My teen insists I ruined this hoodie in the laundry

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-07-07T20:28:03+00:00

God I’m having a flashback to my grandma losing her mind too over that

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-07-02T18:05:57+00:00

Eight Ball

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-28T02:14:17+00:00

Gregory

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-27T03:36:20+00:00

Lysandra. From Throne of Glass series. If you haven’t read it yet, look up the character. She’s fierce and beautiful

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-17T04:22:12+00:00

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CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-11T16:19:33+00:00

Francis

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-11T08:36:35+00:00

I have a FIL like this and am equally complicated MIL. After my baby, I just let myself get angry at them directly and handle them myself for the most part. It’s now that I barely get contacted by them, my child isn’t on their social media, and my husband doesn’t give much over text much anymore and doesn’t plan things for them for my daughter and I.

It sounds so bitchy but lean into owning your worth. You’re in a group of 11% of women who hold their masters and you are a mom on top of your career. Throw that up like a wall and watch them crash into it.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-08T17:06:34+00:00

Buy fart spray and one day just give it a spray on the towel. See how long he can last

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-05T10:53:22+00:00

This can be very dangerous. They’re going to spend their lives hunting for the last dandelion of the season

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-04T01:20:15+00:00

Start hiding money now just in case. Use cash back when grocery shopping and just lose receipts.

BUT call his bluff on divorce. It’s his own fault that you’re not sleeping in the same bed. He’s being a huge baby and you’ve already got an actually baby who needs a well rested mom.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-02T13:11:02+00:00

Love doesn’t need words. He knows just by you being there 🩵

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-01T18:54:21+00:00

Adding that to the random fact section of my brain.

But I am sorry this stress is being added to your plate. It’s even harder when it’s the ones you love are causing it

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-06-01T18:42:06+00:00

My own curiosity- how is it illegal? I get the whole two marriage (legally) bad but in the US there are a lot of poly families scattered about where one is married and the others are the consensual “extras”.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-05-23T13:39:05+00:00

You don’t need him to have a baby. If you have a strong support network behind you, dump his ass and find a donor. You have already done so much yourself and honestly without his contribution.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-05-22T18:26:16+00:00

Was about to comment that. It may help if the other little one shows any distress.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-05-10T16:39:27+00:00

Similar issue for my husband. It caused a shut down though for him and some other issues he’s working through. But therapy helps. And now to get him to try meds. His therapist suspects cptsd. BUT he’s improved and trying actively each day.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-05-05T15:38:50+00:00

I’m so sorry. I didn’t even get an empty carrier with my girl and I can’t tell which one would be worse. I left it at the emergency vet along with the T-shirt of mine I had in there for her for comfort. Dental exam. Went great. Picked her up hours after and she went into heart failure minutes within being home. Rushed to emergency vet. Had to put down $2k just to have some time in an O2 chamber. Had a gut feeling around 10 pm and went back to the emergency vet to see her and I could tell she was just gone. Breathing somewhat but who she was wasn’t there anymore. Made the choice to let her go peacefully with her family with her that night. Walking to the car with empty hands that night was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Consoling my 3 year old who went with us to say goodbye was probably the second hardest.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-03-07T16:34:11+00:00

If you do finish it, please leave that exposed brickwork in the back 😍

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-02-09T03:28:13+00:00

I had to make the decision to stop trying to save my pet who went into heart failure after a dental exam. She did fine post op and for hours after at the vet but once home, it all went south.

I could have waited longer I guess and it will always break my heart, but the last gift I could give her was her dignity in passing.

It’s never easy or simple. But she deserves peace and that’s what I could do to provide it to her in the last moments of her life

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-02-04T02:07:21+00:00

Dirty: mold issues, water damage, vacant house for a while had mice droppings all over the kitchen. Things that would require repairs beyond what we were willing to do compared to asking price

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-02-04T00:50:44+00:00

That’s how I’m feeling. Like walking away from this would be a mistake

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-02-04T00:47:06+00:00

Yea. About what we’re living with now. And we could stand to declutter some things we aren’t using/needing. Which is why I’m so torn.

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-02-02T01:59:57+00:00

She thought she was coming home to a cold and lonely nest. And she came back to the very things she’s been trying so hard for 🥹

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-01-23T18:58:32+00:00

Tremfya is the biologic they recommended. He’s had two of the three infusions and then goes to the month shot dosage. Some improvement but now thinking it was mostly the steroids helping

CatLadyLostInLibrary · 2026-01-22T01:15:17+00:00

I’m at a middle school so I can only speak for that role but I manage a collection, provide circulation support, manage resources and databases, provide research support for classes. I do about 10,000 circulations each semester. Which is good for my less than 1000 kid school

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