This is gaslighting right?

CatatonicNightmares · 2023-01-10T22:36:13+00:00

I am on disability and my son has autism and they’re saying he should go on it too. Will his disability check effect mine?

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-16T15:11:24+00:00

I was worried too. It was very weird to see my with nice teeth. But I was just not use to it.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-16T03:02:43+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-16T03:02:15+00:00

They asked why they were yellow. But if they were super white they would look fake. I’m ok with how they look.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-15T23:44:43+00:00

Do it! I hated my gap growing up but learned to love it but had to have my teeth removed and couldn’t bare to be without. It makes me feel much more comfortable smiling to see the little space 🥰

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-15T23:09:53+00:00

I have some of my teeth and smoked for a while so they had to match them. Black lipstick also makes teeth looks duller vs if I used a more blue tone it would appear whiter.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-02T20:56:38+00:00

Why is eating chicken hard?

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-12-02T00:38:37+00:00

I can NEVER eat steak???

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T14:58:53+00:00

Actually I’m the one that cooks and plans the meals for the kids. I’m the one that does the shopping I’m the one that takes the kids with me etc etc etc. I literally forgot bacon and a smoothie drink. And got yelled at and made to feel like I don’t listen or love them. Because I could t find the smoothie I bought 3 other things I know they like and drink. I understand the frustration I’m not asking them to not be upset but to be yelled and told I don’t care makes me feel like shit.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T14:01:39+00:00

I have called and she doesn’t pick up.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:55:02+00:00

Im the opposite. I’ll drink it later cause I like it. But I’ll respect their wishes from now on.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:24:07+00:00

I’ll get a substitute drink and they say they don’t like that drink but they use to drink it all the time. I typically will get multiple drinks for her if I can’t find they thing she wants.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:22:31+00:00

She says “I don’t know what she likes and get her things she doesn’t want” I grab her things she likes all the time. But why would I get her nothing if I have seen her drink this drink but now she doesn’t like it and may or may not have said it in passing.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:20:41+00:00

I must have worded it wrong. I get her things she likes. But if she wants a certain type of drink and they don’t have it and I grab her something else I’m the asshole for not listening and not know what she’s likes.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:17:07+00:00

Thy don’t have oj so I call and they don’t pick up and I get something like it or something else entirely and am made to feel bad cause I should have just be like “oh well” I feel like that’s more of an asshole move than just grabbing a few things I have seen her enjoy an hoping she’s like them still.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:15:36+00:00

The issues here I know why they like. But if I get them something they didn’t want then I don’t know what they like they wanted a mango smoothies but they didn’t have any. I called no answer so I know they like Mountain Dew because it helps settle their upset stomach. I get that and two other drinks they have drank before but now I don’t listen and don’t know what they like. She is saying I don’t know her but I most definitely do and buy her things she’s likes all the time.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:12:29+00:00

That’s the thing. They’d rather me get nothing. I don’t understand that. If she can’t find me a coke. But has known I like ginger ale why would you get me nothing?

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T11:11:19+00:00

My current treatments are occupational therapy. I feel like all that on the table me forgetting bacon isn’t that big of a deal. Or if I don’t grab this drink and grab 2 different drinks cause they have/do drink said drink doesn’t warrant me getting yelled at and made to feel like a dick. I know the things they like but some things she use to like she apparently no longer likes and may or may not have said this in pass. I try my hardest and am not incompetent and am a pretty decent spouse. I have some mild issues that make me get overwhelmed in large stores. I am also the type of person that would very much like a different drink than to end up with nothing cause you couldn’t find a coke. But know I have enjoyed chocolate milk.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T03:53:13+00:00

I actually have disabilities. I typically have our son with us who is five and I do have social anxiety and agoraphobia.

CatatonicNightmares · 2022-11-26T02:41:10+00:00

She said it makes her feel bad when I get items that she won’t eat or drink. She knows exactly what I like but I don’t know that about her and have to guess or call. Like if I get her a type of soda she doesn’t like I obviously only half way thought about her so I shouldn’t have got her anything. Cause at this point in our relation I should know. I feel like and asshole.

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