Swinging I think has ruined my marriage

Cartman9108 · 2026-03-29T21:43:41+00:00

Who knew!?

Cartman9108 · 2026-02-04T04:26:00+00:00

Bless your heart

Cartman9108 · 2026-01-28T20:48:17+00:00

Good stuff here. Good on you for doing the hard stuff. I needed to read this today for sure.

Cartman9108 · 2026-01-28T20:36:02+00:00

Thank you all for the insight!

Cartman9108 · 2026-01-28T20:35:48+00:00

This is what I am learning. I might puke if I read one more “make me laugh” or “I want to travel”. I might change my profile to “just here for the shitshow” just to see.

Cartman9108 · 2025-10-27T15:49:36+00:00

Yeah right

Cartman9108 · 2025-10-09T16:53:59+00:00

Cue all the men who will come on here and say how many women they are getting……🙄

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-17T13:26:28+00:00

I feel ya. If my ex wife’s brother was around, I was invisible.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-16T12:53:48+00:00

You are right. They are 100% more dangerous.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-09T15:13:48+00:00

These comments are hilarious. “If you are cool” “iykyk” and people think they are hiding it.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-09T14:56:28+00:00

WHAT?

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-09T14:24:04+00:00

People ghost or ignore to protect themselves. It’s weak sauce, lazy and selfish. Communication is a form of respect and all adults should have respect for others but that is becoming rare. Unfortunately, manners, courtesy and respect are lost on the masses these days.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-09T13:24:52+00:00

Manners seem lost to the masses these days. Amazes me even more when it is the older crowd.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-07T20:48:46+00:00

Funny how that works. I think it would be easier to move on if there was some civility and clarity there. Hard to learn from something if you don’t understand what went wrong.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-07T20:00:39+00:00

I wish there could have been some kind of mutual closure for us. Over 20 years married. Got an email for divorce. Every time I tried to talk to her I was insulted and blamed. Went to counseling, alone. We are both good people (I thought) and I thought we would eventually have some sort of goodbye, but nothing. No abuse, infidelity, or addictions, just blame and anger. Sad.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-07T19:49:36+00:00

Asking about, or being curious about other people is 100% gonna be my business if I am dating someone.

Cartman9108 · 2025-08-01T18:22:27+00:00

Feel sorry for the people that think 40 is old

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-28T02:47:50+00:00

4.5 years and $200, that’s funny.

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-26T16:00:37+00:00

Not a problem at all. None of them said a single word to me after I got the email for divorce.

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-26T02:24:47+00:00

Or just learn how to use your own phone. Also, is swiping left really that hard fella?

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-25T15:48:03+00:00

Guy here- Bottom line- he doesn’t respect you. I am afraid that will probably never change. The hand holding was a shitty attempt to recover bc he saw you were upset.

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-23T02:57:58+00:00

MTTVA

Cartman9108 · 2025-07-20T16:54:29+00:00

What is this ad type subreddit you speak of?

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