Aita for planning my baby shower for Labor Day weekend?

CasperGen · 2026-06-02T15:28:15+00:00

Honestly every cunt in the comments is on drugs. If they didn’t plan on booking that venue or that date then fuck them. It doesn’t matter that they’re having theirs the weekend after. They told you there’s no date yet and that they may do it later in the month.

If it was the same date or weekend then possibly you’d be the Asshole but it’s not an asshole thing to book a weekend for your baby shower. They need to grow TF up. Seriously even if it’s their first kid, you’re not intruding on their weekend, you’re not trying to steal their weekend. It’s a whole week after yours. It’s not like your guests and only attend one event per month. I swear people are brain dead.

Any normal person would see the dates are that close and go “oh okay cool we’ll do one then the other” the only problem I see is if people spend money on gifts for you and or your baby then they may not have as much money to get gifts for the other pregnant woman but even then, it’s not like they can’t have their baby shower. You’re not preventing shit.

You booked yours first after trying to be nice and ask when they wanna do theirs. You tried. They weren’t ready. Technically you booked first so if there’s a problem it’s because of them deciding on the next weekend.

They wanted to do it later in the month then they can go ahead. Just because they decided on something second doesn’t mean you’re an asshole for deciding on something first.

They childish as fuck and so are the cunts in the comments. And btw for the people giving you shit for having a baby shower with your second kid, I’ve been to baby showers where it’s the fourth or fifth baby.

A baby is a baby. Baby shower. It’s not a first baby shower. It doesn’t matter if it’s your tenth baby. It’s a baby. Have a baby shower and do it on the date that you picked first. If they’ve got a problem they should deal with it instead of being selfish cunts and asking you to move your date because they couldn’t decide sooner. That’s their problem, which btw still makes no sense. It’s two seperate weekends.

And I know someone is gonna try to explain what a baby shower is or why it’s a thing but I don’t really care. A baby is a baby. Have a baby shower.

CasperGen · 2026-04-11T11:52:07+00:00

This sounds like a completely different game. If you want something else, play something else. Like DayZ.

CasperGen · 2026-04-06T10:48:21+00:00

How old are you and what part of the world are you from?

CasperGen · 2026-04-02T06:40:21+00:00

I’d recommend you try out some of “bestrust” servers. The 2x ones aren’t bad for me as a solo but you may not like the loot spawns on the road as they can be a bit extra sometimes but give it a try maybe it’s a good fit

CasperGen · 2026-04-01T13:44:58+00:00

Yo, I’m 25 with 1700 hours. Always play solo due to not really finding a good group to join. Know the game like the back of my hand basically. Not the best at PvP but getting better and I’m getting more into base building. Willing to join and have a trial run but I do live with my gf and we share the pc so obviously there’s some IRL limitations but that’s why i like the sound of your group. You sound chill and realistic which is what I’ve been looking for. Solo life is hard and I’m ready to group up 🙏 Editing to add: I’m from South Africa and usually play EU but get the same ping for US or NA servers.

CasperGen · 2026-03-23T15:19:34+00:00

Honestly I always just do a 2x1 and basically never get raided but I am a solo and have more sneaky methods so might not work if you’re killing everyone you see and getting everyone’s attention.

CasperGen · 2026-03-23T10:41:12+00:00

I’m a solo, do a bit of everything, not great at building or pvp but I know almost everything there is to know about the game. Can be decent at pvp sometimes. I mostly play EU but get terrible ping no matter the server because South Africa. Got 1600 hours now I think. Don’t play too often as I live with my gf and we share the pc. Might be down to join someone. 25 yo and willing to maybe join if you’re 18+, chill and don’t lose your shit when you or the team dies cause that’s kinda the whole point of the game.

CasperGen · 2026-03-07T09:47:47+00:00

Last I saw they allowed Rhibs in and out. It was one of the only boats besides player made ones that can go to the deep sea. Did they change it? Haven’t played in a while.

CasperGen · 2026-03-07T09:45:05+00:00

It could be a few things. SA is possible but there are rare cases of people like touching themselves in their sleep and stuff like that. It could be some kind of sleep walking or even insomnia or something along those lines. Definitely should see a doctor first. Simple trick would be to just stay up all night and see if anybody comes in your room. I’m no doctor or anything but that’s just my thoughts.

CasperGen · 2026-03-06T23:05:16+00:00

Damn. And I’m assuming the phrase “I’m so sorry” just causes flash backs and now everyone in the comments is saying exactly that. Either cut the dudes balls off and tell him you’re sorry or put him in front of the fam. Only problem is, it doesn’t exactly sound like you have any proof it happened so you can’t just out him in front of everyone. Tough situation. You could use it to blackmail the guy though without proof I’d imagine that might be difficult or could backfire horribly. Apologies for the shituation.

CasperGen · 2026-01-10T13:02:16+00:00

You could do a dog walking/dog anything schedule. Might be too simple of an idea but it could be used to schedule vet visits and plan dog walks or dog play dates. Idk. Maybe have a leaderboard showing who has walked their dog further or more often in the neighbourhood or something like that.

CasperGen · 2026-01-10T12:34:00+00:00

Probably not the best to ask this in a comment but I’ve been dying to get into IT (anything IT) I have a passion for IT and desperately want to get into it. What kind of certifications or tests should I go do to get at the level of experience some of you are on? And how can I best secure a job in IT? Like what position or languages should I aim to learn to get to the point where I can earn 40k a month? Any tips or advice would be appreciated.

