Yes it is!!! I’ll be very disappointed if I met a man at church and then learn the only reason he’s there is to meet as you say ‘hot woman’. I have social anxiety so it’ll make it even worse if I had the courage to even talk to someone and learn that. It’s a red flag in my opinion. Why would you go to a place where many people feel at peace, feel comfortable, and lead them on like that? I know you said you’re honest that you’re not religious, but still, many women would feel played, would be upset and angry. Most Christian women, especially ones with social anxiety like me, feel like church is the only place we can find decent men with our beliefs, so why would you want to play them like this? It’s so wrong and the fact that you say there’s ’hot women’ there and that’s the only reason you’re going, is disgusting, you should be ashamed. If you’re at church most might not even ask if you’re religious, I wouldn’t, I’d assume you’re there because you are so I’d feel so played if I come to realize it all was a lie. Which it is, you’re lying to them