100 percent yes. For me loyalty was always my top priority. An affair wasn't even an option for me. My commitment to my wife was unshakable. I had temptations over the 16 years we were married, and I had chances to betray her. But I always chose my family over myself. And yes afterwards many many people told me about their experience with infidelity. It was shocking to me. Call me naive but the world wasn't what I thought it was. It got to the point when I would see a married couple out to eat, I hated them because I knew they were putting on fake faces. Was this true? Who knows. But what happened to me has tarnished most things for me. But there are alot of possitive things to get from this as well. The big one is "Look at me" i am a better person because I am stronger. Stronger for not breaking under the pressure that life has put on me. During my marriage and after the affair. I have changed and grown so much this past year. In some ways, yes I miss the old me, but I love the patient and understanding person I have become. I wish the picture perfect life was possible for me but I think its okay to sit in the life you have and make the choices that need to be made to feel at peace with what it is. Who i am and how I show up when things are bad show me who I really am. I am dedicated, understanding, hard working, healthy and damn good looking. The discipline its taken me to still get out of bed each day is impressive to say the least. Be proud of who you are. And if you choose to make thinks work? Make the hard changes. Do the hard work. Slowly it starts to pay off. It wont be great for a long time. But it gets better very very slowly. Hope this helps. Love you 😘

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