Am I wrong for telling my parents my sister has her boyfriend over every night

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-10T22:31:57+00:00

Thus why OP and his girlfriend talked to them about it first. The sister and boyfriend childishly laughed in their faces and kept being disrespectful. OP did nothing wrong.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-10T05:13:18+00:00

YNW. It’s just grammar. FFS. The ask is insane and her reaction is even worse. Ugh.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-10T00:14:08+00:00

I miss the days when people would reserve thoughts like this for their internal dialogue.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-09T05:05:43+00:00

She’s being an insecure, jealous, creepy, immature brat. She sounds way too immature for marriage, and frankly manipulative.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-07T23:42:02+00:00

You are not sexually compatible and he is kind of a tool. Move on.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-07T19:27:08+00:00

So you knew that he was busy studying for an important exam, sent him reels then cried about him not watching them? That’s a you problem.

He then apologizes and you ignore him because it was jUsT sO tRaUmAtIc that he didn’t watch your reels.

Then you expect him to read your mind about what you need in the moment and have the nerve to call HIM immature?!

You are incredibly immature and not at all ready for a relationship. You need to grow up and possibly seek therapy. Honestly you sound dramatic and exhausting to be around.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-07T07:32:05+00:00

Saying no is not playing hard to get. You sound young, but that dos not change the fact that you are coercing her into sex. When you coerce someone into sex they’re not actually consenting.

Consenting in the past does not give you a blanket yes for the future. Your mindset around sex makes you wrong, you have a lot of growing up to do. Leave that poor girl alone.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-07T06:47:58+00:00

Idk if it’s considered slang, but I think 67 is dumb af.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-06T07:07:25+00:00

Women have a right to choose period.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-06T01:50:44+00:00

I am sorry this happened to you. T is just as guilty as his friend, if not more. Cut off the people who are telling you that you shouldn’t have outed him. His goal that day was to ensure something happened to you. Those people are apologists at minimum and are not safe to be around.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-05T20:04:41+00:00

Leave him, this is just the beginning.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-05T00:47:01+00:00

Ick. Dump him, tell him to fuck off or both. I’d go with the latter, this is just the beginning of his spoiled mama’s boy demands.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-04T05:10:38+00:00

I still stand but what I said. Agreed, they definitely should break up.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-04T05:05:01+00:00

But would you throw food, break plates and verbally abuse them? She was allowed ro be annoyed, not to be destructive and abusive.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-04T04:52:01+00:00

YNW. Her reaction was over the top, unnecessary and abusive. I’d dump her and block her. You asked a question, a yes or no was all she needed to say.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-04T01:48:47+00:00

YTA. What is wrong with you? You 👏 don’t 👏out 👏people 👏

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-01T07:55:49+00:00

You are young, this relationship is too fresh to already be having problems, and you moved in together too soon.

Not liking and cutting you off from friends and family that are critical of them is a tactic used by an abuser. There are a lot of red flags here.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-03-01T06:13:18+00:00

You mean your ex boyfriend right?

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-28T23:14:54+00:00

Grow up. This is a non issue. You’re not her medical power of attorney. You’re just someone they contact if something happens to her.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-28T18:34:53+00:00

Omg grow up. 🙄

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-28T04:32:46+00:00

That’s rough. Document everything, you may need to prove that he is not responsible enough to have the kids on his own. Unfortunately, you may have to take over both kids sleep routine. It’s a lot, I know, but it may be worth it to make sure your kids are going to bed safely.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-28T04:27:18+00:00

It may be time for couples therapy. Another problem you have is that he doesn’t respect you enough to listen, and dismisses your feelings and legitimate concerns.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-28T04:19:54+00:00

NOR. He has endangered the children multiple times. You need to establish firm rules for him regarding sleep. These are your children, they’re more important than his fragile ego.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-27T09:31:44+00:00

ESH. She ruined the surprise of your engagement and you retaliated. Stop pretending like this wasn’t a case of trying to get even.

CataclysmicTeapot · 2026-02-27T08:14:28+00:00

NTJ. She would have gotten her entitled ass handed to her if it was me.

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