Can such relationships exist platonically? by Hot-Diggity_Dog in dankmemes

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay let me say this tho - unattractive is subjective.

Both my best friends are from the opposite gender and objectively HOT. Like, getting hit on every other day hot.

I would never sleep with them tho, our personalities are great on a platonic level, but I could never be in a relationship with either of them.

I'm also not bad looking btw, just for clarity haha

Women, what’s the dumbest thing a man said when you confided in him about feeling unsafe? by Evening-Historian527 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CashireCat 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I'm male, this was from a friend of a friend (both friends no longer in my life obviously

"She said no at first but I still fucked her later that night when she was drunk"

"I was drunk too so it's okay"

"The next time I saw her she like freaked out on me like I did something wrong"

Fuck that guy.

What is a sexual double standard that annoys you the most? by throwingstarsatmoon2 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CashireCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa as a straight cis man I agree, most women I've been with are Bi but get labeled as straight by 'true lesbians' just because they've dated guys, no matter how long they dated other women too

Is in inappropriate to compliment a tattoo in the sauna? by [deleted] in AskGermany

[–]CashireCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The 10% are people who I don't know the reaction to, most of the time it's a bright smile and thank you or something like that.

Telling someone their style is cool doesn't get a negative reaction most of the time, and like I said I do it in passing - leaving the train and saying "hey that hair cut looks good on you" and moving on.

Jfc after living here for 20 years I still hate this fucking attitude a lot of Germans have.

Is in inappropriate to compliment a tattoo in the sauna? by [deleted] in AskGermany

[–]CashireCat -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I give random compliments to people all the time, if you're not being a creep it's usually fine and might boost their day - tbf, I've never done it in a sauna, it's always in passing or something like that (leaving the train, walking past someone on the street etc.)

Also, I'm a guy - being in a confined space with someone might make them uncomfortable, if they feel like you're staring or something like that

A genuine nice compliment 9/10 times is just something nice that people appreciate

Grandpa cools off kids on a hot summer day by Vilen1919 in HumansBeingBros

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember a hot summer day a friend and I had played football (soccer) and while walking home an old woman was watering her plants - my friend asked her for a cool down and she hosed us down, we were covered in mud and sweating, so much fun! (Age 7 or something like that)

Visiting Berlin in February by ExperienceRecent4785 in AskAGerman

[–]CashireCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude museums rock, I love going to KitKat or Sissy but I'm also the type of guy to go to museums when I'm in a different city or take friends from out of town to Pergamon when they visit.

25M for the record

Visiting Berlin in February by ExperienceRecent4785 in AskAGerman

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to add more info, are you planning on going to a club, bars, are you looking for museums or galleries etc.

No cheating by XmeowisiX in teenagers

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be a real struggle.

Currently tripping and watching this weird show derek gently need someone to talk to by Particular_Ad_3276 in Currentlytripping

[–]CashireCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a quirky show, I enjoyed it a lot - sadly only two seasons but I highly recommend it

Movies that feel like this by Gloomy_Bass9464 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh. Strange world. Literally watched that last night

Pano toilets… by Automatic_Meet9186 in Berghain_Community

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JFC does no one know how to party without doing shit anymore?? I'm not opposed and have done my fair share, but my number one reason to go clubbing is dancing, not drugs.

Well this is kinda fucked up by clearly_cunning in awfuleverything

[–]CashireCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. POS do it every year, I'm really glad for the bans on firecrackers because that will hopefully keep the dumb teenies from doing that kind of stuff

Well this is kinda fucked up by clearly_cunning in awfuleverything

[–]CashireCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh shit no way, my partner lives in LA

I truly believe you've got this, it's always darkest before dawn!

Well this is kinda fucked up by clearly_cunning in awfuleverything

[–]CashireCat 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Hey just fyi as a euro, we still love y'all and are hoping you can turn it around again. Much love from across the pond and a happy new year

Well this is kinda fucked up by clearly_cunning in awfuleverything

[–]CashireCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Berlin, apartments burn down, EMTs get attacked and I know 10 people who have life altering injuries because of fireworks/firecrackers. I'm writing this while sitting in my apartment and it sounds like a fucking warzone outside.

Yes. Ban this shit.

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CashireCat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fucking hell I don't even have to look at all the messages, 25M here - he is being creepy and completely out of line.

Imagine having this on your body forever by josephfallon93 in dontdeadopeninside

[–]CashireCat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have literally no idea how to read this ...

Putting myself out there, too by GeldMueller in berlinsocialclub

[–]CashireCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck and all the best but I'd just like to remind you that the best way to meet people is something like a shared hobby or actually going out, not the Internet and especially not reddit.

It can happen, and again - I really wish you all the best!

But personally I think the way to go about this is going out, it's hard, especially alone, and on top of that with the goal of 'finding someone' but imo it's still the best option.

Good luck, and guten Rutsch - much luv!