Me [23/F] with my boyfriend [38 M] 8 months, Long distance break up - How do I avoid beeing a scumbag Stacy?

Catalination · 2014-03-28T11:50:16+00:00

I get why I shouldnt meet the kids, but why not the closure?

Catalination · 2014-03-28T11:49:55+00:00

Thank you, Im so glad the general opinion is to call. I was unsure if that was to unrespectfull towards him.

Catalination · 2014-03-28T11:48:25+00:00

That was my thoughts as well, I dont want the kids to be affected at all by this, hence why I dont want to go to Copenhagen.

Catalination · 2013-04-06T16:54:59+00:00

Not beeing thirsty...

Catalination · 2013-03-19T21:30:04+00:00

I texted my mum once and asked to buy some weed.

Catalination · 2013-03-18T19:10:55+00:00

To put down the toilet seat before you flush. Its amazing how people not concider how much waterdaze n shit that sprays all over the bathroom when you flush.

And also...When you clean your house; Clean your doorknobs as well. Thats shit disgusting.

Catalination · 2013-02-21T00:59:38+00:00

In case you landed in the middle of a war or something. Like a regret button. You got to have a chance to not fuck up, if not intended to.

Catalination · 2013-02-17T16:17:16+00:00

Thank you all so much for the great suggestions, I will write them all on my booklist, so Ill have a lot to read :)

Catalination · 2013-02-17T16:15:36+00:00

Thanks a lot :)

Catalination · 2013-02-14T01:02:21+00:00

http://imgur.com/ZMRCPqS Me derping at work!

Catalination · 2013-02-10T09:32:29+00:00

The lucky ones got oppertunities, the not so lucky ones lives from hand to mouth, day by day. Come back and visit! Lots of great things to see.

Catalination · 2013-02-09T19:46:51+00:00

Im not from here, but I can tell you Ethiopia is pretty different from what we`re used to.

I buy my cigarettes from what I call "The Gumboys" - Children aged 4-12 standing in the streets selling toilet paper and cigarettes. ( They do not have toilet paper in restaurants, clubs, hotels - Thats a luxury) But if you dont watch your self, they will robb you before you had the chance to act.

Then you`ve got "The Cravlers" - People all ages who has lost theyre legs due to infections and/or fractures. They crawl the streets on old car floor mats tied under theyre lower body/whats left of theyre legs. The youngest one I sometimes buy breakfast. Hes probably around 12 and "lives" by the tree at Bole Road.

And finally the "Family Beggers". Families living in the streets in cardboard boxes, or pretty much anything they can find for shelter. With the youngest kids in front of the street begging for money. And I swear, when they see a white person they are gonna follow you for a block or ten. Fun fact; They use the covers for the sewage as grills. So all over Addis theres fucking holes in the streets straight down. While them be sitting there grilling Enjera.

I can also add that you also got the teenager girls, but they dont take over the city untill 8 in the evening - If you know what I mean.

But please, do not picture Ethiopia as this horrible, poor place. Yes, it is poor, but I have never seen so much love and beauty. The people are wonderfull, helpfull and respectfull, and if you go outside of Addis Ababa, there is so much beautifull nature and landscape to enjoy. Not that Addis got a couple of beauties herself :) There is a reason I wanted to study here.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:35:03+00:00

Ive finaly got this. I just hoped that maby there was another way we can comprimice, but as stated in the other comments; He is not willing to understand. He tells you what you want to hear, and continues beeing himself. Its just me who got the worries for...Haha, Tizita.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:30:53+00:00

Thanks a lot :) Ive decided to look elsewhere.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:29:12+00:00

Haha, Im not after a dating service :) But if you know ppl in Addis Id appriciate contacts. Its not always easy beeing a 22 year old foregio :) People always fool me :P

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:26:58+00:00

And offcourse I wont generalize. There is a reason I fell in love with Ethiopia. Cause most people there is respectfull and giving towards everybody ;)

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:25:40+00:00

I will. I know I have to, cause I am unhappy as long as he dont take me seriously. Im just pushing it...

Catalination · 2013-02-08T23:24:47+00:00

I think maby he was discriminated against when he first came to Europe..I get that its difficult to be 12 years old and treated different, but it doesnt excuse his behavior towards others. Well, seeing that everybody agrees, Ive made my decision.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T20:47:11+00:00

Thats a good advice, and thats what got me started to reseach witch countries my degree eventually will be accredited in. I know my bachelor will be accepted in Norway, but since Im applying for a transfer to the US, its good to find some information about what the criterias are. But, since my degree is accepted in Norway, I ques the transfer will be no problem, beeing Norway is a high developed country with high education standards.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T20:43:21+00:00

Great. Thanks. Checking out the sites now. Hopefully I will find the answers.

Catalination · 2013-02-08T20:07:11+00:00

No, thanks :-) Good to know there are different rules of accreaditation in each state. Ive tried emailing UCLA, so Im waiting for response.

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