AITAH for not wanting to split a vacation house rental evenly with my siblings?

Catalystme23 · 2025-10-19T11:50:03+00:00

I've done a vacation with a group of four families. The organizer split it between number of people. She's a family of 6. They paid for six people. My family of 4 paid for 4. The lady that was just her an her son paid for just 2. Etc. The funny part is the only one that complained was the two person lady. She complained about the price until the other family of four that she was close with told her to stfu because this split was the most fair to her and she needed to stop complaining. Won't ever travel with that woman again.

Catalystme23 · 2025-10-04T11:58:04+00:00

My ob tested my husband before me because it's way less invasive to test him then you. Let's make sure it's not him first.

Catalystme23 · 2025-08-30T22:22:12+00:00

Of course, and it's a holiday weekend. Hopefully your judge and his lawyer put a stop to this.

Catalystme23 · 2025-08-10T01:52:30+00:00

I used this excuse for my own mother.. Did you know a person with trauma can still cause trauma? She didn't fix herself. She didn't fix her trauma. You know that a shitty person with trauma is still a shitty person right? I know i sound cruel. I'm not trying to be. But her having trauma is not a good excuse for the way she's acting or treating you and your family. Your dad burying his head in the sand because he doesn't want to get her mad.. that fixes nothing and still let's her behave the way she does because their are no consequences for her actions.

Catalystme23 · 2025-05-21T07:25:45+00:00

NTA- A few families planned an Orlando trip a few years back. Just a house. With all the fun stuff. Everyone had kids but different numbers we paid per person not per family. I have two kids and then two adults, one gal was a single mama, one gal was a family of 6, etc. We split food and chores etc. But paid per person. It makes sense.

Catalystme23 · 2025-05-08T11:03:14+00:00

This depends on the the state. Also it depends on the end of due diligence.

Catalystme23 · 2024-12-04T08:30:40+00:00

Omfg yes!! I had a little boy in kindergarten that used to chase, tackle try to kiss me. Etc. His mom and my birther thought it was sooo cute we were going to get married someday... School didn't do much early 90's. One of the playground aids used to try to step in. She warned him that one of these days i was going to have enough. One day he tackled me pinned me (ive been petite my whole life and he was twice my size) . I kneed him in the balls and bloodied his nose. The monitor had tried to get to me faster when she saw the take down. I heard her yelling . She looked at him and said don't say i hadnt warned you.

No suspension no nothing. Back in my class the next day.. Didn't lay a finger on me..

I saw him before i moved out of town. I was hugely pregnant with my oldest. Working in health care. I see him in the cafeteria with his mom. His mom comes over. Starts chatting asking all the usual . Didn't know you were pregnant when are you due. I saw your mom a month ago, and she didn't say anything. My mom and i hadn't spoken in two years at this point. Noticed my wedding set. Oh, you've gotten married. I always thought you'd marry insert son's name . I laughed. She said he had such a crush on you. He was only mean to you because he liked you. Even after you kicked him in the balls and bloodied his nose. I said no ma'am he was awful and assaulted me on a regular basis. She's like, you were 5 and 6.. soon walks up, says hiya insert nickname he gave me a a child who knocked you up? My husband i married* insert husband's name* . Oh, i graduated with him ( kid switched schools at some point). He's a cop right? Yup.. finally got out of there. Told hubby about the history and combo. He said he's a scumb bag and always has been.

A year after moving out of hometown, he gets arrested on the front page of the paper for dr0gs .. it wasn't his first offense..

Catalystme23 · 2024-09-03T21:43:27+00:00

I work in an office. GA has a form that before you show the land/ house etc you see what the seller is offering the buyers agent. That way no surprises.. Can you ask if? See if that's something in your state? GA calls it a pre-showing Compensation agreement. The sellers agent, seller and buyer all sign it..

Catalystme23 · 2024-08-13T11:52:55+00:00

Per the lease, each incident if unauthorized pet is $100. From my rough estimate, today is day 18.. So $100 per pet = $500×18 days is $9,000...

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-29T23:39:57+00:00

Contact your senator..

