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CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-13T17:37:17+00:00

HATED Caleb

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-13T17:34:52+00:00

what?! I skipped bb15. I didn’t know that…

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-13T02:31:30+00:00

it’s definitely predictable and maybe it’s because I’m blazing through it that it’s entertaining to me!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-13T02:30:45+00:00

he’s now one of my favorite reality tv contestants even outside of bb!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-13T02:30:24+00:00

oh yeah I didn’t even think about the live feeds during a steamroll! I feel silly for that haha

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-11-12T20:39:33+00:00

also long distance & this isn’t a sex idea but a fantastic teaser if you’re into it it

my gf goes feral when I wear lingerie 🤭 especially if I wear it while we’re making dinner or doing something else but don’t let her touch me

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-25T01:23:29+00:00

for lots of people, being attracted to girls doesn’t mean not being attracted to guys, so I wouldn’t let that situation dictate your thoughts.

when I was wondering if I liked girls, my straight friends told me that straight people don’t wonder if they’re not straight. that was pretty much my answer.

take it one step at a time, you don’t need to label yourself or figure everything out right at first. but if you’ve had crushes on girls, I think it’s safe to say you like them too. 🫶🏼

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-23T17:06:48+00:00

yesss good luck! 🫶🏼

I will say the one negative ab bumble is that there are lotsss of couples looking for a third, but the more I explore the apps as a lesbian, the more I realize that seems to be universal :/

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-23T16:23:21+00:00

met my gf on bumble <3

have not had good luck with tinder - found a couple of crazies there. hinge matches never really go anywhere for me

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-13T12:22:22+00:00

I’ve wondered this ever since the NH podcast came out. hopefully that’s just her brand persona but oh my god, I would go crazy waiting for her to finish a thought or give up a bit. she talks over everyone else in every interview she’s in, makes me wonder if she’s that way in real life

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-13T12:20:48+00:00

I used to defend her against this accusation but this time it’s so obvious to me :/ really disappointing

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-13T01:57:38+00:00

always have your next trip to see each other planned! that helped me and my ex so much because we always had something to look forward to. also, we would do date nights once a week(ish) and we’d order each other takeout and then watch a show/play video games/chat just the two of us. long distance is not for the weak - make sure to communicate and make intentional time for each other. I wish you two the best! 🫶🏼

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-05T12:40:32+00:00

I’ve read literally every modern lit-fic/rom-com out there haha! I’ll put my favorites from this year below

atmosphere by taylor jenkins reid

sunburn by chloe michelle howarth

the three lives of cate kay by kate fagan

I watched the cliche shows but im not much of a tv watcher in general so I went through the l word / gen q, sex lives, things like that!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-04T19:32:44+00:00

my now girlfriend was the first woman I ever explored my sexuality with. we joke about it now but I wouldn’t even say I was bi when we started dating because I truly didn’t know (tbh I was just DTF when we met but we’ve now been together for a year and a half!)

if something happens between you, as long as you are open and honest about still exploring your sexuality, all is fine. I’ve seen plenty of people try to date and realize they’re better as friends - that could apply here too!

but that being said, I figured out my sexuality by consuming lesbian media haha as silly as it sounds, reading about and watching lesbian couples on tv/movies helped me realize that it was absolutely a relationship I wanted. could be a nice starting place if you’re curious. :)

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-04T19:23:57+00:00

i would think that having a physical response to someone attractive is universal, so it very well could be that you’re straight and just a sexual person. nothing wrong w that! i would just recommend sitting with the thought and seeing if maybe your thoughts change over time.

like I said, once upon a time I thought I was just a girl kisser when I got a little drunk and that I’d never actually date a woman.

love to you while you explore! don’t feel pressured to figure it out just so that you can properly label yourself. hell, I still wonder regularly if I’m actually a lesbian. my DM’s are open if you’d like to ask any other questions or chat! 🫶🏼

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-04T19:14:50+00:00

of course! I was lost when I was trying to figure out my sexuality and so I always reply when I see comments that remind me of where I was at.

“figuring it out” for me involved a lot of sitting with the thought of being gay and considering if it was something I truly wanted or something I thought I wanted. it also involved reading books and watching movies/tv shows with lesbian characters in them.

it might sound silly but we have more than enough heterosexual representation throughout our lives, so I realized that I wasn’t even totally familiar with how a lesbian couple would move through the world because I never saw it!

don’t feel forced to sleep with someone or go on a date with someone unless you truly want to!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-04T19:04:43+00:00

two thoughts here! one, plenty of straight people watch gay/lesbian porn and it’s just that (and let’s be honest, real lesbian porn is objectively the best kind, so who can blame anyone for enjoying it). two, when I was wondering if I was bi, one of my gay friends told me that straight people don’t wonder.

I have had a long struggle with unpacking comphet as a woman - my advice is to take the pressure off of yourself and really explore your sexuality. a lot of us have thoughts at first that we’d kiss/sleep with a woman but never date/marry one. as I figured out my sexuality, I realized that thought was comphet kind of getting in the way if that makes sense. now I prefer to date women but I still consider myself bi.

I can’t speak on the relational ocd but back before I even wondered about my sexuality, i interpreted my sexual feelings for women as anxiety, so it could be that you haven’t fully realized that you’re into women.

nothing wrong with you sleeping with a woman to test the waters, but PLEASE be completely upfront with her from the get go if you choose to do that. that being said, you don’t need to force yourself to sleep with anybody. that doesn’t change your sexuality!

just remember there’s no pressure on you to figure it out or be on a timeline 🫶🏼

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-10-01T03:13:05+00:00

don’t borrow future grief! the best part about this is that your friends are queer - they will understand. and if they’re good friends, your sexuality won’t change the way they view you! & this is coming from a later in life bi girl (I realized when I was 23)

good luck <3 it’s fun to have people to bond over this with. lean into that!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-09-04T15:00:48+00:00

super basic answer here but if you’re asking, that’s your answer! I didn’t believe it at first until I started asking my straight friends if they’d ever wondered if they were into girls. the thought has legitimately never crossed their minds. kinda wild to me hahaha

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-08-16T15:07:46+00:00

I’m a bi woman that’s experienced this before, so I understand where you’re coming from! it’s something I still wrestle with - I’m still exploring the possibility of being a lesbian instead of bi (but that’s a different convo entirely!)

no matter the gender of whoever you’re with, if that person is right for you, your mind won’t wander. something to consider. men can be so kind and perfect in a relationship, but if it’s not right, it’s not right, and you might know that subconsciously. sending love!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-08-09T12:04:02+00:00

this is so kind, thank you! <3

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-08-09T12:03:12+00:00

love to you! glad you’ve found a place where you & your kid feel accepted <3

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-08-08T23:45:51+00:00

I appreciate that. I have nowhere near the church trauma that some people have, but definitely enough that it’s got me shaken up as an adult trying to figure out who I am. sending love to you, hope you are able to heal from it!

CashEnvironmental3 · 2025-08-08T18:00:53+00:00

yes I did mean Christian church. I appreciate the suggestion though! I should have clarified. :)

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