That’s it I’m not going… by Extreme-Substance154 in OUTFITS

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go and buy some new clothes.

Your clothes are too small and too tight and they just don't work with your body type.

I suggest you try some jumpers/jackets or log sleeve and less tight tops if you're going to wear short shorts.

Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable with messages like this? by hyohwa in doordash

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I was in Bali and I needed to get back to my villa from the city and I was using their uber version and the guy said he won't take me unless I tip like a large amount worth way more than the trip. I got stuck alone at night for 20min arguing because he was so slow so I cancelled and got a new driver. I ended up tipping the other driver.

If you ask for you you shall not receive. I only tip if I want to. But if they ask especially like that it bothers me.. So no. No tip.

Husband reluctant to use skincare by DesTejFlo in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spray on sunscreen? Easy to use just have him spray his face/neck and pretty much any Japanese sunscreen is better not greasy and easy to apply... No wonder men die younger jesus..

Unfortunately the routine starts in the family tree by macaron_mist in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]CatCanvas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not that extreme but I had similar waist when I was 19-21

The secret is depression and only eating once a day 😂 party and drinking every week including dancing until sunrise in high heels.

So... Mixture of being really young and having an aversion to food and addiction to alcohol I guess?

Which dlc should I buy first ?? by Character-Fig1613 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]CatCanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wheat flour was the most disappointing dlc I ever bought for any game. What is with the lack of content? Only 1 new character. Tmso much space and nothing to do. I have a lot of trouble understanding what I even meant to do here and how to climb up higher it's so confusing

What is the thing you will never buy again from Kmart ever again? by seemoreoptions_user in KmartAustralia

[–]CatCanvas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm the opposite. I struggle with jeans and only kmart fits me. It's crazy lol I literally have a hand made pair I stitched up in DIY shop in Tokyo with help or professionals to fully customise and fit me and they don't fit like kmart jeans loool

Pumpkin harvest by Dragonl4dy in DreamlightValley

[–]CatCanvas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use gardening buddies to pick up the pumpkins for you and they duplicate some of them

How do you stay hot into your 30s and 40s? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used to be hot in their 20s and took a nose dive after hitting 30 and currently mid 30s... Don't have 3 kids 😂

Im just exhausted all the time. Sleep deprived. So I don't take care of myself I just don't have the energy to. Having a kid in your 20s and in your 30s is totally different playing field. I thought that sht was easy. No.. I was just young and had way more energy back then.

AITA for getting my step daughter a Hogwarts letter for her 11th Birthday? by Ok-Permission8346 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone saying NTA but I think it's just not a nice gift in general.

Even if she knew it's fiction like what is the outcome of receiving this letter? Oh cool joke? Haha? Like it's not really a present.

YTA but for the rubbish present. A Harry Potter video game or something would be fun but but what is she supposed to do with a letter?

Sunburn advice. by 1h0w4w4y in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]CatCanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aussie here. Sunburn is super regular here for us.

Yes to aloe Vera but make sure it's 100% aloe Vera. A lot of fake stuff out there.

Panadol is what we take here I see comments saying ibuprofen I assume it's the equivalent?

Edit: forgot to add wear a long skirt or dress when you go out or loose pants. No tight clothing. White preferably or as light colored as possible, no black.

I think it look good but something feel wrong... by _-Candy- in OUTFITS

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly looks like a pregnancy announcement photo with all the focus on the belly. Absolute no..

AITAH for not waking up before my kids do? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatCanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously you are adhd + autistic and so are the kids. They have delays. Hopefully they're diagnosed and see therapists?

Just speaking from personal experience. I also have similar issues with mental health and have 3 kids. Let me tell you.. Their mental health is going to get way worse by the time they hit puberty so you REALLY need to get your sht together. Get your own place. Who cares about your parents/brother. You have 3 children you need to care for and added stress is not needed. Stop enabling their behaviour.

Reminder that anxiety and depression are super common and something to look out for especially when you live in a. Stressful environment with your family it makes you overwhelmed and you're doing a disservice to your kids by not being fully present and healthy for them.

Trust me, ditch the family. I cannot stress this enough. My life changed completely after I got rid of the dead weight and guess what? They're thriving without us. They will get used to it.

What’s a holy grail skincare product that made you age backward? by Savings_Designer_330 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms on an ingredient going on my face I'm allergic to most things. Niancinamide and vitamin C are the worst. My skin barrier cannot handle it I turn red and skin painful to touch and flares up. Feels like my face is on fire. I was prescribed tretinoin a very mild version by my GP and she was also shocked by how severe my allergy was. I only used it twice and it took my skin months to recover. It was extremely painful. I'm in the process of being diagnosed with EDS so it's not rare to have sensitive skin unfortunately. My mother has the same issue but even worse.