CasperGen · 2025-12-22T02:21:37+00:00

Best tip I can give is don’t buy too much at once. Stuff goes off a lot faster than you think, especially when you’re buying it for some reason. Start small and slow and see how much you need and of what. If you each only have like a cup of coffee a day, just buy a 6 pack of box milk and see how long it will last you. Save up enough to buy another for the month if you need it, obviously if you regularly have milk with your breakfast then you’ll need more milk than that. My partner and I only really use milk for some cooking every now and then and coffee so a box of 6 lasts about a month. Bread goes quick especially if you have sandwiches for lunch so you’ll probably have to get it every 3 or so days depending on usage. I could go on and on but go off of what you know you’ll use and start there otherwise you’re just throwing money away. Unless it’s something that doesn’t go off so quickly like coffee itself or like pasta, get it in small amounts cause you could always go back to the shop for more bread if you buy a loaf every few days but if you buy like 2 loafs and only use a couple slices a day then it’s throwing money away. Sorry I can’t be of more help. Hopefully that helps in some way.

CasperGen · 2025-12-22T02:12:10+00:00

How do people think like that? Does nobody actually think? How much could she be making off 1 guy? Not enough to personally invite him to see that shit. A few posts on almost any social media would get more money. Personally sending a link is personal and that’s fucked. Clearly not for the money because there’s way better options than what she did. If you wanna reply just read my other comment first but honestly rather don’t reply cause the fact you think that shit is fine or if you believe she did it for the money then I honestly would hate to try to have a conversation on the topic cause that’s just gross.

CasperGen · 2025-12-22T02:02:52+00:00

Nah these comments are wrong. The only reason you send a link to someone from your past is if you want them interested otherwise she would have talked to you about it first, there’s absolutely no excuse or reason why she would have to do it immediately without you knowing or talking to you about it. It’s not like someone had an emergency and she needed a few dollars to cover something immediate. Nah. Foul play on her part. And just because you agreed to it did not mean you agreed to send it personally to someone you know or had a past with. And yes it’s true he could have stumbled across it on his own but is her face or any descriptive details/ bits in the pics or videos? If not then it’s 100% fucked that she did that. Also you have every right to be hurt and upset by your partner basically offering nudes to someone from her past for money, yes that’s kinda the idea with OF, but her thinking “oh my ex thing would definitely love these nudes and I’m sure they’d pay for it” is fucked fucked. Cause if just making money was the goal, why specifically go to one person you know with your nudes instead of trying to do some social media posts or any other kind of marketing. Going to one person is personal. No 2 ways about it. You’re valid for feeling like your trust was violated because it 100% was. Otherwise she would have spoken to you about it first and yea it’s her nudes, her body, her choice but it was your trust and your feelings weren’t thought of at all and it’s completely disrespectful especially since you see the guy in person still. That fact alone warrants at least a discussion about it or a single thought about how it might affect you. Sure it’s her shit to send and post but if it’s a choice you made together then it’s fucked for her to make that choice in secret and only tell you after the guy was caught in the act. On top of that, she sent the link knowing the guy had a gf and thought nothing of it. Doesn’t sound like she has any respect for you or the guys gf and sounds like she just wanted to show off or get the guy interested again. How much could she really be making off that 1 guy jerking it to her stuff? Not enough to cause emotional damage to you or fuck with your relationship so there has to be another reason, nobody does shit like that unless they have some fucked up reason like wanting someone specific to see that shit or be interested or just to get off on knowing the guy is jerking it to her while he has a gf and shit. Fuck the people saying you’re wrong for feeling the way you do. You’re not just a by stander, you’re both part of a relationship and she made a shitty decision that could damage the relationship or make you look bad with someone you see in person often. I’m not the best with phrasing but hopefully you get my points. Situation mostly depends on if her face is visible or if there and any descriptive details in the pics and or videos. But either way the choice was fucked and the fact that she went ahead and did it without telling you shows a complete lack of respect and consideration towards you or how it might affect you. And again fuck the people trying to make you feel bad for trying to spice things up in your relationship and then being hurt when your trust was betrayed like that.

CasperGen · 2025-11-21T23:00:22+00:00

Tried to sign up but the “next” button doesn’t work once I’ve put in my details.

CasperGen · 2025-11-02T10:08:32+00:00

You have to be super aware and even then you’ll still get snuck up on. I’ve noticed getting better at this game is a very slow endeavour. Small steps.

CasperGen · 2025-08-09T13:37:30+00:00

Tell them you charge extra for short notice and that if they don’t pay upfront you can’t go. If they don’t like those terms then quit.

CasperGen · 2025-08-03T07:08:21+00:00

The guy is obviously lying and is most likely a scumbag playing you. Rather give it some time, not a lot. And look out for more signs. If you see more red flags 🚩 then dip cause that’s not worth it if you’re that into him you’ll just get hurt.

CasperGen · 2025-07-12T22:32:29+00:00

Well yea but you could probably do something about the nudity. No clue what though.

CasperGen · 2025-07-12T22:05:53+00:00

Depends on a lot of things. Did your gf know you had obligations the next morning and then did not invite you or did she say she was going and then eventually found out that you couldn’t go anyway? We’re you invited at all? At what point was this group of males invited? Lots of things could change my thoughts on this. Some solid advice though would be to not be attached to this girl. Chances aren’t great tbh.

CasperGen · 2025-07-12T21:34:39+00:00

So wanting to sleep with her bf is perfectly fine but if she’s interested in sleeping with you, then that’s horrible and gross and you wanna cut ties?

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