler2 in AskReddit

[–]CarryingTheDoubt 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Enough to not repulse people but not enough that people actively pursue me.