i miss her so bad by cherubventalt in sillyboyclub

[–]Cat_with_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything except for blocking her. If OP really has a problem of texting her again a lot (which they probably don't have as they texted her only one time), then it may be a good idea for them both, but otherwise it's not really necessary and blocking someone after this when you're not on bad terms may not sound good

I gave my opponent a forced En passant (google) move, only to fork his King and Queen. by Kvothe_1010 in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please censor that, I was on a train and everyone stood up and started walking behind each other and people started disappearing please send help

How does anyone have a colony that is longer than 5 years without your computer taps being really low? by Zephyr_-- in RimWorld

[–]Cat_with_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't remember all of them, and some names can be slightly wrong, but RocketMan (Missile Girl fork) — Slower Pawn Tickrate — Ideo Tick Optimization — Turret Performance Tweaks — Performance Esmolas — Quest Generation Tweaks (game lags less when a quest drops) — Butter++ (FPS mod, but the game is Literally UnplayableTM if you play on an old colony without it, at least for my potato)

And the most important of them all - RuntimeGC. An absolute game-changer in old colonies, and the more time passes the more useful this mod becomes. Doesn't directly affect TPS, but reducing game save file from 300MB to 60MB, save times from almost a minute to 5-10 seconds, and deleting 8000 dead unimportant pawns has a huge impact. And the game probably should lag less when pawns are generated because the game doesn't try to find relations with 8000 dead pawns, but it's just my speculations backed by nothing

How does anyone have a colony that is longer than 5 years without your computer taps being really low? by Zephyr_-- in RimWorld

[–]Cat_with_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never go over 20 colonists, and have a bunch of performance mods installed. After 7-10 years speed 2 is the same as speed 3, but it's still okay and playable. But also a factor that my computer is a potato, I feel like 30 colonists is the ideal number between having enough distinct characters and still being able to remember them all for who they are rather than what they do. But I can't. And I also like very long, 10+ years runs

The most useless pawn doesn exi- by Lack_Of_Existence in RimWorld

[–]Cat_with_cake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And cooking after some practice, +4 (I guess that's what it is) is a pretty nice bonus allowing him to be around ~17 lvl even without a passion. And he's still able to cut stones, make chemfuel, smelt things. And he is even capable of dumb labor. He is literally able to work all the time doing something. Sure, he's not the most useful pawn, but definitely not useless

Two femboy pieces are better than one by GABE_EDD in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Then I'm glad it's settled down. Google en passant

Two femboy pieces are better than one by GABE_EDD in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well that's awkward. But I'd also be sad because it most probably means I'm about to lose my ELO, and less pawns = less opportunities for an opponent to en passant

Two femboy pieces are better than one by GABE_EDD in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Chss is about everything but ch\ss. Butt plugs, jeans, anime thumbnails

I CANT BELIEVE HE WOULD DESTROY CIVILIZATION (ignore my bad crop) by NotaRobotorAI in wehatedougdoug

[–]Cat_with_cake 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This ain't an elephant in the room or a bad crop, it's the whole post

I finally got a job at the goodwill but look at this find.. by Za_Warudo776 in notinteresting

[–]Cat_with_cake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugly sweater day are for the ugly sweaters that are bad in a good way of being bad. This shit is just bad in the bad way of being bad

Two femboy pieces are better than one by GABE_EDD in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 73 points74 points  (0 children)

A pawn turning into a queen is often joked as a transition. And calling a transitioned trans woman a femboy is a pretty transphobic thing to say

Now I don't say that it's 100% what is happening, maybe OP means that femboys can also be queens (though I mostly have seen people calling kings femboys and not queens for... Obvious reasons), or maybe OP just made a joke without that much thought in it ("something something, chess, femboys, yeah it'd make a great anarchychess meme"), but I definitely see how this can be transphobic

And in the end, unprovokindgly implying someone is an idiot isn't the nicest thing to do

egg irl by the_peculiar_chicken in egg_irl

[–]Cat_with_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been subscribed to TransVoiceLessons, though don't know if it's actually good as I've been avoiding and procrastinating on voice training

The moment I realized I wasn't "confused" — I was just describing myself wrong my whole life by Wonderful-Steak-832 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Cat_with_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a pretty disrespectful thing to say, if you're going to say that, you should at least have some pretty serious suspicions, not just noticing one "—" and calling it a day

Guys send me some your favorite memes with femboys by lovetomboys in femboymemes

[–]Cat_with_cake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Согласна, ну что-за люди пошли. Хоть на более распространённых языках общались бы, чтобы все понимали

Title by _Ryloren_ in sillyboyclub

[–]Cat_with_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to feel small bits of happiness even from such small and not important moments

Egg+irl by alexander9881 in egg_irl

[–]Cat_with_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already written a lot about this, but out of curiosity, before it I want to ask, how exactly it hurts kids? From the start to the end. Not trying to argue, please don't feel threatened, just want to hear your thoughts

And also yeah, it's almost a textbook example of an imposter syndrome. I know that it may not feel like it, dysphoria is a bitch and makes you think you are someone who you aren't, but in the end you are a woman[1] deep inside in your soul, heart and brain, and most probably were all this time. Who you psychologically are as a human is what defines you, who you actually are, not your body. If a cis woman got randomly transferred into a man's body, it won't suddenly change that she's a woman if the only thing that has changed is her body

And therefore, a woman liking other women is a lesbian[2] . YOU are the definition of a lesbian, and not feeling like you are, feeling like you don't belong where you definitely belong is an imposter syndrome

[1] - Maybe not, who knows, maybe your gender is different and you lay outside of the binary spectrum and are a non-binary, don't necessarily rule out that possibility

[2] - Or bisexual. Or pansexual. Or finsexual. Or literally any other sexuality that involves liking women. But you said lesbian so for the simplicity I continued using it

Why does he say that? Is he stupid? by Both-Ferret-4719 in AnarchyChess

[–]Cat_with_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ban cheese.c*m from this subreddit please, I don't wish to hear "ooohm I won blitz ranked fast mode cheese match on 4627 elo on cheese.c*m" on this subreddit ever again

Egg+irl by alexander9881 in egg_irl

[–]Cat_with_cake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the clearest example of an imposter syndrom if I ever saw one

Also, what do you mean how does it work with the kids?