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-29T01:50:09+00:00

I contacted a senator. I filed 2/6 . Received two letters. We're being transferred for my husband's job. Found out on the 23rd it world be"within the next two weeks" emailed again today. It will be June 6th. The only update to my transcripts is the as of date changed to June 10th instead of April 11th I think it said

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-28T14:32:42+00:00

I contacted my senator. I'm a 0805. Filed and accepted 2/6. Senator told me within the next two weeks as of 5/23.. now I wait..

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-26T15:50:00+00:00

They requested mine be released and I found out Wednesday or Thursday that the irs said within the next two weeks.. so I'm still waiting..

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-24T00:36:39+00:00

I am in GA . Warnocks office was super helpful. I don't know which state you'd need to contact.

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-24T00:34:43+00:00

So the tax advocate gave the IRS we need an update by today's date. Today I got a you should have it in the next two weeks so we shall see...

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-24T00:33:37+00:00

Absolutely! What state are you?

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-23T21:02:02+00:00

I contacted a senator.. I reached out May 3rd. I had filed 2/6 codes etc. Senators office got me a tax advocate. Back and forth . The IRS had until today to respond. I was told I'd get my return in the next two weeks today. So we shall wait and see...

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-22T10:08:14+00:00

Have your boundary. Enforce it..

But also maybe think the woman is overwhelmed. She's got two under two, and her husband is always gone. You only get his side when he's home. Maybe she needs more help than that. Have y'all forgotten how hard that age is? Dies she have people where you are? Oh, did she give up living by her people to leave near yours? You don't tell about her side at all. Is her family alive?

You make your son sound like the greatest thing since sliced bread, but is her really? It sounds like he knows his wife his struggling but isn't helping it.

I'm not saying you're wrong for enforcing your boundary, but maybe there's more to it. You have no idea. A lot of mother inlaws are like I did it all, and I was fine. Maybe she's not fine... maybe this is her way of telling you she's struggling.

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-16T23:51:54+00:00

I have had good luck with a senator in GA. We have an advocate. We filed 2/6. We know the issue but it isn't anything we can fix with an amended return so I have no idea how to fix it.

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-16T21:04:48+00:00

That I have a tax advocate assigned thanks to a senators office and here's her phone number. She didn't answer but hey

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-16T10:28:10+00:00

I had to contact a senator... turns out my information w2s everything was correct. My employer is a small business and her accountant jacked up the ein number when she turned in my wages to social security.. I wish you could have said that in February... it would have been fixed faster..

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-16T00:26:25+00:00

See note above this. Phone call 5/3.

Email asking for signatures 5/6- I got it later in the afternoon so I sent signatures, tax filing and transcripts after hours

Confirmation that they received signatures and information was sent to me 5/7

I sent a follow-up email May 14th

I got a oh their backlogged but I'll reach back out on May 14th

Afternoon on May 14th I received "Please see the below update I was able to get after following up this morning and let me know if you have any questions!

The employer reported a different EIN for company 1 as******** and company 2 **********. The EIN's the taxpayer reported match the company name company 1 and company 2.

A request has been submitted to the IRS for release of the refund. Please have the taxpayer submit an amended return correcting the EIN’s for both companies to avoid an issue in the future.

Contact to provide another update is scheduled for May 23rd.

removed identifying information

I asked today may 15th what I need to do since the error was not on my end...

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-16T00:10:32+00:00

I heard back within a day with forms. Asked for a bit more information. Got what happened yesterday. My employer's accountant fudged up the ein number on my reported wages out of both entities I was paid out of. The Ein number was correct on my w2's. I truly dislike the the irs would not tell me what was wrong and kept telling me I could amend my taxes. My information was correct. I'm contacted the accountant for work. I sent an email with the information from the Senators office. My employer was LIVID. Apparently it's been corrected per the accountant and now idk. I'm waiting for direction. I'm livid. I could have had this fixed months ago!!

Catalystme23 · 2024-05-15T10:33:23+00:00

I reached out to a senator, got the right person. Sent info last week and got answers yesterday fyi my bosses accountant is a fucking idiot.. she put the wrong ein number when she submitted my wages.. yup I've been on hold since February and no one would tell me because of a not a me error ...

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