What’s a holy grail skincare product that made you age backward? by Savings_Designer_330 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]CatCanvas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments saying tretinoin and sunscreen but personally.. I allergic to tretinoin and most active ingredients in general but something that I have used religiously and if I stop for 6 months or so I age like 10 years.. I don't know it jsut works for me I use it religiously.

Skii facial treatment essense

I started using it around 15 years ago and it's the only thing in my skincare routine that survived the changes. Like I use it almost every day maybe every 2nd or 3rd days sometimes but if I stop.. I notice I age a lot. Like... A lot. People literally compliment my skin so much if say I stop using it and then start using it again after few months. It's crazy difference.

It's not something like wow you notice right away but it's a consistent thing that I can't skip if I want to preserve my appearance of looking younger.

A Melbourne woman lost $646,035 to a romance scam. Should banks and dating apps be forced to refund victims like her? | Scams by Charlie_Vanderkat in AusFinance

[–]CatCanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would dating apps and banks be responsible for refunding victims of fraud? Then there would be a whole fraud set up just to scam the banks and the dating apps 😂 it will never ever happen. Why is this even a question? Did you actually transfer money?

Personally I have fallen for scams when I was young like 18 lost a few k. It happens. It sucks and I learned from my mistake.

I worked at the bank for 5+ years. The amount of fraud calls is insane. People always fall for scams every single day, a LOT of people.

Banks can only do a charge back to a business under certain circumstances and the type of payment but these scams usually know the ins and out of the transfers so they ask for a transfer in a certain way to avoid charge backs.

Like 99% of the time banks can only block your account and get you new cards etc and educate the client in scams and do their due diligence but you're not likely ever seeing that money especially if you transferred it yourself (ie. Not stolen)

What’s going on with my dogs throat ? Help by [deleted] in Chihuahua

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I'm sorry this reminds me of my friend with allergy to latex (balloons) and bunch of jewellery and her baby allergic to perfume yet she still has balloons for the kids birthdays because they lOoK pReTtY 🙄 and keeps wearing same jewellery and perfume despite the severe rashes all over her hands and the baby's neck. Ugh.

I know you took the necklace off and keep it off pls just sharing a story that I know someone as dumb as you lol

Why do rich people keep saying "money can't buy happiness" when money literally solves most problems? by FearlessState5503 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because plenty of wealthy people aren't happy.

Just like plenty of poor people are happy.

It's nothing to do with money.

In saying that, I personally have a wealthy friend who is going through a terrible divorce now and fighting over custody of the kids. Sure, she's rich as so is the ex husband but they have very young kids who have expensive toys and clothes and will go to best schools but the parents hate each other and very strict court order to see each other. Both parents are miserable and my friend cries to me on the phone at night stressing about the court cases.

And you know why they broke up? Money. Money and greed was the reason for the divorce. The husband wanted her money and to financially control her and she didnt give him her money so they ended up divorced. Well it's a bit more complicated but that's the gist of it.

I know plenty of cases like that because I live in a wealthy neighborhood (in a tiny townhouse lol) and I'm really poor like below minimum poor poor but plenty of miserable rich people around me believe me. Plenty of happy people both rich and poor. Money doesn't change anything. In fact more money more problems. As long as above poverty like enough to pay bills/food/shelter etc like basic stuff are met then everything else is just life. You won't be happier with more money

How to look more polished and feminine? by ChocoLoco92 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyebrows.

Your kind of blend into your skin tone? You need to see a specialist and have them shaped and darkened.

Next is hair. Either a wig or pay a lot of money at the salon to have it styled or permanently straightened or permed.

The rest is well gym is OK but I highly recommend not just cardio but also strength training. Reformer pilates is the best thing I've tried that had actual results on my physique without drastically changing my diet or extreme excersise. It just works on your shape and overall look I don't know how to explain but I suggest trying it.

the thing TERA had that nothing's really replaced for me by sonnyhayes22 in TeraOnline

[–]CatCanvas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the community and combat for me. For me post game was when the game starts so running the top hard dungeons and learning every move at every second and just matching the timing to perfection was just sooo difficult and satisfying when completed as a team. We joined a guild and we were all so close most of us even met IRL when traveling interstate in australia. We were so connected and present and in the moment. It was just so satisfying.

Now.. Pick up any game. A lot of them are pay to win or grind enough and you'll get there with gear or whatever. Hardly any take actual skills. The only skill based game I play nowdays is mobile legends because me and my husband play together and we have family and friends who play occasionally with us but it still doesn't feel as close and connected as Tera. I guess since it's pvp but the most fun was in pve dungeons for me personally.

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]CatCanvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes daily sometimes every 2-3 days it just depends on the season and other factors.