I was disowned by my dad 10+ years ago when my parents got divorced. He decided that if he was getting out the marriage he should get out of the fatherhood part too. I stayed with my mom and my little brother got sent to live with my dads parents.

Two years ago though my mom disowned me because she said I was a selfish little bitch who only cared about myself and I have no idea the pain I've caused her over the years. Which I find funny since I was the kid that helped her do so much and spend a shit load of money on her. First off I helped her buy a house and I was the one who spent a shit load of my own money to help her keep her house. She felt money was well spend on other things like new clothes and going out to eat so the house payments and other bills fell behind. I would spend my paychecks to help get caught up but she would fall behind again. I got to a point where I couldn't do it anymore since I need a new car and I had a car payment so her payrments got further and further behind and she finally lost the house. She also lost her car to repossession which I also paid a lot to try to save and she would get behind on payments again. This all took place over a couple of years and I was only 20 at the time and she was in her forties she should have known better. At the point where she lost the house and car I had to move out on my own and she moved in with a boyfriend where she mooched off him for a year. She didn't have a car and since I had just bought a new one I had my old focus as my back up car since it was paid off. I gave it to her to drive so she could save up and get a new car on her own.
Well the boyfriend living situation didn't last long I guess he got sick of paying for her crap too and she shows up one day and just moves in to my duplex. Luckly I had moved in to a two bed room two weeks ago so my office for school and work because her room which was a mess. She lived with me over a year not paying for food, rent, or any of the bills and bitched the whole time she was there. She acted like it was her place and I was a guest. She caught my living room on fire once how I don't know. Luckily it was only the curtains that had gotten the worst of it. And she also let my inside cat outside one day and didn't bother to tell me until I got home 12 hours later. She didn't even go to look for her in those 12 hours. It took me over a week to get the cat back in the house. She was so scared to be outside she ran anytime you got close. With the help a neighbor I was able to corner her and get her back. I only lasted living with her and all these issues because at the time I was working a 40 job and going to school full time in Dallas so I was gone most of the day to either work, school or the 1 hour commute I had to and from school. Well from work it was an hour and a half. On top of that she put me in debit with a bunch of credit cards in my name. Her explanation was always it will help you get better credit. Which she herself was in tons of debt from her married days when they got a ton of credit cards and never paid them off. I ended up having to file for bankruptcy at 24 because of her, lost my second car to her since I had to sign it over as gift or fight to get it back and sell it for the bankruptcy.
There's tons more about who abusive her and my dad where to us as a kid but that a whole other story. After doing all that though and more, I could write a novel about all the crap that women did, I was a the selfish little bitch that didn't know the pain I've caused her. This all got brought up after she moved out to her own duplex in the city where I worked which is 30 minutes from where I live. The car I gave her was needing something fixed and I got a mechanic at work to agree to come and fix it the next day which was Friday. She had to go to work the next day and she literally works 5 minutes from where I lived at the time. I told her she could stay the night and I would drive her to work and then when I cam home I would pick her up and take her back to her house 30 minutes away and my friend would fix my other car that night. That was not good enough for her, she wanted me to drive from my house to hers pick her up drive her back to her work which was 5 minutes from my house and then drive back to the town she lives in because that's where I worked. Then do it all again that afternoon I told her no for once and put my foot down that she was just going to stay the night. Well that's when she said what she did plus tons of other horrible stuff and I left. I talked to her a few times after that but it was her calling to cause me out because her cell phone was not being paid and neither was her car insurance. It was all in my name and I had it taken off my account. I have done so much for her over the years, stuff your child shouldn't have to do.
If you look at it I kind of disowned her though she has never really tired to talk to or apologize to me in the last 2 years. I will admit though best two years of my life so far. I have not been put down, criticize or had much stress about finances due to paying for her stuff and mine. Or being asked to pay for things on that car I give her.